God, Our Ever-Present Help

God, Our Ever-Present Help

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One of the most amazing things about God is that he always has us covered, He is our ever-present help. In whatever situation or time, you can be sure God is watching and looking out for you and me.

Today, I will be talking to you about one of the many attributes of God.

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth gives way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging. – Psalms 46:1-3 (NIV)

Wow! What a word. What an assurance.

Let’s pick up the words one after the other and analyze them.

God is our refuge!

The dictionary defines the word refuge as a place or state of safety from danger or trouble.

We all know how troubled the world is at this time. News of wars fill our television screen and social media waves. There is no guaranteed place of safety as the bible rightly says the heart of man is desperately wicked.

But here, God is assuring us that despite all the bad news we keep hearing daily, despite the failed system of government, despite the inadequacies of man, he is our refuge.

Are you in trouble? Do you think or feel what you have done is so enormous, that you cannot come out of it? Then run to God and he will deliver you.

God’s desire for us his children is to live life to the fullest, and all of these are represented in the bible as proof of his promises and commitment toward us.

Are you a child of God? If yes, then believe in his word and be rest assured that “God’s got you!”

To be continued.

Prayer:
Dear Father, help me to always trust in your word. Amen.

Action point:
Dedicate time to meditate on God’s word

Declaration:
God is my refuge and strength, my ever-present help in trouble.

Read yesterday’s article here

How To Protect Yourself From Heartaches

How To Protect Yourself From Heartaches

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SINGLES – How To Protect Yourself From Heartaches

In these days and these times, you fall in love deliberately and with your eyes open, not hopelessly and thoughtlessly!

You don’t fall in love or walk down the aisle in marriage without taking into considerations some pertinent questions in order to protect yourself and to be sure you know what you are doing!

Gone are those days when you should fall in love blindly and go into a marriage without your common sense!
 
Well, if you are still with the slogan that love is a blind, I have news for you, marriage is an eye opener. Reality settles in after marriage.

It is for this reason careless marriages end few months after! Trust me, I get calls every other day, of brides who are still supposed to be in the moon taking some honey, crying and weeping profusely and talking about regrets.

I get calls of ladies who are married for less than six months and they want to walk out of the marriage because they never knew ‘he was like this!’

There is a popular saying that God gave us brains that He may rest! It is true because after God finished the work of creation, the bible says God rested.

I believe God is resting because everything is completed, all we need for life and Godliness is already provided.

The same is true of our relationships, everything we ever need is already available, we only need to look within us and draw it out.

Part of drawing all we need, I believe, is asking ourselves certain questions.

Questions are very powerful, what they do is that they draw out wisdom from within us or from people around us who are graced with such wisdom.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I possess wisdom, wisdom directs my actions. I am not blindly in love that I do not apply wisdom. I am patient to find out what I need to find out before saying ‘I do’.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to do my part and follow your leading in my decisions especially in the area of my relationship.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
‘Ask (questions), and the answer shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you’. –Matthew 7:7

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take a pen and paper and write down all the questions you are going to ask the person you intend to marry, whether he/she is already around or not.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezekiel 46

Who Exactly Is A Husband? –Part 2

Who Exactly Is A Husband? –Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

The son is playing football initially, but the moment he hears the dad’s car horn, he jumps into the living room, opens Modern Biology textbook and starts reading. 

Dad comes in and sees son sweating like Christmas goat. He asks why he is sweating like that and the boy has no choice but to point to the Modern Biology textbook, ‘it’s the Amoeba sir!’

The wife hurries into the kitchen and puts food in the microwave oven, while dad clears his throat. The lion of the tribe of his house has come!

That is not an ideal home, something is defective!
When those children have the slightest opportunity to be outside the home, they will misbehave.

There is something about having a home that radiates with God’s love. The husband and wife must work together to achieve this.

A husband comes home drunk. He comes home late. He beats his wife in front of his children. He scolds his wife in front of his children. He keeps malice with his wife and sometimes with his children. He does not provide for his family. He is involved in extra-marital affairs. He does not eat his wife’s food. The list is endless.

