5 Do’s in Godly Dating

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Dating is one of those things that everyone has advice about. Some people make it sound casual, like it is not that deep, while others overcomplicate it. But here’s the truth: dating matters because your heart is involved, and who you give your heart to can shape your life.

God never meant for dating to feel like guesswork. He gave us principles to protect us, not to cage us.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14

Let’s talk through some very practical “do’s that can help you keep God at the center while protecting your heart.

1. Pray first, not last.

Too often, people start dating and then only run to God when things get messy. But prayer should come first. Before saying “yes” to someone, talk to God about it. While you are in it, keep praying.

Prayer keeps you sensitive to warning signs, helps you see beyond emotions, and anchors you when things get shaky.

2. Be yourself, don’t fake it

Do not try to act like someone you are not just to impress the other person. If you are passionate about your faith, say it. If you have boundaries, be open about them.

Pretending only leads to disappointment later. The right relationship will allow you to be fully you without shame.

3. Watch their actions, not just what they say.

It is easy for someone to say all the right things, but words without action are empty. Pay attention: Do they live out their faith, or is it just talk?

Actions will always reveal character more than sweet promises.

4. Push each other closer to God.

A godly relationship should make you grow spiritually, not shrink. If praying together, studying Scripture, or encouraging each other in your walk with God feels awkward in your relationship, pause and think.

The best relationships are the ones that don’t just make you happy but also make you holy.

5. Draw clear boundaries—and actually respect them.

Boundaries are not about fear or being “too spiritual.” They are about respect—for yourself, for the other person, and for God. Talk about them early. Stick to them.

When you cross them, regret often follows. When you honor them, peace follows.