Here Are Two Signs Of Abusive Relationships

Here Are Two Signs Of Abusive Relationships

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1. Words like arrows

A sign of emotional manipulation is when you are called names, given unpleasant labels, derogatory nicknames, and the use of biting cutting remarks. Words are powerful and you are what you hear every day.

A guy goes to Medical school and listens to medical classes for seven years and then becomes a Medical Doctor. The same thing with a lawyer. Invariably, you are what you are hearing.

You should therefore not allow anybody to constantly pull you down and trample on your esteem all in the name of love. Love will not constantly put you down! Love will not crush your esteem day after day.

If one or more of these signs are prevalent in your relationship, you may need to pause and review it.

Listen to me, marriage does not change abusers. It is better to remain single and wait for the right person than to rush into a marriage with an abuser because of the pressures around you.

When the abuse takes a toll, all the people putting pressure will not be seen around you. The last day you would see most of them is on your wedding day to eat your food!

As my wife would always say, you will live with your choice!

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2. The Use of Personal information

Abusers can often resort to using your personal information and secrets against you and to control you.

This is why you have to beware of people who are always asking for your nude pictures. Why would a person who claims to be a child of God be asking for your nude pictures? There is something perverse about that. Is it to masturbate or what? Or to sell the pictures?

Young ladies, don’t ever send you nude pictures to anyone in the name of love. He would eventually use your pictures to manipulate and control you, and when you call his bluff, you would find your nude pictures all over the internet.

Several young girls have committed suicide when they couldn’t bear the shame of having their nude pictures and videos all over the internet. So, don’t ever make that mistake.

Your soul has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the flower! Fly away from all demonic and manipulative relationships.

Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Pro 6:5 (KJV)

Cut off that relationship where you are being oppressed. Let the wrong person go so that the right person can show up!

I pray that God will grant you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
The eyes of my understanding are opened to see these signs.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 6:5 (KJV) Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Disconnect from every wrong relationship when you see these signs.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Pro 6


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Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage – Part 2

Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage – Part 2

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Continued from yesterday.

Here are some reasons why men often delay or develop a sore foot when it comes to getting married.

4. They don’t want to lose all the attention they get from girlfriends

He may just still be that handsome boyfriend that all other girlfriends are doting over.

So he wants to enjoy the attention and he feels the marriage will take that attention away.

5. They still want to have fun

He is a party freak and he knows that marriage will ‘imprison’ him.

So, he prefers to stay acquitted and discharged.

He has a warped view of what marriage really is.

He might still want to also stay in touch with his ex or exes for sexual gratification.

6. They are not really in love

He may not really be in love with you. He may just be holding unto you because of the fun he gets constantly.

As far as he is concerned, marriage is all about sex

Since he can get it now, then there is no need to take it to the next level with deeper commitments, especially when finances would be involved.

7. They don’t want any commitment yet

He is just not interested in having any commitments because he believes he wouldn’t have that ‘time’ to himself again.

8. They are just not sincere

He may just not be sincere with you.

So he keeps postponing and postponing when in reality, he is not going to get married to you.

This is nothing short of designer wickedness!

9. They have not made up their minds on who they want

He is still unsure of who the best is among his numerous girlfriends.

And that is where the problem is, double dating and pre-maritals bring confusion into the soul.

The more girls he gets involved with in his bid to decide, the more confused he becomes.

The more he looks, the less he sees until he can see nothing in the midst of everything!

10. They don’t really understand the biblical concept of marriage

When a man doesn’t have a relationship with God, he would not really understand the true purpose of marriage and that would eventually inform his actions and decisions.

That is why as a marriage counselor, I often say that it is unwise to get involved with a man that doesn’t truly love God!

Good morning!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not experience a marital delay.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psalm 32:8 (KJV) I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Forgive those that have hurt you

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Micah 3


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Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage

Here Are Reasons Men Delay Or Run From Marriage

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I have often been asked why guys often delay in marriage. From ladies’ expectations towards court marriage, church marriage, or traditional marriage, there have been so many disappointments and sudden cancellations.

Oftentimes, people enter relationships without marriage counseling of any form. These days, there are many good and godly marriage therapists especially in form of online marriage counseling.

The single, as well as the married, are supposed to take advantage of all these in order to ensure that mistakes are avoided.

Here are some reasons why men often delay or develop a sore foot when it comes to getting married.

1. They are actually not ready
Most of the time, the guys are not ready. So when you start talking about marriage, they hear you with one side of the ear and allow it to escape through the other.

