Letting Go of False Attachments

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Letting go isn’t just about ending a relationship. Sometimes, it’s more about freeing your heart from someone who has had a grip on it.

Perhaps there was someone you felt a deep connection to, invested a lot of emotion in, and even prayed about. You saw the potential, and you were so hopeful for more. But for some reason, things never blossomed like you imagined. And even when communication fades or they move on, it’s like your heart is still tangled up in those feelings.

It can be tough to put into words. You’re not in a relationship, but you don’t feel fully free either. You catch yourself thinking about them, checking in on them, or just in a way waiting—even if it’s all in your head—for something to change.

These emotional ties can linger quietly, but they can really weigh you down. They might not seem like sin, but they create confusion and make it difficult to hear God clearly. They can also mess with how you see love, timing, and trust.

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, Hebrews 12:1 (NIV)

The scripture above tells us to let go of anything that ensnares us—things that stop us from fully running the race God has laid out for us. This includes relationships, feelings, or expectations that aren’t based on truth.

God doesn’t just tell us to let go of the wrong things; He helps us do it. But it takes intentionality. Sometimes it’s not a grand gesture. It could just be a quiet release, some honest prayers, and a slow healing process.

Tomorrow, I will share some practical steps to help you let go.

Don’t miss it.