How to Handle One-Sided Love – Part 1

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Sometimes in relationships, we find ourselves giving a lot of love and effort and never getting it back. You call, you text, you make plans, but the other person doesn’t even run to meet you halfway. It can be not very encouraging and even make you question your own worth. But know this that your value is not based on someone else’s feelings or actions. A one-sided love doesn’t mean you’re wrong; it just means they aren’t ready or able to give the same energy right now.

“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23

Signs you might be in a one-sided relationship:

1. You’re always the one reaching out.
2. They rarely prioritize spending time with you.
3. Their words don’t match their actions.
4. You feel emotionally drained but keep hoping things will change.

Reflect on these questions:

1. Am I depending on their love to feel good about myself?
2. Have I ignored warning signs because I wanted the relationship to work?
3. How can I make sure I’m loving in a healthy way without needing something back?

In conclusion

God cares about your heart. Investing in someone who does not reciprocate can drain your energy and distract you from God’s plan for your life. One-sided love is often a signal to evaluate the relationship honestly and protect your emotional and spiritual health.