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They will usually ask you to wait or even get angry when you bring up the subject. Don’t waste your time trying to beg him, he is simply not ready. If you successfully push him into marriage, he would complain for a long time at any slight pressure.

2. They are scared of responsibilities
Another reason is that an average man is just scared of the responsibilities involved especially if he has gone through the trauma of being raised in a broken home or by a divorcee.

It all has a way of influencing his perspectives on marriage. Only God’s word can bring renewal of mind and a balanced outlook to what marriage really is.

3. They are not ready to raise a family
They may just not be ready to raise a family. In his mind, someone is still raising him as far as he is concerned. He is still Mummy’s boy.

If you marry a mummy’s boy, the mummy will rule your home, in reality, or by proxy.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly. I will not meet with men who will delay me.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, deliver me from men who want to delay me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Micah 2


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Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 5

Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 5

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Continued from yesterday.

9. Priorities

What are his priorities?
Would he watch football instead of going to church on a Sunday?
Believe me, you don’t need such lukewarmness over your head! The fire in you will die slowly when your faith is constantly belittled, trampled, and disregarded.

It can be frustrating to have to choose a man over God. That kind of relationship or marriage is packaged to fail from its very inception.

10. Anger Issues

Finally, does he have anger issues? Everybody gets angry regularly, but there are dangerous levels of anger that is not healthy for a family.

Anger and foolishness walk hand in hand. An angry man would always make foolish decisions.

He that is soon angry dealeth foolishly:..

Pro 14:17a (KJV)

The hotheaded do things they’ll later regret…

Pro 14:17a (MSG)

As a matter of fact, the scriptures advise that you should not fall in love with an angry man. This is because an angry man is very much likely to revert to domestic violence.

Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go

Pro 22:24 (KJV)

What if he has anger issues and he is working on it? Then check for peace. If peace is there, you can proceed.

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However, the Bible minces no word about dealing with angry people. Angry people can murder their spouses. They can wipe out the family and then kill themselves.

I will like to stop here this morning but I am sure you have enough stuff to think on and meditate on.

It is almost a curse when a man pairs up with a wrong set of bones. It would bring pain and agony, in the inner crevices of the bones, in the very marrow.

Adam said this is the bone of my bones…I pray you will find your bones and not another man’s bones!

In Ezekiel 37, something amazing happened.

Eze 37:7 (KJV)So I prophesied as I was commanded: and as I prophesied, there was a noise, and behold a shaking, and the bones came together, bone to his bone.

Bone came to his bone!

I prophesy as I am commanded this morning, bone will come to his bone in your marital pursuit in Jesus name!

Have a blessed day!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly. I will ask the right question.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to ask the right question.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Ask for the utterance to ask the right question.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Micah 2


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Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 4

Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 4

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Are you still following the series? These questions are necessary to ask before you conclude that you’ve met your soul mate.

7. Habits

What are his habits? Be specific and ask directly.

Do you drink?

Do you smoke?

Do you club?

If the answer to the above is in the affirmative, you obviously are not on the same page.

Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark?

2Co 6:14 (MSG) 

There is nothing to pray about, there is no need to pray that God would change him for you because nothing can happen until he makes up his mind.

If he says no, he doesn’t do all of these and then you discover later, run for your dear life.

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Run because he has the capacity to be untruthful. Insincerity and adultery are cousins! They hang out together.

If he says, yes, but he would change later after the wedding, he is unlikely to change! Marriage is not a change agent.

Also, be careful of those who want to change because of you, not because they feel it is wrong. They would go back there later!

Also, be careful of people who say you should change them. You cannot change anybody. You are not the Holy Spirit.

8. Sexual Compromise

What is his disposition to sex before marriage?

If he believes there is nothing wrong with it, he is more or less telling you that he would defile you before the wedding day. He is already telling you that he would put pressure.

Nothing is as frustrating as loving a man that doesn’t love God. Nothing is as agonizing as to have given your heart to a man who has not given his heart to God.

To be Continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to ask the right questions.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Ask the right questions.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Micah 2


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Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 3

Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 3

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Today, we will continue by looking at more questions.

These questions are not the ultimate deciders, but just to simply guide you on how to engage a prospective lover, and they are better asked before falling head over heels in love.

Once you fall in love, the reasoning capacity to tender questions becomes weak, judgments are beclouded and love shields from reality.