Those behaviours are not ‘house binding’ but ‘animal husbandry!’ The man is unwittingly sowing wrong seeds into his home and when the harvest comes? The scripture aptly says when you sow wind, you will reap whirlwind!

Dear husband, be good. You will enjoy yourself and your family that way. Don’t compromise. Don’t cheat on her. Be faithful!

When you are faithful to your wife, you will enjoy the fullness of God’s blessings, favour and approval. Learn the art of conflict resolution.

Be patient with her! I pray God bless and keep your home and marriage in Jesus name. Amen!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a great husband. I love my wife like Christ loves the church.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, grant me the grace to be a good husband to my wife and a great example to my children.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! –Proverbs 5:18 (MSG) 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write out seven special things you can do daily in the coming week to rekindle your marriage and affirm your wife.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezra 3

The Importance Of Family

The Importance Of Family

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We will be examining the importance of family today. Your family members are your closest neighbours. They all love you and show this in many ways. Do you also show them the same love they show you?

The second most important commandment says: ‘Love others as much as you love yourself.’ No other commandment is more important than these.” – Mk 12:31 CEV

Family members are the most unappreciated folks. We tend to overlook their feelings and needs because we feel they won’t mind at all.

This is one reason why you shouldn’t take your family members for granted. Appreciate everything they do for you or give to you.

Showing appreciation tells them that you love and care for them. No matter how small their help might be, show some level of appreciation.

May God give you an appreciative heart. Amen.

Prayer:
Father, teach me to love and appreciate my family.

Action point:
Say thank you to your parents and give them a tight hug.

Declaration:
My children learn to appreciate family.

Read yesterday’s article here

One Promise You Can Hold On To This Month

One Promise You Can Hold On To This Month

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One wonderful attribute of God is His ability to remember and his ability to forget! And the good news is that He doesn’t remember our faults to count them against us, but He remembers His own covenant of blessings to us. He forgets our misdemeanors and remembers our good seed!

And God heard their sighing and groaning and [earnestly] remembered His covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob. – Exo 2:24 

He remembers He is our God, to help us, deliver us, protect us, vindicate us and do for us all He has promised. If you have a relationship with God, then it is a big congratulation to you. It does not matter what is going on in your marriage, home, and family right now. God hears, remembers, and will have respect unto you because you are His covenant child.

The attack of the enemy may be strong over your relationship, life, family, a courtship on the verge of breaking up, financial crisis, or whatever challenge has troubled you. All you need to do is to give God something he can hear and remember.

You may be going through an intense time in your relationship right now; courtship seems not to be working, for some there is even nobody to court. Issues are diversified and endless. I want you to know that you are not the only one going through an issue in your relationship or marriage right now.  There are no custom-made problems.

I want you this morning to know that God has not forgotten you, even though it looks like that in the physical. So was the experience of Noah in the ark, and it looked like God has forgotten him in the ark, disenfranchised from the whole world and sentenced to life in the ark with animals…but then the scriptures says

And God remembered Noah… – Gen 8:1 KJV

God will remember you this morning! He will intervene in that relationship!

The Massage translation says:

Then God turned his attention to Noah … – Gen 8:1 MSG

Common! God is about to turn His attention to you! Don’t give up on God! That good man will locate you! You will find that beautiful lady! That relationship will not crash!

So all I want you to do this morning is lift up your voice before your father. In other words, make a sound, your father can hear. Not a faithless cry, but a cry full of faith, knowing that our God is merciful and He will not fail of His promises to us. Your God will have respect unto you in Jesus Name. He will visit you and turn the story around for good. He will make the bitter waters.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am not abandoned. I am loved of God.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Oh God, turn every captivity around for me.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
And God heard their sighing and groaning and [earnestly] remembered His covenant with Abraham, with Isaac, and with Jacob. – Exo 2:24 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Talk to God Now

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jer 10-13

Who Exactly Is A Husband?

Who Exactly Is A Husband?

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One of the meanings of ‘husband’ is ‘he that binds the house together’ He keeps the home, the wife, and children, and makes sure they are well taken care of.

Taking care of them is not just providing money for them, but being there for them, nurturing them, and connecting with them emotionally.

