Having God As Your Husband

Having God As Your Husband

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Every wife should get to a point where no matter how loving and romantic and cordial they are with their spouses, they still give God His place.

God deserves the first place in our lives and He wants to have all of our hearts, minds, energy, and best of our beings. God is a jealous God and He will not share His glory with any other man, not even our husbands.

Our husbands no matter how much they love us, they cannot love us like Jesus. They cannot die for us. That’s why Jesus is the lover of our souls. He alone can love deeply and extravagantly.

If our husbands are godly, God will reveal to them how to love and treat us. But that also depends on how well they can receive from the Lord.

Our spouses at the very best are still ‘human’. They are not given to meet all our needs. They can only try. God wants our attention, focus, love and worship.

You cannot beg to be loved. Rather, look to God to meet your deepest emotional needs.

Most spouses’ don’t even understand their wives. We are so wired differently. So sometimes, they are not being wicked, they don’t just have a clue on how to love us the right way and that is when God steps in. He wants to meet all our emotional, spiritual, social, and physical needs. He knows us because He created us.

There are some of our needs that we don’t even understand or can articulate in the right way or with the right words, making it difficult for even our husbands to try to meet.

So take the frustration off your husband and off your marriage. Let your spouse do what he can do and allow God do what He can and wants to do.

Don’t let your esteem or self worth come solely from your spouse. Your self worth should come from God.

You are very special to God. You worth so much to Him. You are royalty. You are the apple of His eyes. God will go all the way to protect you.

For thy Maker is thine husband; the Lord of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called. For the Lord hath called thee as a woman forsaken and grieved in spirit, and a wife of youth, when thou wast refused, saith thy God. – Isaiah 54:5 – 6 KJV

The scripture is telling us that thy Maker is thy husband. God is not just trying to be our husband or writing an application to be our husbands.

We have to receive this words, believe it and walk in the light of it. We have to mediate on it so much until it becomes real to our hearts.
God is saying we are Mrs God. What a privilege! We are not just His princesses, we are married to Him.

He is our maker. He understands us. He knows our wiring because He put them there. He knows what words to speak to us per time.

We are married to the Almighty, all powerful, the wealthiest being on the earth and in heaven. Hallelujah! Its so comforting and refreshing to know God finds you so lovely, flawless and gorgeous.

Some other women are being treated harshly by their husbands. They are oppressed, bullied and abused. God wants you to shift your focus from the hurt you are experiencing. Give that hurt to God your husband. He knows how to fix it. God is introducing Himself as the Lord of hosts. You are Royalty, her Royal Majesty.

Never forget that. Find a way to always remind yourself that. I always wear a tiny chain around my neck to remind me that I am royalty. I am loved by God.

I will get into what it means to have God as your husband tomorrow by God’s grace.

God bless our marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I enjoy the love of God in my marriage.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Father I receive help to be all you desire me to be.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 54:5 For thy Maker is thine husband; the LORD of hosts is his name; and thy Redeemer the Holy One of Israel; The God of the whole earth shall he be called.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Say to yourself: God is my husband

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 54

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The Lord Meets My Needs

The Lord Meets My Needs

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Do you know that the Lord meets your needs? There are several verses one can recite offhand. One of it is the shepherds psalm.

Every child is taught right from Sunday school days. It is so easy to memorize.

The LORD [is] my shepherd; I shall not want – Psa 23:1

The Lord is…it didn’t say the Lord was…

This assures us that God is very ready to meet out immediate needs.

God is a God of the now, one that can relate with you based on what you are going through at every point in time.

Here is another verse to confirm that;

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. – Psalms 46:1

There you have it again. God is… Isn’t it wonderful to know this God?

Children, it is not enough to be able to recite this verse or several others verses offhand, you must allow the revelation of these verses to hit you and stick with you.

That way, when faced with any form of trial, you have what it takes to stand tall, even in the midst of contradictions.

May God grant you more understanding. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, always help me to trust you at all times.

Action point:
List out your needs and begin to declare God’s word over them.

Declaration:
The needs and wants of my children are met supernaturally.

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How To Understand The Lady In Your Life – Part 2

How To Understand The Lady In Your Life – Part 2

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2. Understand her Needs

Her needs are specialized and peculiar. They are different from your own needs. From spiritual needs to physical needs and emotional needs, you have to find out!

You will immediately discover her preferences, that what excites you on Television doesn’t not tickle her fancy! Find out and seek to meet those needs!

3. Understand her Language

Her language is like her password. It could be gifts, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch or acts of service.

You don’t communicate to her on your own terms but on her own terms.

Find out her definition of “romantic” and go after that.
The definition of the word “romantic” is not what you find in a dictionary, but there is a dictionary in her mind with its own definition like no other, authored by her, and you have to find a way to retrieve that dictionary and check the definition which would often be different from what you think.