It is even worse when sex is involved, the capacity to ask questions is dead, the mind becomes convoluted, intricately folded into confusion weaves.

This confusion of the soul often works in consonance with soul ties, and it can really make a person take the unwisest decisions ever, only to start regretting later.

Ladies, never proceed into a love adventure without asking questions, for after you have started, the power to ask resets to zero because his pursuit is over, value diminishes and the hunter in him hangs the bow and arrow.

He now owns you!

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Let’s go.

6. Mentors
Does he have mentors? Who are his mentors? If he doesn’t have mentors before now, why? Is it more of ignorance on mentoring benefits or defiance and arrogance on needlessness of mentoring?

This has to be sorted.  Assuming he never had, is he willing to get one?

In his response being a Yes, is it a quick answer because he quickly wants to get past your questions, or is he genuine in his response?

This is where you need the Holy Spirit to read in-between the lines, to trust God to help you expose any lying and deceptive spirit.

If he says No, he doesn’t need a mentor, then you should know there would be issues. He is not ready to take counsel, he is averse to authority figures over him.

The issue is when he misbehaves, who do you report him to?

Selah!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly. I will ask the right questions.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30


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Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes – Part 2

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This article is contined from yesterday.

3. Plans
What are his immediate and future plans?

You are asking this to know if his plans will accommodate and complement your own.

There are some career combinations that just would not go together. Find out if you are getting married to a sailor that may not be around several months of the year!

If you are very clingy and you cannot bear seeing people around your husband, then don’t marry a Pastor!

Is there anyone here who, planning to build a new house, doesn’t first sit down and figure the cost so you’ll know if you can complete it?

Luk 14:28 (MSG)

4. Sisters and Mum?

How does he relate with mum and sisters? It is an indication of how he would relate to you!

If you hear him over the phone shouting and screaming at his siblings, well, the handwriting is clear on the wall what you should expect in a few weeks after the wedding.

5. Values

What are his values in life?
If he goes like “I am a free thinker. I only attend church when I feel like.”

That shows some value conflict, right?

If your values are at variance, it is an indication that numerous quarrels and disagreements are in the offing.

On a final note, please understand these questions are not to turn you into a questionnaire!

The intent is not to use questions to disregard God’s direction.

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If all your questions are not properly answered and yet you have the peace of God, please proceed, because it is only God that knows tomorrow.

However, in such cases, you have to make sure it is really peace, and not a feeling.

It is important to ask these questions, pray and seek God’s direction before falling in love.

When you have fallen in love, you really would not care about any questions or answers!

I pray that God will grant us more understanding.

You will not miss it in Jesus name!

Ee o ni bo si owo alawin ni oruko Jesu! (You won’t fall in love with the wrong person in Jesus name)

Be Blessed!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 31


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Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes

Questions You Need To Ask Him Before Saying Yes

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Yes, he is asking you out, you have prayed or you are praying, he is looking more like it, what do you do as the lady before ultimately giving your heart to him?

Well, what you do is to ask questions.

In the process of asking questions, you will conclude whether you are with the right person or not.

His responses to the questions would show his depth, his preparedness, his state of heart, how he thinks, and what he would likely do in certain circumstances.

These questions, essentially are not to knock off God’s direction but to affirm that which is in your heart concerning what God is saying.

The responses to the questions would also wake you up in case you are just in some romantic and unrealistic island of love, or you are just simply hung on a crush.

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Gird up your loins now like a man; I will demand of you, and you answer Me.

Job 40:7 (AMP)

“I have some more questions for you, and I want straight answers.

Job 40:7 (MSG)

Face me and answer the questions I ask!

Job 40:7 (CEV)

Here are a few questions to ask him after he has asked you out.

1. Why me?
Why not another person? What do you see in me that warranted your decision? The response to this question would show whether his intention is genuine or not.

You see, when someone is telling a lie or pretending, it shows in his speech patterns, when he is saying the truth and communicating from his heart, it also shows.

You must not allow the feelings of love to becloud your judgment in picking out loose ends in the responses.

Let him face the panel. lol…

2. Conviction
What is his conviction? The response to this question will help you determine the source of the move and the motive of the heart.

Who told him you are the one? How did he really get to know?

This kind of question helps you to know if it is just a playful thing he has in mind or the real deal.

Who wants to be walking up and down the aisle without ever getting to the altar to receive the ring? God forbid.