A father’s care is powerful. Most of the perverts and criminals we have in our society today are those that have been deprived of fatherly care.

Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church-a love marked by giving, not getting. – Ephesians 5:25 (MSG) 

It is said that most husbands don’t understand the extent of grace and authority that God has bestowed on them as head of the house.

My Pastor once said jokingly but truthfully that the only husbandry we are taught in school is animal husbandry and that is why some husbands behave like animals at home.

There is no course in school titled ‘Marriage 101.’ Your school of marriage begins after collecting the certificate! Marriage is the only institution where you collect the certificate before the learning begins.

The Daddy comes home, and all the children plus the wife dive into different corners looking pious…

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a great husband. I love my wife like Christ loves the church.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, grant me the grace to be a good husband to my wife and a great example to my children.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 5:18 MSG Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write out seven special things you can do daily in the coming week to rekindle your marriage and affirm your wife.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezra 1-3

Choosing Your Career Path

Choosing Your Career Path

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Have you ever wondered how adults become the professionals they are today? How did they choose their career path? How did your mom and dad become what they’re today?
How did that person you admire so much become who he/she is today?

Well, it’s all about deciding what they wanted to do at a very early age, much like you are right now.

It’s never too early to seek God’s face.

Psalms 63:1 O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee: my soul thirsteth for thee, my flesh longeth for thee in a dry and thirsty land, where no water is;

What do you want to become? An astronaut, software designer, boat builder, race car driver or a writer? It is all about what you like to do. What do you like to do?

Starting early to decide what you would like to become in future is important. You start to learn how to become it and go through every process involved.

The process will involve trainings, class lessons, exams and tests. You learn and then get tested before being certified as a professional.

Discover what you love to do and take all the necessary education you need. That’s how mommy and daddy did.

Be like Samuel in the bible who learned under the prophet Eli. Under the prophet’s supervision, Samuel grew into a great prophet that God used to speak to kings in Israel.

1 Samuel 3:1 And the child Samuel ministered unto the LORD before Eli. And the word of the LORD was precious in those days; there was no open vision.

May God show you what your passion is in Jesus name. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, help me to discover what I like to do and become in future. In Jesus’ name. Amen

Action plan:
Start to note what you like doing. From there, you can discover your talents.

Declaration:
I will be great in life.

Read yesterday’s article here

How To Deliver Yourself From Self-Deception –Part 3

How To Deliver Yourself From Self-Deception –Part 3

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Jesus is the foundation. Be careful what materials you are building on His person. I will like you to make a decision this morning, break free from every lying devil. Sin is sin, no matter your office! Sin is always a reproach and that is the end of it!

Embrace God’s love this morning. Do not take his love for granted. Ask for genuine repentance. Go to your pastor or mentor and stay accountable. Then if you have to go on a retreat and fast and pray, please do.

Fill yourself afresh with God’s word and let it become life to you! I challenge you this morning. Clean up! Delete that number before you yourself are deleted from trhe face of the earth!  Cancel that ungodly relationship.

Destroy those instruments of sin. Take charge of your life this morning and break free from all oppression!

The truth is that God still loves you. That is why you are still alive despite all. He loves you beyond your imagination. He is full of tender mercies over you! Accept His love and He will restore your soul. He will clean you up, heal you and restore your dignity.

I pray for you this morning, that every yoke and demonic influence over your life and destiny be broken in Jesus name! If you need someone to pray for you or lead you to Christ, feel free to pick up my number and give me a call. God will send help your way today in Jesus name. Your life will not be a waste. Your labour of love in God’s Kingdom will not be devoid of reward in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I declare my freedom today from all oppression; I receive God’s help and mercy over my life; I severe myself from all ungodly relationships in Jesus name.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive God’s help to be free in Jesus name. Lord, send help to me now in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
So if the Son liberates you [makes you free men], then you are really and unquestionably free. – John 8:36 (AMP)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Become accountable today to someone your respect and value a lot.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Esther 4

Four Principles Every Wife Must Learn –Part 2

Four Principles Every Wife Must Learn –Part 2

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3. Never Underrate The Enemy’s Attack On The Home And The Effectiveness Of Prayer.

