Embarking on a journey of self-love and enthusiasm for your life might seem like a mere suggestion, but in reality, it is a vital instruction.
Discovering the Wonder Called You
In the hustle of life, it’s common to find joy in the accomplishments, talents, beauty, and intelligence of others. However, the time has come to redirect that excitement towards the marvel that is YOU.
Celebrate the Unique You
Take a moment to gaze into the mirror and celebrate the person staring back at you. Often, we neglect to appreciate ourselves amid the busyness of life, failing to recognize our own uniqueness.
Embracing Life’s Phases
Life unfolds in phases, and each passing moment is irreplaceable. Acknowledge the phase you’re in; it’s a cause for celebration. Capture these moments, pause, and revel in the significance of being the central character of your own story.
Today, a Gift; Tomorrow, a Promise
Acknowledge that your best days are not confined to the past; your best moment is now. While tomorrow remains a promise, today is a gift. Embrace it, for yesterday’s night has passed, and you stand resilient in the present.
Psalm 139:14 – Acknowledging the Marvel of Your Existence
Reflect on Psalm 139:14 (AMP), confess and praise for the fearful and wonderful creation that is you.
Building a Positive Aura
Cultivating a positive environment around you is essential. This not only affects your perception but also makes you appealing to others.
Break free from the shackles of seeking external approval. Living excitedly about your life liberates you from being dependent on others’ opinions. Your joy is not dictated by external validations.
Becoming Your Best Company
Learn to relish your own company. Dance, laugh, and celebrate alone. Being comfortable in your solitude is a powerful reflection of self-love
Self-Recognition: Knowing the Person Under Your Skin
Delve into self-discovery. Can you recognize yourself if placed in another body? Understanding your greatness, beauty, talents, and intelligence is paramount.
Five Paths to Celebrating Yourself
1. Gratitude as a Catalyst
Cultivate a thankful heart; gratitude breeds excitement.
2. Authenticity over Pretense
Live authentically, seeking help when needed. Avoid the trap of a double life.
3. Continuous Learning
Embrace a mindset of constant learning, making informed choices for a better life.
4. Excitement in Knowing God
Discover joy in knowing the creator of your life; a connection with God fuels excitement.
5. Daily Commitment to Better Choices
Your choices define your life. Commit to making positive choices daily, from thoughts to actions.
Even in the face of mistakes or setbacks, refrain from self-condemnation. Instead, use these moments as opportunities for growth, ensuring a continuous journey of excitement about your life. Good morning!
In a not-so-distant past, we were blessed with a tiny boy, a mere handful in my palm. Fast forward to the present, he’s graduated and already working.
The pace of time is astonishing! In a couple of years, I would easily and successfully become a grandpa! What?
I am still trying to feel like a dad and now the granddad thing is beckoning gently!
The scripture in Ephesians 5:15-16 urges us to walk wisely, redeeming the time, for the days are challenging. In simpler terms, make the most of every opportunity, given the desperate times we live in.
Seize the Moment, Dear Couples
Now is the time for couples to unite and make the most of every chance. Avoid spending half your lifetime in disputes and suspicions, robbing yourselves of the power found in the prayer of agreement. The synergy between husband and wife should result in abundant productivity, touching lives around you positively.
Break Free from Energy-Wasting Patterns
Unnecessary quarrels, prolonged silences, and attempts to change your spouse are all energy-draining activities. Romans 13:11 (MSG) cautions against getting so absorbed in daily obligations that you lose track of time and God. Your time can be maximized only with God.
Rom 13:11 (MSG) But make sure that you don’t get so absorbed and exhausted in taking care of all your day-by-day obligations that you lose track of the time and doze off, oblivious to God.
The Dawn is Near
Romans 13:12 (MSG) emphasizes that the night is nearly over, urging us to be awake to what God is doing.
Rom 13:12 (MSG) The night is about over, dawn is about to break. Be up and awake to what God is doing! God is putting the finishing touches on the salvation work he began when we first believed.
The urgency is clear – time is fleeting. The dreams in your diary and the aspirations you’ve carried for years should not linger; it’s time to give birth to them.
Don’t Squander Precious Minutes
Romans 13:13 (MSG) reminds us not to waste a minute, discouraging frivolity and indulgence. Couples should work together, aligning with the purpose for which they came together, avoiding squabbles and distractions.