So, you are nearing thirty, and you really don’t have time for some adolescent fling that will lead nowhere!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 40


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Knowing Who To Marry – His Faith And His Fear

Knowing Who To Marry – His Faith And His Fear

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The faith of your lover. His faith is important, mostly because his faith will influence yours.

It is his faith in God that will cause him to have the fear of God. If he has the fear of God, he will never cheat on you.

He would rather protect you and care for you. He would have the wisdom to live with you and raise a godly family because the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.

Never ever get married to a man who has no regard for God. It would be the greatest mistake of the century.

Perhaps, the Holy Spirit is leading me to write on this because someone is out there at the crossroad of a decision. Well, no matter how much you love him, no matter how much preparation you have made, no matter how much has been spent, if he does not have a relationship with God, pick your bags and bolt!

Run for your life. Preserve your destiny with your choice.

Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark?  [15]  Does Christ go strolling with the Devil? Do trust and mistrust hold hands?

2Co 6:14-15 (MSG)

There is no greater partnership than marriage. Destinies are wedged together. Souls become tied together. Afflictions are intertwined and shared. Blessings are shared as well.

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In marriage, there is a “knowing” at the highest level as love is consummated. The husband becomes the cover and the head of the family. God forbids that the head is sick, for he would only transfer the sickness. He can only give what he has.

God forbid that the head is foolish, he would only disseminate the foolishness and no more. He would make foolish decisions and it would affect the wife and the children, and sometimes, the children’s children!

The mouth of the foolish poureth out foolishness.

The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness.

Pro 15:2 (KJV)

Take a look at the Message Translation:

Knowledge flows like spring water from the wise; fools are leaky faucets, dripping nonsense.

Pro 15:2 (MSG)

May you not have a leaky faucet of a head, dripping nonsense over your destiny!

I tell you, as a counselor, that can be frustrating!

How beautiful is it, to have a praying man over your life, to have a man who is faithful to you, who will never cheat on you, not because he doesn’t feel like it but because he fears God!

Go for a man that fears God. Go for a God-lover! Go for a God-chaser!

It would put your mind at rest. You wouldn’t need to add the unrest, the suspicion, the insecurity, the disagreements, and the bickering that goes with knowing your spouse is cheating on you to your daily pressures.

Go for peace of mind.

Be blessed today and always in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 4


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His Purse And Knowing Who To Marry

His Purse And Knowing Who To Marry

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“I cannot marry a man who doesn’t have a car!”

“He must be rich, otherwise, no wedding!”

“I have ported to Olorunsogo, I’m no longer in Surulere!”

“I don’t care if he is not good-looking, as long as he has money!”

These and more statements are what flies around these days. It is good to desire good things, but man will never be your source! It is important to understand this truth.

Men should be responsible, financially grounded with good jobs, but they would never become your Jehovah Jireh.

Asking a guy for a car before you can say yes is a wrong approach altogether. You must be sure you are in love with the person and not with the purse. You are getting married to the man, not his ATM.

Don’t ever make the mistake of using his purse to determine your decision to marry him or not. The contents of the purse are not always permanent, things often change with time.

In the heart of God, He knows the right person for you. The person He has for you is His best plan for your life.

Who He has for you will not turn you into a widow after five years. Who He has for you will not turn you into a punching bag after a while.

It is only God that can dig out a man who will still love you in another fifty years.

It is only God that knows the man who will gracefully combine the role of a responsible husband and a responsible father.

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It is only God that knows a broke man who is on his way to being rich and a rich man who is on his way to being broke.

It is only God who knows the man that will provide an enabling environment for you to blossom, for your gifts to come alive and for your productivity to be at the maximum.

So, it becomes important to allow God’s purpose to supersede man’s purse.

The purpose is greater than the purse. A fat purse without a purpose in life will soon go empty.

Don’t be caught up with the mammon spirit, wherein, money is the decision fulcrum.

Let God have the final say. He only knows tomorrow. He only knows the eye that will not begin early to issue out pus!

 Before you find out about his bank account, find out about God’s account of him. That is how to do it right.

I pray that God will give you direction indeed and that He will show you His plans for your life in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 3


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Her Beauty And Knowing Who To Marry

Her Beauty And Knowing Who To Marry

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Oh my God, everything is set! The hips, the lips, and the tips! The right statistics are all there! And above all, she is spiritual! I have listened to her tongues, it is the tongues of an angel!

Well, the reality is that you cannot determine a person’s spirituality by how she speaks in tongues.

