Four Things To Find In The Lady You Want To Marry

Four Things To Find In The Lady You Want To Marry

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1. Look for a friend

It is important you look for a lady who is your friend. Friends don’t want to hurt one another. Friends love each other truly. Friends forgive each other easily. Friends want to be with one another. Friends don’t have problems with communication. They talk all the time.

It is important that your love grows from friendship. That is why it is not good to rush into a relationship with a person you barely know. There is a huge difference between marrying an acquaintance and marrying a friend.

It is even worse when you decide to marry a stranger that you met on social media. You will not live on Facebook. You will not give birth on Google Plus. You will not cook on LinkedIn.

So, why establish and maintain a relationship over social media?

Why fall in love with a profile? Why become emotionally attached with a voice over the phone? You have to go for a friend and friendship involves constant communication and a committed relationship.

Before you fall in love, before you are caught in a rapturous ecstasy, try and see her one on one! It is impossible to fall in love with a person you don’t know, so become friends first and don’t be caught up in infatuation.

2. Look for a homely woman

The next thing to look for in a woman is homeliness. Look for a lady that can cook! Yes, she is not a house-help, but she has to know how to cook! Good food is very important to men.

As a single lady, train yourself to know how to cook well. If she cannot cook, there will be issues.

If as a lady, you had grown up among several house-helps and you barely go to the kitchen, you have to deliberately teach yourself how to prepare good food in preparation for marriage.

If you visit your fiancée and all you are served are always noodles, flakes, beverages, and refreshments, you should start suspecting! That’s a joke!

Be creative with cooking.  Get on the Internet and download recipe ideas.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am deliberate in my approach to find love

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
O Lord, turn things around in my favour

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor––since they’re already “one” in marriage Eph 5:28 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Start preparing for your marriage now.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 5

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Where Is My Woman, O Lord?

Where Is My Woman, O Lord?

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Thinking aloud, Bob said, “O Lord, where is my woman?”

His friend Ade, looked at him, hissed and retorted, “Woman ko, Grandmother ni!’

“Abeg, I no dey talk to you o”

“You better not be talking to me and don’t bother to talk to God as well.”

“Thank God you are not God! My God will answer my prayers”

“God will not answer that prayer!”

“Kai! What is your problem now?”

“Where is your woman? She would drop from heaven?

“I am patiently waiting for God.”

“What are you waiting for? May you not wait for ever. The wife you will marry is around you.”

“Is it because you are lucky and you are getting married next month? God will do my own too.”

“God has already done it, but you are blind, proud and stubborn”

“Who are you talking about?”

“I am talking about Sade. That lady likes you.”

“I cannot marry her. That girl will fry me alive if I marry her!”

“Why?”

“That sister can talk. The other time we had a date, she dominated everything. I thought I could talk, until I met her. That day, I surrendered.”

“I think she was just being free and being herself.”

“Well. I got scared. I am not sure that is what I want.”

“Ok, what about Sandra? You went out with that one briefly too”

“If I marry Sandra, our house will be too boring. She hardly talks. She will just be looking at you like Lucozade, sitting like sitting room, and as cool as cucumber!” I need someone in-between.

“Ok, what about Sister Comfort? She is not a talkative and she is not so quiet. I think there goes your bride.”

“It is not only Sister Comfort you will see, you will soon see Sister Compassion! Why did you not marry her before you chose that damsel of yours?

“It is you that said you don’t want a loud lady and you don’t want a quiet one. Sister Comfort is just perfect for your desires.”

“She does not have the pulchritude.”

“Pulchritude” Which one is that again?

“She does not have the rotundity of my dreams.”

“Yeh! Rotundity! This brother is backslidden.”

“She does not have the tips, hips and lips. I want a babe, not just a sister.”

“Lord, God Almighty!”

“There is a difference between a sister, a sisto, a babe and a woman!”

“Ha! May you not remain a bachelor for life!”

“I simply know what I want.”

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it in marriage.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open my eyes to the realities of life.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Romans 14:17 [KJV]For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for insight

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Rom 5

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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

1. Take Care Of Her Needs
A lady has many needs; material, emotional and spiritual

Love to a lady is spelled being there for her at such times of need. As a guy who loves her genuinely, you should show empathy for her needs.

Definitely, you will not be expected to meet all her needs especially since you are not her Jehovah Jireh.

However, the husband is expected to show concern and encourage her in those times of need. Don’t just ignore her needs and pretend as if those needs are not important.

Let her know that her needs are important. Let her feel well taken care of. One of the distractions and deception the devil uses for ladies is to make them feel that some other guy can take care of them better.