Assumption is the lowest form of knowledge. Be a praying woman and don’t explain away all the issues, quarrels, strife, and other things that drive you apart from your husband.

Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.-2Corintians 2:11 (KJV)

After all, we don’t want to unwittingly give Satan an opening for yet more mischief-we’re not oblivious to his sly ways! -2Corintians 2:11 (MSG)

A great woman must learn how to pray. Learn to take everything to God. You can birth things in prayer and that is why you have a womb. I am not in any way exonerating men who are supposed to take the lead in prayers at home but don’t wait for him, especially where morning devotions are concerned. It has been discovered that wives usually push for morning prayers at home in families before the husbands take over.

4. Never Allow Emotional And Actual Affairs

This is one area that is guaranteed to ruin any family when dabbled into. Don’t be pressured in any way to cheat on your husband! I have counseled a few husbands who feel so cheated and bitter because their wives compromised, and it took God’s intervention to keep the family going.

The sin of adultery is not a once and for all sin, it unlocks several other demonic doors and brings with it serious heartaches. Be loyal to your husband. If you are under intense pressure, find someone you really trust to talk with because sin is perpetuated in the atmosphere of secrecy. The power of iniquity is broken when exposed!

I pray over your home that God’s peace will reign in Jesus name! I say to every storm raging over your family and home, ‘be still, in Jesus name! Over your home, God’s counsel will stand!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a wise woman. I love my spouse appropriately

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will give you the wisdom to be a helpmeet indeed

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for your husband and children now.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Daniel 5

I Receive Strength

I Receive Strength

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An interesting topic is before us today: I receive strength. Another wonderful bible verse you should learn is from the book of Philippians.

In chapter four and verse thirteen, you know what you can do as a follower of Christ.

“I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me” (Phil. 4:13 KJV)

Imagine the possibilities you have access to do with this verse. The writer is showing you that you can do all you desire to as long as you have Jesus.

Your strength doesn’t come from you, your possessions, friends, families, or education. It comes from Jesus.

He gives you the strength to move on and accomplish everything you need to accomplish.

If there is a huge task or challenge in front of you, remember this verse. Say and believe it. Jesus will show you how to carry it out with ease.

It doesn’t mean that you won’t do your part. You pray and act according to the leading of Jesus.

May Jesus continue to strengthen you. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, Jesus, please I need your strength

Action point:
Write down this verse and recite it. Ask Jesus for His help.

Declaration:
I am helped of God in Jesus name.

Read yesterday’s article here

How To Deliver Yourself From Self-Deception –Part 2

How To Deliver Yourself From Self-Deception –Part 2

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Self-deception has led people into prostitution, and drug culture, it has locked up a lot of believers and men of God in the pit of sexual perversion where masturbation, pornography, adultery, homosexuality, and the likes are commonplace.

Self-deception spirits are dangerous because, they tell the oppressed to internalize their challenges: it tells them if God disapproves of their lifestyle, he would have killed them.

What they don’t know really is that they are actually dead! It stops them from seeking help since they never own up. Such people can lie! Since you can hardly get help until you own up to something is wrong, one is kept in the pit of darkness because he will never own up.

It is a plan of hell to destroy many. As I write this morning, the Spirit of God will prick your heart if need be, the light of God will shine in your heart, the word of God like a two-edged sword will separate the wheat from the chaff for you and help you to see if there are any areas where you need to make changes.

It doesn’t matter whether you are an apostle or unbeliever, what matters this morning is to confront yourself.