That was how a particular brother broke his relationship because all the “tongues” of the sister is “sanda, sanda, sanda, sanda…. the brother reasoned, when will she buy shoe?

So, he ended up marrying this other sister whose tongue is full of rich vowels and the tongues sound like a real language.

What he doesn’t know is that you cannot decode anything with physical ears. It is a mystery unto God, not for a brother to use as a measure of spirituality.

So, after marrying this sister whose tongues is all packaged, he found out that she was very lazy. She couldn’t cook any good food successfully. So, who is spiritual?

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Her tongues are all packaged but she cannot cook or change pampers! She is not spiritual.

What the brother failed to realized is that there are sisters, sistos, sis and babes!

She is speaking in tongues while her mum is preparing food she would eat daily and setting table for her! She is not spiritual because she is not honoring her parents.

So, basically, beyond the hips, lips, and tips, there is more to it. Look deeper, beauty can be deceptive.

Thank God for hot legs, the heart nko? The heart should be hot as well!

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

Pro 31:30 (KJV)

The only way beauty would not be vain is if it is sitting on a heart that is after God, with a character that speaks of the kingdom lifestyle.

One of the contradictions of our generation is that a beautiful face can conveniently sit on an empty head.

Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful face on an empty head.

Pro 11:22 (MSG)

In the Message Translation of Pro 31:30

Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-GOD.

Pro 31:30 (MSG)

She has to fear the Lord! A lady who does not fear the Lord will bring hell rather than help!

A lady who cannot say NO to iniquity, who spreads her legs at the sight of mammon, who compromises and forsakes the guide of her youth is not worth it.

May God guide you as you decide in the area.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 31


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Here Are Ten Wrong Reasons For Getting Married Part 2

Here Are Ten Wrong Reasons For Getting Married Part 2

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5. Getting married because a pastor or parent said so

Yes, pastors and parents can advise and give a go-ahead. But you also have to be convinced by yourself. Your parent or pastor will not live in the marriage with you. Marry because there is peace, purpose, attraction, and compatibility. Hear God for yourself.

6. Getting married to someone you cannot submit to

Wives are called to ultimately submit to their own husbands. However, submission in marriage is also mutual. Never marry someone you are not ready or willing to submit to.

7. Getting married when you are not ready to love as Christ loves the church

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Christ is the perfect example of love; the God kind of love that is without selfish motive. If you cannot love sacrificially, don’t marry that person.

8. Getting married just because you are from the same tribe or have things in common

You are not marrying because of your tribe or home town. You are marrying that person because you want to fulfill purpose and destiny together.

9. Getting married because people advised or counsel you to do so

People’s advice and counsel can very well be wrong and misleading. Only God leads well and right. God will not ask the people, He will ask you. Be answerable for your own destiny. Don’t marry solely out of people’s advice.

10. Getting married because of the present alone

Don’t marry a person because of his/her present situation alone. Have deep consideration for his/her future too. Is he rich now but on his way to being poor because he lacks the power to sustain and multiply wealth? That is one of the pertinent questions to ask.

Have a great day!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30


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Here Are Ten Wrong Reasons For Getting Married

Here Are Ten Wrong Reasons For Getting Married

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It is amazing that there are many unrealistic, funny, and illogical reasons why people often get married. A lot of people don’t have the slightest idea of what marriage entails. People get married when they are not fully prepared for it.

These ten reasons will help differentiate the right reasons and wrong reasons for getting married. The list is not exhaustive, but will at least help you to some extent.

1. Getting married because of pity

This is a wrong reason to want to get married to someone. Marriage is a covenant journey that requires mutual agreement, commitment, and willingness of both parties involved. Marriage should never be out of pity. You don’t marry because you want to help or solve someone’s problems. It has never worked and will never work.

2. Getting married because you feel you don’t have any other option.

Some ladies feel helpless and feel they don’t have any other option than to marry a particular person. Nothing can be far from the truth than this. Yes, you have many other options. Allow God to lead you, He won’t lead you wrong. Putting yourself in a tight corner and getting married blindly when all the dangers are explicit enough is not the way to go.

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3. Getting married because you don’t want to break someone’s heart.

It is better there is a broken heart that can be healed than for there to be a broken, unfulfilled life and an unaccomplished destiny. A broken heart is way still better than a broken life. May your life not be broken in Jesus name.

4. Getting married because God said so.

You need to hear God as well. God is the ultimate authority, but you have to also be in agreement with God’s decision. You have to love the person with your whole heart in addition to God leading you and telling you the right person to marry.