As a man, don’t let the devil have the opportunity of deceiving her, take care of her well.

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2. Speak Into Her Life
Words for a woman are very important. More so, words from her head, her priest, and her crown. Speak kind words to her.

Never lash at her with your words. Never hurt or wound her with your words. Such words go deep into her heart, causing deep emotional pains.

A lady can never be all she has the potential to become if all she hears from her husband are downgrading words. Take up the role of a high priest in her life.

Keep speaking God’s word over her life. The lady is like a vine, which initially looks weak and has to coil around a wall or stake but later develops deep roots and branches and becomes very strong.

3. Listen To Her
There is no real love until you pay attention to her when she speaks.

The only way you can truly know a person is to listen when they speak. It’s from their words you understand how they reason, their opinions, and their viewpoints on issues

When your wife talks and you give her undivided attention, you are telling her she is important enough to listen to, that you value what she has to say so much, you want to listen, that she is intelligent enough in her conversation, you want to listen.

What you don’t understand is that when you treat your wife as though she is not intelligent, she notices, it affects her esteem and she begins to believe she is not intelligent and begins to act out what she believes.

May God bless our marriages.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my fiance/fiancee with God’s love

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me and teach me how to love and understand my loved one

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 5:18 (MSG) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Show love to her

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Matthew 8; Mark 2

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A Few Things God Wants From Every Single Lady

A Few Things God Wants From Every Single Lady

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1. He wants you to have a conscious and deliberate relationship with Him evidenced in your consistent time spent in the word and prayers.
As a wife in the making, you will be able to derive and draw a lot of strength from the presence of God in other to succeed at the multi-tasking nature of a woman’s role in the house. Spending consistent time in His presence will help you to avoid burn-out and stress. It is in the presence of God you get fresh oil and get rejuvenated to cheerfully attend to your duties as a wife and a mother.

2. He wants you not only to birth children but also to birth miracles, open doors, promotions and everything desired in the place of prayer.
A woman is anointed and empowered to birth. God wants you to birth the picture you desire in the place of prayer. As a single in waiting, God wants you to birth the family you desire in the place of prayer.

A woman is like a spiritual factory where miracles can be birthed if the price can be paid. Rather than worry about that issue of delay, cast your care on Jesus and get into the place of your strength, the place of prayer. Pay the price and wait on Him.

3. He wants you to take care of your family by being motherly and caring.
God wants you as a woman to strike a balance between your career and motherly responsibilities. At the end of it all, your children would be the greatest legacy you have, so it is important to spend time developing them and nurturing them in the ways of the Lord.

May God grant you more understanding!

What else do you think God wants from you as a single lady/ Let’s hear in the comment section.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God will guide me in the right path. As a lady, I will not make a mistake.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, I ask that you open my eyes of understanding in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 144:12 That our sons may be as plants grown up in their youth; that our daughters may be as corner stones, polished after the similitude of a palace:

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take an inventory of your life in the light of God’s principles

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ps 144

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More Attributes Of The Strange Woman

More Attributes Of The Strange Woman

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4. She will come after you and then bring you into her territory or space for maximum control

I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt. I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon. Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves (Proverbs 7:15-18 KJV)

She had a plan all the while. She is a planner when it comes to the strange lifestyle. She will go to any extent to get what she wanted. She knows what gifts to buy to weaken the man’s resolve. She is sometimes much older and she uses her money and influence to control her prey!

The modern day “sugar mummy” is a strange woman! Run from a strange life lest strange things begin to happen! The student involved with an “aristo” is also a strange lady!

5. She is an adulterer

For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey: He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed (Proverbs 7:19-20 KJV)

Any opportunity when her husband is not around is an opportunity for her to go wild. She does not mind bringing men into her matrimonial home!

I have seen it too many times, the husband is a business man in Japan or Italy, leaves the wife in Nigeria, and she simply has a man that comes into her matrimonial bed daily! While it is not good for a man to abandon his wife for months in the name of business, there is also something strange when a woman can lie, hide, be deceptive and sleeps with other men apart from her husband for whatever reasons.

I tell singles all the time, it starts as a single. The moment you can combine more than one relationship, one in Nigeria, the other in UK, or one in Lagos and the other Abuja, deceiving both sides and promising both a marriage union, there is something really strange about that.

Such lifestyles culminate in agony at the end. It is always good for you to live your life God’s way and you know what, God does not condemn you but simply wants your repentance.

God will strengthen you as you resolve to do what is right.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not fall into the trap of the strange woman.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, deliver me from the strange woman.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey: He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed (Proverbs 7:19-20 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Are you noticing strange behaviours in the life of someone around you? Take action now.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Prov 7

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