Jesus is the foundation and the Bible warns in 1Corintians 3:11-15 (MSG)

Remember, there is only one foundation, the one already laid: Jesus Christ. Take particular care in picking out your building materials. Eventually there is going to be an inspection. If you use cheap or inferior materials, you’ll be found out. The inspection will be thorough and rigorous. You won’t get by with a thing. If your work passes inspection, fine; if it doesn’t, your part of the building will be torn out and started over. But you won’t be torn out; you’ll survive–but just barely. -1Corintians 3:11-15 (MSG)

That’s why Jesus said; judge yourself that you will not be judged! How long do you think the deception will last? You cannot build God’s kingdom on the foundation of deception and lies.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I declare my freedom today from all oppression; I receive God’s help and mercy over my life; I severe myself from all ungodly relationships in Jesus name.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive God’s help to be free in Jesus name. Lord, send help to me now in Jesus name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
So if the Son liberates you [makes you free men], then you are really and unquestionably free. – John 8:36 (AMP)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Become accountable today to someone your respect and value a lot.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Esther 3

Four Principles Every Wife Must Learn

Four Principles Every Wife Must Learn

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This morning, I want to write about four principles that should never be flouted by any lady, flouting these principles is a sure way a woman can destroy her family.

1. Never Compare Your Home Or Family With Another.

A lot of women are caught up in comparison traps, spending the money they don’t have to buy things they don’t need in order to impress people that are not even taking note!

You need to understand that some people use 90% of their income to pose and show forth, so it is foolhardy to compare yourself with them.

For we dare not make ourselves of the number or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise. -2Corintians 10:12 (KJV)

See how another translation puts it;

We’re not, understand, putting ourselves in a league with those who boast that they’re our superiors. We wouldn’t dare do that. But in all this comparing and grading and competing, they quite miss the point. -2Corintians 10:12 (MSG)

When you fall into a comparison trap, you can put yourself, your husband, and your family in unnecessary pressure. Continual comparison can sentence one into a perpetual state of ungratefulness to God which can eventually culminate in depression.

2. Never Become The Head Of Your Family.

That is not the order that God has instituted. The moment you try to do this, you have violated the principles of God and confusion will surely set in.

This is often expressed when you refuse to accept corrections from your husband.

But I want you to understand that Christ is supreme over every man, the husband is supreme over his wife, and God is supreme over Christ. -1Corintians 11:3 (GNB)

I am not in any way suggesting you violate God’s principles in order to ‘submit’ to your husband. But in a general sense, a wife is supposed to submit to her own husband. Some women submit to their Pastors but not to their husbands.

That bothers on hypocrisy because you are submitting to another man’s husband in effect. Your submission to your Pastor becomes genuine when you really submit to your own husband.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a wise woman. I love my spouse appropriately

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will give you the wisdom to be a helpmeet indeed

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. Proverbs 14:1

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for your husband and children now.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Daniel 4

Dear Child, God Thinks About You!

Dear Child, God Thinks About You!

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It’s amazing to know that God thinks about you, isn’t it? Hello darling child, it’s another fun time to learn from God’s word, are you excited? I am and I hope you are too. Today I will be telling you how precious you are to God, I am sure it will bless your hearts.

Do you ever think about something, that you can’t get it off your mind for weeks? I know you do.

You think about the kind of birthday present you would love to have, your friends in school, your new clothes and lots more.

Just like you think about these things, God also thinks about you, your thoughts are in his heart all day long. He is thinking about your last prayer request, what he wants to give you next, and how his words can be more in your heart, God has it in his heart to keep you and your loved one safe and protected at all times. How amazing is that?

 See what the bible says in the book of Psalms;

How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee. –Psalms 139:17-18 (KJV)

Not only is God always thinking about you, the bible says, these thoughts are precious, and they are great in number, meaning that it’s a lot of thoughts.

It also says they are more than the sand, wow! That’s a whole lot!

 Let’s see another translation:

Your thoughts — how rare, how beautiful! God, I’ll never comprehend them! I couldn’t even begin to count them — any more than I could count the sand of the sea. Oh, let me rise in the morning and live always with you! –Psalms 139:17-18 (MSG)

See how this translation puts it, God’s thoughts towards you are rear, beautiful, they can’t be comprehended, they can’t be counted.

Do you know what you should do with this reality? Just like the psalmist, arise every morning and live always with and for God, because he has a lot in store for you.

Prayer:
Lord Jesus help me to know that you are always thinking of me. Amen.

Action Point:
Choose to live for God.

Declaration:
I am loved by God and my thoughts fill his heart.