You find some people say they are marrying a certain person they really detest, because God said so. God will never lead you wrong. God is not an author of confusion. He will not lead you to someone that you loathe and hate.

May God grant you more understanding.

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly. I will not marry for the wrong reasons.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
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BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30


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Knowing Who To Marry – His Handsomeness – Part 2

Knowing Who To Marry – His Handsomeness – Part 2

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We started on this yesterday. If you missed Part 1 yesterday, you can read it HERE

If he can disregard your God, he would disregard you!

Beware of a handsome face sitting upon an ugly heart. The ugliness would eventually extend to the face in no time.

Beware of the handsome man that wants you to compromise your faith in order to satisfy his rush of adrenaline.

Beware of the one that can combine an ugly heart with a handsome face.

Fine man, but he beats his wife!

Handsome man, but irresponsible!

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Lord, give me a spouse handsome within and without.

Lord, give me a spouse beautiful within and without.

I pray for you, God will honor your prayers! You will not regret your actions in Jesus name. You will not spend the major part of your life agonizing and living in pain over a fine face, but ugly heart. God will guide you, lead you and honor you in Jesus name.

You will not miss it!

For those who are already married, God will make your union a beautiful one within and without.

That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace:  [13]   That our garners may be full, affording all manner of store: that our sheep may bring forth thousands and ten thousands in our streets:  [14]   That our oxen may be strong to labour; that there be no breaking in, nor going out; that there be no complaining in our streets.

Psa 144:12-14 (KJV)

So shall it be in Jesus name!

Your home will be blessed. Your children will be blessed. The works of your hands shall be blessed.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30


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Knowing Who To Marry – His Handsomeness

Knowing Who To Marry – His Handsomeness

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She woke up with a start. Impulsively and almost uncontrollably, she bellowed “the blood of Jesus!” His face scared her a little. She had forgotten she got married a day before!

I want a handsome man! He has to be fine!

I want a TDH – Tall, Dark, and Handsome!

Yes, all these are okay, handsome men are cool.

Besides, who wants to marry a man that makes you scream “the blood of Jesus” when you wake up in the morning as you behold his face?

You want to wake up in the morning, take a look at his face, and be filled with the Holy Ghost afresh, burst out in singing in tongues! Isn’t that more wonderful?

However, handsomeness is not only about the face, but also about the heart!

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What is the point of a handsome face sitting upon a wicked heart? And yet, this has been the lot of not a few.

There are handsome men that are wicked. There are handsome men that are cheats. There are handsome men that are evil. There are handsome men that are rapists. There are handsome men that are adulterers.

But there are handsome men that are good men and faithful men. That is what you should pray for, that is what you should trust God for, that is what you should aspire for, and that is what you should settle for.

The face is the pulchritude, the heart is the hidden man. Find out about the hidden man before you fall in love with the face.

His behaviors will not come from his handsome face, they would take source from the heart.

Beware of the heart that despises God. Never fall in love with such hearts. Beware of the heart that mocks God. Beware of the heart that belittles your God. Beware of the heart that disregards your God

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will marry rightly. I will marry someone whose handsomeness reaches the heart

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the right person for me. Let me not be deceived with handsomeness.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isaiah  30:21 [KJV] And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray in the spirit.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Isaiah 30


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Can My Lover Be Both Spiritual And Romantic?

Can My Lover Be Both Spiritual And Romantic?

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That word means “romantic.” Spirituality should never in any way disturb being a romantic lover, single or married.

The synonyms of “romantic” include loving, amorous, passionate, tender, affectionate, lovey-dovey. Speaking in tongues should not disturb speaking sweet things to your lover.

One is to God, the other is to your lover. After you have done the one for God, do the one for your lover as well.

Let your relationship or marriage be characterized with an expression of love. Be passionate towards him or her.

Before wedding, “passionate’ does not include kissing, smooching, and sex. It includes calling regularly, doting on each other, praying for one another, sending loving (not vulgar or perverse) texts to each other (not sexting), buying each other flowers, chocolates, special gifts, and doing memorable things together.

Being romantic is not being full of lust.

In the Old Testament, honeymoons last as long as one year!

Deu 24:5 (KJV) When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.

God wants you to enjoy each other!

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In the New Testament, God wants you to have honeymoon for life! Enjoy every day of your married life! Sadly enough, by first week of most marriages, it is only the moon they can find, no honey! That will not be your portion in Jesus name!

