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2. Understand her Needs

Her needs are specialized and peculiar. They are different from your own needs. From spiritual needs to physical needs and emotional needs, you have to find out!

You will immediately discover her preferences, that what excites you on Television doesn’t not tickle her fancy! Find out and seek to meet those needs!

3. Understand her Language

Her language is like her password. It could be gifts, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch or acts of service.

You don’t communicate to her on your own terms but on her own terms.

Find out her definition of “romantic” and go after that.
The definition of the word “romantic” is not what you find in a dictionary, but there is a dictionary in her mind with its own definition like no other, authored by her, and you have to find a way to retrieve that dictionary and check the definition which would often be different from what you think.

4. Understand her pressures

She usually has pressures. Most times, she is not even seeking for those pressures to be taken away, because they are often necessities of life.

She just wants to know that there is somebody who understands what she is going through.

Many years ago, my wife explained this to me. She was pouring her hearts to me, and expounding her pressures and at a point I bursted out;

“Hey! I am not the Holy Spirit. I cannot take these things away!”

“And then she looked at me and said,

“I know you are not the Holy Spirit. I am not asking you to solve these issues, I only want to have a feeling somebody understands what I am going through!

Wow! That is what that lady in your life wants! An understanding heart and that takes the pressures off.

She just wants an understanding, loving and caring man!

Unfortunately, most times, single ladies look for this in wrong places and often fall into the hands of men who are only looking for sexual gratification.

If you are a single lady, make your needs known to God and never offer your body in exchange for some care that will vaporise the next minute!

Wait for the process of meeting that right man who will love you appropriately and will take care of you!

May God grant you strength in your inner man to cooperate with God.

I choose to understand my partner.

I receive wisdom to understand my partner.

Eph 3:17-19 (KJV) That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love.

Love God passionately

Eph 3


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