by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 28, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesAct 20:32 KJV And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified. Everything you do in life is like a load and for every load,...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 27, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesSoul ties can be brought about by compromise. One of the purposes of making love with your spouse is to establish bonding at the highest level. However, when this is done with someone you are not married to, a bonding also takes place, but it is...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 26, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 5 minutesWho do you fall in love with? I will address that by telling you who not to fall in love with. You see, everybody has a purpose in your life, and when you fail to discern that purpose, it will lead to abuse or you end up being abused. 1....
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 25, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesAnd Jesus said unto them, Can the children of the bridechamber fast, while the bridegroom is with them? as long as they have the bridegroom with them, they cannot fast. But the days will come, when the bridegroom shall be taken away from them,...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 24, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesYes, we’ve only been kissing, nothing more. If as singles not yet married, you are not cool at all! You are more like carrying fire in your bosom! Okay pastor, show me in the scripture where kissing is wrong! Well, you will never...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 23, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesA lot of people are at a loss when it comes to this issue of knowing who to marry. A large number are bothered that God has not ‘shown’ them anybody particularly or ‘spoken’ to them in clear terms, yet they have fallen in love with someone and...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 22, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesWords are powerful. Words are eternal. They don’t die. Jesus said words are spirits. Joh 6:63 KJV It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life. Nations have...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 21, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesI remember many years ago, as a young Christian, I was praying and trusting God for some things. God answered me very clearly and told me to forgive so and so. Now, these people really hurt me, and I felt justified walking in an unforgiving...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 20, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 3 minutesYesterday, we began this discussion, pointing out tell-tale signs to look out for, so that your lover who is on fire today, may not backslide after marriage. If you missed it, see it here. Our anchor scripture remains: 2Pe 2:20-22 (MSG) If...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 19, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 3 minutesThe issue above is one of the commonest statements of regret from several people that I counsel every other month. Avoiding in marriage a lover on fire today but cold later is possible. “Pastor, he has changed…” “Pastor, I never knew he was like...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 18, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 3 minutesThere is no doubt that God speaks to His people. For me, God spoke to me clearly while I was a student on the Campus as relating to relationships and marriage. Knowing the right lover is key! God still speaks today. He is a speaking God. “saith...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 17, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesFalling in love is a special experience, or so it is intended to be. But there are ways to fall in love. The foundation to falling in love the right way is to fall in love with God first. God Himself is love and when you fall in love with Him,...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 16, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 3 minutesSomebody was once asked what are the three most important ingredients of a relationship or marriage that would be successful. He simply gave them: CommunicationCommunicationCommunicationI believe he was right!Communication is powerful and is so...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 15, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 3 minutesThere shouldn’t be issues of somebody giving you a “nail” when you propose if you follow simple traffic rules. The guy is like the one driving a car and the lady is the parking space. So the guy is driving and he wants to ‘branch’ into a place,...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 14, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesThe marriage bed – There are things that are popular and prevalent but not necessarily of God. That something is nearly ubiquitous does not validate it. The voice of the people is sometimes reverberations and echoes of the devil! The voice...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 13, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 2 minutesOver the years, from counseling experiences, and even from the scriptures, one guaranteed reason a relationship or marriage will crash is when there is no form of mentoring or tutelage, or better put, when there is no accountability! The kingdom...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 12, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesThere is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother. There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness. There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 11, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 4 minutesMarriage is instituted by God. The devil hates marriages. That is why the devil attacks marriages with a passion. A lot of people have terribly wrong notions of what marriage is. In looking at the scriptures, we see a picture of what marriage is...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 10, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 5 minutesDeborah is a twenty-six-year-old lady who is not in any relationship. She visits her much older friend, Aunty Nike who has been married for fifteen years and the following conversation ensued. Pick the words carefully, see the wisdom embedded in...
by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | May 8, 2021 | Singles
Reading Time: 2 minutes6. Decide to have quality relationships. When God will send help, He will use men. Appreciate people and don’t bang or kick at doors, if you must close doors, close them gently. You might still need to pass through the same doors some years down...