The Bible clearly advocates that married couples enjoy themselves sexually and otherwise.

Pro 5:18-19 (KJV) Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.  [19]   Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

There is nothing wrong about fantasizing about your spouse! It is godly. Take a look at the Message Translation:

Pro 5:18-19 (MSG) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!  [19]  Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!


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The Anatomy Of A Foolish Lover

The Anatomy Of A Foolish Lover

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Everybody reading this, including myself would have done some foolish things in time past, so nobody is really exempt and this is not to condemn or indict anybody.

Every man has his share of mistakes, but the wisdom in past foolishness is learning from them and adjusting accordingly. So the pertinent question this morning is, “Am I doing something foolish presently unknowingly? Have I been entangled in the web of foolishness without knowing?”

It is important to take an inventory of yourself because the foolishness of the foolish does not allow him to identify his foolishness, he sometimes thinks, the wise are the foolish ones!

Sometimes, you need the help of another to be able to see your foolishness because foolishness blinds.

In Matt. 23:17, 19, Luk.11:40 and Luk. 24:25, Jesus actually referred to some people as fools.

So, who is a foolish man? Who will God call a foolish man or woman? Let’s learn a few things from Solomon, a once wisest man on the planet. We cannot exhaust all but here are a few.

1. A foolish lover despises wisdom and instruction

The reverent and worshipful fear of the Lord is the beginning and the principal and choice part of knowledge [its starting point and its essence]; but fools despise skillful and godly Wisdom, instruction, and discipline.

Pro 1:7 AMP

A wise man knows that the starting point of life is to be a God worshipper and a lover of God. He is apt to want to learn the things of God. A foolish man on the other hand will not appreciate or value wisdom.

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2. A foolish person makes fun of God and dislikes knowledge

“How long will you childish people love your childish ways? How long will you rude people enjoy making fun of God and others? How long will you foolish people hate knowledge?

Pro 1:22 NIrV

A foolish man laughs at the things and ways of God. He practically hates knowledge. He never reads any books. He or she prefers to spend time jesting, watching films lazily, and such things rather than seeking to improve himself.

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I do not do things foolishly.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, give me wisdom for living.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Prov 1:7 [NET] Fearing the Lord is the beginning of moral knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
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BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 1


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This Is What Every Godly Lady Wants

This Is What Every Godly Lady Wants

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Somebody said the most complex being that God created is a woman. I am not sure whether to agree to that. I leave you to conclude and be the judge. Perhaps, people will have different opinions based on their experiences.

I believe every lady has a key. And you don’t need to search for the keys of every woman. You only need one key, the one for your spouse! That’s all. 

Once you have that key, you are good. Now, this key is not meant to be used to manipulate her emotions, where you become the master puppeteer with all the strings.

What we are talking about is having your fiancee’s password, learning it, using it to please her, and seeking to understand the great help that God is bringing into your life.

Our culture or environment might be saying you are doing a woman a favour when you marry her, but it is the other way round.

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When you find a woman, you find good and you bring favour into your life. Good things will begin to aggregate in your life!

That is why I normally pray for people, “You will not Shi-Marry! Bad English, good prayer! Because when you get married to the right woman, good things will happen to you. Conversely, if you get married to the wrong woman, it is like inviting a nemesis into one’s life!

May your path not cross with a strange woman who flatters with her mouth and whose path leads to hell. That is exactly what the scripture says!

It will do you well to understand the lady in your life, whether you are single or married.

Here are two things every lady wants her man to do daily.

1. Pray for or with her daily

That is very important. Thank God for your six-packs, but without some spiritual perks, you are finished.

Thank God for your phonetics, but if you don’t know how to speak in tongues, you are not ready to face the battles that come with raising a family and overcoming them. 

Thank God for your bank account, but if you are spiritually bankrupt and you don’t know how to lead your family as a priest, trouble looms ahead.

2. Tell her “I love you” regularly, and mean it!

How can this be on the list? Well, that is very important to every lady. Women go through a variety of complex emotions that are often accompanied by self esteem issues, they just needed to be affirmed over and over again especially by the one they love!

Don’t allow people outside to help you complement your loved one outside lest she becomes distracted. How long do I have to do that daily? Well, maybe as often as you can. Do it as often as you have the opportunity.

Your fiancee lives on words. That is why average, women talk more than men. An average man speaks ten thousand words daily while an average woman is doing twenty-five thousand! Isn’t that huge?

