Your Lover, The Load And The Required Strength

Your Lover, The Load And The Required Strength

Reading Time: 4 minutesAct 20:32 KJV And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified. Everything you do in life is like a load and for every load,...
Must God Speak Before I Choose Who To Marry?

Must God Speak Before I Choose Who To Marry?

Reading Time: 4 minutesA lot of people are at a loss when it comes to this issue of knowing who to marry. A large number are bothered that God has not ‘shown’ them anybody particularly or ‘spoken’ to them in clear terms, yet they have fallen in love with someone and...
How To Hear What Your Lover Is Not Saying

How To Hear What Your Lover Is Not Saying

Reading Time: 4 minutesWords are powerful. Words are eternal. They don’t die. Jesus said words are spirits. Joh 6:63 KJV It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life. Nations have...
How To Move On After Disappointments

How To Move On After Disappointments

Reading Time: 4 minutesI remember many years ago, as a young Christian, I was praying and trusting God for some things. God answered me very clearly and told me to forgive so and so. Now, these people really hurt me, and I felt justified walking in an unforgiving...
Signs Your Lover May Backslide After Marriage

Signs Your Lover May Backslide After Marriage

Reading Time: 3 minutesYesterday, we began this discussion, pointing out tell-tale signs to look out for, so that your lover who is on fire today, may not backslide after marriage. If you missed it, see it here. Our anchor scripture remains: 2Pe 2:20-22 (MSG)  If...
The Intricacies of Knowing The Right Lover

The Intricacies of Knowing The Right Lover

Reading Time: 3 minutesThere is no doubt that God speaks to His people. For me, God spoke to me clearly while I was a student on the Campus as relating to relationships and marriage. Knowing the right lover is key! God still speaks today. He is a speaking God. “saith...
How To Fall In Love Without Hurting Yourself

How To Fall In Love Without Hurting Yourself

Reading Time: 4 minutesFalling in love is a special experience, or so it is intended to be. But there are ways to fall in love. The foundation to falling in love the right way is to fall in love with God first. God Himself is love and when you fall in love with Him,...
Communication In Relationship and Marriage

Communication In Relationship and Marriage

Reading Time: 3 minutesSomebody was once asked what are the three most important ingredients of a relationship or marriage that would be successful. He simply gave them: CommunicationCommunicationCommunicationI believe he was right!Communication is powerful and is so...
Logical, Popular, Prevalent But Very Wrong

Logical, Popular, Prevalent But Very Wrong

Reading Time: 4 minutesThe marriage bed – There are things that are popular and prevalent but not necessarily of God. That something is nearly ubiquitous does not validate it. The voice of the people is sometimes reverberations and echoes of the devil! The voice...
A Symptom In A Relationship That Might Crash

A Symptom In A Relationship That Might Crash

Reading Time: 2 minutesOver the years, from counseling experiences, and even from the scriptures, one guaranteed reason a relationship or marriage will crash is when there is no form of mentoring or tutelage, or better put, when there is no accountability! The kingdom...
These Notions About Relationships Are So Wrong

These Notions About Relationships Are So Wrong

Reading Time: 4 minutesMarriage is instituted by God. The devil hates marriages. That is why the devil attacks marriages with a passion. A lot of people have terribly wrong notions of what marriage is. In looking at the scriptures, we see a picture of what marriage is...
Deborah, This Is Why You Have Not Been Found

Deborah, This Is Why You Have Not Been Found

Reading Time: 5 minutesDeborah is a twenty-six-year-old lady who is not in any relationship. She visits her much older friend, Aunty Nike who has been married for fifteen years and the following conversation ensued. Pick the words carefully, see the wisdom embedded in...