5 Don’ts in Godly Dating

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Yesterday, we talked about some ‘dos’ in godly dating. Today, we will explore the ‘don’ts’.

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14

1. Don’t trade your values to keep someone.

If you have to compromise your convictions to make a relationship work, then that relationship is costing you too much. Love that forces you to disobey God is not love—it’s bondage.

2. Don’t ignore the red flags

That uneasy feeling you keep brushing aside? That habit that bothers you, but you convince yourself, “they’ll change”? Those things matter. Red flags ignored today usually become heartbreak tomorrow.

3. Don’t rush the intimacy.

Love takes time to grow. When physical or emotional intimacy comes too quickly, it blinds you from seeing clearly. Slow down. If it’s real, it won’t die because you took your time.

4. Don’t date just because you feel lonely.

Loneliness has pushed many people into relationships that were never God’s plan. If you are dating only to fill a void, you’ll end up settling for less than you deserve. Learn to enjoy your own company with God first.

5. Don’t let people’s pressure dictate your choices.

Family, friends, even culture will try to rush you—“When will you marry? Why are you still single?” But remember: it’s your life, and it belongs to God. His timing may not match their timeline, but it is always perfect.

Conclusion

Godly dating is not about being uptight or following endless rules. It’s about being wise, protecting your heart, and building something that glorifies God.