She loves to be tickled with words. She might be acting like she is not enjoying it, but in reality she is. She is putting up that attitude because she wants more.

So when you tell your lady “I love you,” She goes like, hmmm…as if she is doubting you. In reality, within her, she doesn’t want you to stop and she wants you to repeat it again.

Let me pray for you this morning:
I come against that wrong spirit in your relationship, I curse the spirit behind misunderstanding, quarrels, bitterness and acrimony. I destroy their powers in the name of Jesus. I release over you the balm of Gilead and I ask for healing over every hurt and wounds in the name of Jesus.

By the strength of my call, I ask that the love of God be shed abroad in your heart right now, I command every veil to be removed and I speak healing over your relationship/marriage in Jesus name! I declare you are free from that attack in Jesus name.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will love my spouse in God’s terms

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to end all issues leading to constant strife

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
“The same goes for you husbands: Be good husbands to your wives. Honor them, delight in them. As women they lack some of your advantages. But in the new life of God’s grace, you’re equals. Treat your wives, then, as equals so your prayers don’t run aground.” (1Pe 3:7, MSG)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
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BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Nehemiah 1-5


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Run From These Lovers and Avoid Them – Part 4

Run From These Lovers and Avoid Them – Part 4

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This is the final part of the series.

5. When you are in love with an abuser

When you are in love with one that beats you and then sleeps with you and you are not yet married, you don’t need to pray. You just need to pack your things and leave that guy or lady alone! A lady can also abuse a guy in some extreme cases, not really beating with her hands, but with her money!

You don’t even need counseling, you just need common sense!

But Pastor, it is not easy! Okay, so it is easy to be beaten daily? And then be seen as a sex toy to satisfy the lust and the cravings of a depraved person who will not eventually marry you?

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“Oh Pastor, he is actually a nice person! It’s just that he has anger issues” Really? So who says you are the recipient of the anger tantrums whose cause you know nothing about? All in the name of love? Nah! It is not so from the beginning! God never meant for any of us to find ourselves in some abusive, manipulative, and basest of all lust! That is not love!

Why subject yourself to such harrowing experiences? Common, free yourself as a bird and flee away! That is why God gave you legs! Run! Run run! There is fire on the mountain and that fire burns!

Go and wait for God’s plan for your life rather than trying to create a plan for yourself!

Our soul is escaped as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and we are escaped.

Psa 124:7 (KJV)

You can only pray in this scenario if you are already married because God’s first option is not always to divorce! And if the abuse continues unrepentantly to the point your life is threatened, then you have a decision to make.

I pray for you this morning and every area of your life where you need to make a decision in other to please God, God will strengthen you in Jesus name.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it in marriage.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open my eyes to know who to run away from

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 2:12 [KJV]To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Review your relationship in light of the above.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 2


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Run From These Lovers and Avoid Them – Part 3

Run From These Lovers and Avoid Them – Part 3

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…continued from yesterday’s devotional…

4. When you are in love with your Pastor who is married

This one may sound ridiculous, but trust me, it happens every day, I am a counselor!

A lot of ladies fall in love easily with their pastor because he is anointed and they listen to him every time. It is so easy to fall in love with your pastor, but when a Pastor who is married has fallen in love with you as well, it is better and wise to leave that church as soon as possible, because if you don’t, you will ruin yourselves!

By the time he is making advances at you, you should find another church! There is a difference between a hireling and a pastor! Don’t bother to pray that God should work it out! Are you praying that God should kill the Pastor’s wife?

If you have been sexually involved or manipulated by your pastor, leave that church. He might be a prophet or an apostle, if you are sleeping together, leave that church and leave that man!

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You say he is a spiritual father, he is married and yet sleeping with you? He is not a spiritual father; he is a spiritual nemesis! Run away! Avoid him!

Don’t bother praying. It is like both of you are sitting on a bomb, and it is better to disappear from that church! Don’t waste your time asking for His will. His will is clear, disconnect from such a relationship so that you will not delay yourself in your marital journey!

He is never going to leave his wife as he is promising you. All those lies are manipulations to keep you down in the sexual adventure.

At such scenarios, you don’t deceive yourself, you tell yourself the truth so that the truth can set you free.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it in marriage.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open my eyes to know who to avoid in life

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 2:12 [KJV]To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Review your relationship in light of the above and mark out those to avoid.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 13


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