4. Understand her pressures

She usually has pressures. Most times, she is not even seeking for those pressures to be taken away, because they are often necessities of life.

She just wants to know that there is somebody who understands what she is going through.

Many years ago, my wife explained this to me. She was pouring her hearts to me, and expounding her pressures and at a point I bursted out;

“Hey! I am not the Holy Spirit. I cannot take these things away!”

“And then she looked at me and said,

“I know you are not the Holy Spirit. I am not asking you to solve these issues, I only want to have a feeling somebody understands what I am going through!

Wow! That is what that lady in your life wants! An understanding heart and that takes the pressures off.

She just wants an understanding, loving and caring man!

Unfortunately, most times, single ladies look for this in wrong places and often fall into the hands of men who are only looking for sexual gratification.

If you are a single lady, make your needs known to God and never offer your body in exchange for some care that will vaporise the next minute!

Wait for the process of meeting that right man who will love you appropriately and will take care of you!

May God grant you strength in your inner man to cooperate with God.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I choose to understand my partner.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I receive wisdom to understand my partner.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 3:17-19 (KJV) That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Love God passionately

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 3

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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

1. Take Care Of Her Needs
A lady has many needs; material, emotional and spiritual

Love to a lady is spelled being there for her at such times of need. As a guy who loves her genuinely, you should show empathy for her needs.

Definitely, you will not be expected to meet all her needs especially since you are not her Jehovah Jireh.

However, the husband is expected to show concern and encourage her in those times of need. Don’t just ignore her needs and pretend as if those needs are not important.

Let her know that her needs are important. Let her feel well taken care of. One of the distractions and deception the devil uses for ladies is to make them feel that some other guy can take care of them better.

As a man, don’t let the devil have the opportunity of deceiving her, take care of her well.

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2. Speak Into Her Life
Words for a woman are very important. More so, words from her head, her priest, and her crown. Speak kind words to her.

Never lash at her with your words. Never hurt or wound her with your words. Such words go deep into her heart, causing deep emotional pains.

A lady can never be all she has the potential to become if all she hears from her husband are downgrading words. Take up the role of a high priest in her life.

Keep speaking God’s word over her life. The lady is like a vine, which initially looks weak and has to coil around a wall or stake but later develops deep roots and branches and becomes very strong.

3. Listen To Her
There is no real love until you pay attention to her when she speaks.

The only way you can truly know a person is to listen when they speak. It’s from their words you understand how they reason, their opinions, and their viewpoints on issues

When your wife talks and you give her undivided attention, you are telling her she is important enough to listen to, that you value what she has to say so much, you want to listen, that she is intelligent enough in her conversation, you want to listen.

What you don’t understand is that when you treat your wife as though she is not intelligent, she notices, it affects her esteem and she begins to believe she is not intelligent and begins to act out what she believes.

May God bless our marriages.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my fiance/fiancee with God’s love

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me and teach me how to love and understand my loved one

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 5:18 (MSG) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Show love to her

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Matthew 8; Mark 2

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Don’t Do These To Your Wife

Don’t Do These To Your Wife

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1. Don’t ignore her needs
When you ignore the most important needs of your wife over and over again, she is going to get hurt and eventually feel that you never loved her.

This feeling can degenerate to a point where she comes up with an emotional defense, and the peak of that is closing her spirit.

You see, in loving your wife, you have to do so in God’s term and her own terms and not in your own terms. This is basically because the needs of a man are miles apart from that of a woman.

So, in meeting her needs, it is often easy to interpret her needs based on your own, but it is not often so. Priorities are at variance, especially at emotional levels.

Let her communicate her needs to you, you will be amazed that what is important to her is non-issue to you!

And so, the challenge is to focus on what is insignificant to you but is a big issue for her. That is selflessness!

Her greatest needs are always towards attention and quality time!

2. Don’t make her feel stupid and dumb
When you are always insinuating that your wife is dumb and stupid, she will get hurt.

Sometimes you don’t say it, but it shows in your body language and the way you dismiss whatever she tries to suggest.

Sometimes, a husband doesn’t even want to hear her opinion. She is to be seen and not heard. That is never the plan of God for marriage. The reality is that she is your helper. Her “dumb” or “stupid” suggestions would have saved you a lot only if you had listen.

You see, she may not be logical, but she is intuitive.

You know the man you want to go into business partnership with because he has all it takes, but she will tell you by reason of intuition that the man will mess things up. She has no evidence, not precedence, but she has intuition!

Don’t ignore that intuition!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my spouse on God’s terms and theirs.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will teach you how to love your spouse.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1 Cor 13:7 [CEV] Love is always supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Carry out the above tests on your potential partner

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
1 Cor 13

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