The Path Forward
To make the glory embedded in your union a reality, couples must decide to follow God, forgive easily, love unconditionally, and pray fervently.
I sincerely pray for your strength and unity, that the purpose for which your family came together becomes a reality.
I want to share ten pieces of advice that can contribute to a flourishing relationship or marriage.
1. Cherish Each Other Always
Avoid the trap of taking your spouse’s love and efforts for granted. Whether it’s paying the bills or preparing meals, acknowledging and appreciating each other’s contributions is vital for a joyful marriage.
As lovers in a relationship, learn to compliment and appreciate one another.
2. Minimize External Influences
External factors, such as in-laws, friends, colleagues, and family, can impact your marriage. While everyone plays a role, exercise wisdom in managing external influences to prevent unnecessary burdens on your relationship.
For singles in courtship, embrace counsels and do to isolate yourselves.
3. Establish Family Goals
Having a common vision for the family fosters unity. Work towards achieving shared objectives, whether it’s a project, a vacation, or any other aspiration that binds both partners together.
While in courtship, set goals and exclude physical intimacy at that stage.
4. Check in on Each Other’s Fulfillment
Don’t assume your spouse is always content. Regularly discuss career, goals, dreams, and aspirations to ensure you’re both fulfilled and can support each other’s growth.
5. Foster Transparency, Eliminate Secrets
Avoid the pitfalls of keeping secrets. Open communication builds trust, so be transparent about all aspects of your life, including finances. Shared knowledge prevents misunderstandings.
6. Cultivate Best-Friendship
Strive to be each other’s best friend. Engage in open conversations, share laughter, and enjoy recreational activities together. Marriage is more than a serious commitment; it should also be a source of joy.
7. Open the Financial Book
Maintain transparency in financial matters. Share details about income, expenses, and investments. This transparency not only builds trust but also ensures accountability.
8. Let Forgiveness Prevail
Address grievances promptly, preventing them from escalating into deeper issues. Avoid harboring resentment and practice forgiveness. Controlling your temper and choosing words wisely are essential for a peaceful marriage.
9. Measure Your Words
Words are powerful; they shape your marriage. Be cautious about what you say to your spouse. If you wouldn’t want to experience it, don’t say it. Your words should reflect the love and commitment you share.
10. Seek Wisdom from Respected Mentors
Having a mentor both partners respect can be invaluable. Seek guidance from experienced individuals during challenging times. Their wisdom may provide the insight needed to navigate various aspects of married life.
May these insights contribute to the success and longevity of your marriage. Blessings to you all.
Let’s face it, the pressures of life can strip away the joy and laughter from our marriages. When couples succumb to life’s demands, their relationship can transform into a mere cohabitation, lacking the vitality of shared laughter and joy.
Important conversations become the only discourse, leaving no room for lighthearted moments. Tension looms, and the marriage becomes a tedious routine.
The impact of allowing life’s pressures to take a toll on marriages is profound. Unaddressed pressures can lead to a cascade of issues, from anger and harsh words to late nights, seeking solace in ungodly friendships, and even the risk of emotional entanglements with the opposite sex.
Amidst life’s pressures, couples must learn to lean on each other for spiritual, emotional, physical, and financial support. It’s a time for mutual support and encouragement, where kind words, appreciation, and affirmation play a crucial role. This is also the time when intimacy becomes not just a desire but a need—a means of ministering to each other.
During challenges, laughter becomes a powerful tool. It is therapeutic and healing, adding value to the relationship without costing a dime.
Couples can creatively infuse laughter into their homes, finding joy amid adversity.
Psalm 2:4 reminds us that “He that sitteth in the heavens shall laugh.”
Learning to laugh in challenging times invites God’s power into the situation. Laughter becomes a declaration of trust in God’s ability to change circumstances. It shifts the focus from the present situation to the belief in God’s capacity to turn things around.
In those moments, couples find the strength to trust in God’s mercy, restoring their fellowship with the divine. Laughter becomes a conduit for grace, allowing couples to draw strength from the throne of grace. Through laughter, couples can rediscover God as their Shepherd, leading them beside still waters and restoring their souls.
May you find refreshing laughter in your marriage during times of pressure, trusting in the Lord’s ability to bring joy and resilience.