Read yesterday’s article here

How To Deliver Yourself From Self Deception

How To Deliver Yourself From Self Deception

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This morning, I feel inspired to write about a particular demonic strategy, a deadly attitude being embraced by many. This attitude is from the pit of hell. It holds its victims by the jugular, suffocating them with obvious but subtle strangulation techniques and yet distracting them from what is killing them. The result then is that they refuse to accept something is wrong when it is obvious to all that they are on the path of destruction.

Let no man deceive himself. – 1Co 3:18a

I am talking about self-deception! You see, deception can come from different sources, but the greatest and deadliest form of deception is self-deception.

The demon behind self-deception works hand in hand with other demons especially mammon spirits and religious spirits. So you can see a person who says she wants to sleep around in order to get money, after all she goes to church and serves there with her time and money!

Hence, most people that are self-deceived can be found in the beautiful auditoriums of our churches today, in the choirs and on the pew.

Do not be deceived and deluded and misled; God will not allow Himself to be sneered at (scorned, disdained, or mocked by mere pretensions or professions, or by His precepts being set aside.) [He inevitably deludes himself who attempts to delude God.] For whatever a man sows, that and that only is what he will reap. – Gal 6:7 AMP

It is only self-deception that will make a lady get involved in pre-marital affairs and then confidently sing in the choir the next day without blinking! You see such person is self-deceived, believing that her service to God will cover up for his or her ungodly life! It sounds incredible, but it is all over the place!

It is only self-deception that can make a man stand up from an adulterous bed and then go to church and condemn it from the pulpit!

It is self-deception that will make a man of God who has several branches under him and many looking up to him get involved with habitual adulterous life!

It is one thing to make a mistake, and anybody can fall, and people do fall. And God did make a provision to situations where people fall, to get them restored. But when it becomes habitual, I don’t really care how anointed the person is, there is an intertwining of self-deception demons and other demons oppressing that man!

He simply tells himself that God will overlook it since he is still having ‘result!

That is also a demonic strategy in itself, to make people develop a cold attitude to the things of God, to make them resent anything called pastors or church and thereby shutting them away from where they can get help. The result is that bondages and captivities are elongated and perpetuated!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I severe myself from all ungodly relationships in Jesus name.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I receive God’s help to be free in Jesus name. Lord, send help to me now in Jesus name
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joh 8:36 (AMP) So if the Son liberates you [makes you free men], then you are really and unquestionably free.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Become accountable today to someone your respect and value a lot.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Est 1-5

Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage –Part 2

Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage –Part 2

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Continued from yesterday…

This means you must not consciously or unconsciously allow any infiltration into your marriage. Prying eyes and inquisitive ears must be discouraged. It also means you must not deny each other for any selfish reasons.

Amplified version of the Bible says that;

Let marriage be held in honor (esteemed worthy, precious, of great price, and especially dear) in all things… – Hebrews 13:4 (AMP)

Why must sexual intimacy be guarded? The reason is right there. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex. God will not take it lightly when the marital bed is desecrated by either of the spouse.

Amplified Bible goes further to say;

…And thus let the marriage bed be undefiled (kept undishonored); for God will judge and punish the unchaste [all guilty of sexual vice] and adulterous.

God will judge all sexual vice.

May I finally add that God does not condemn you in any way. He will not condone sin either. What is the thing to do? Stop the ungodly relationships.

Terminate it right away. Pick your phone and call him or her right away and tell him or her it is over. Decide for God. Embrace God’s principles. Become a word stickler and God will surely honour you and restore all the lost years back to you.

It is so easy to do. Several people who made decisions for God in their marriage and sexuality call me every day from virtually every part of the world! You can do it too!

Go into His presence right away, confess all sins and ask for forgiveness. He will give you peace and your soul will be preserved. If you need someone to pray with you, feel free to give me a call. God bless you!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy in my marriage. I will not be careless in my marriage and in my duty to my spouse.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
I destroy every weapon of the enemy to tear us apart.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
All of you should honor marriage. You should keep the marriage bed pure. God will judge the person who commits adultery. He will judge everyone who commits sexual sins. –Hebrew 13:4

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
List a few ways you need to make changes in your marital bed. Follow through.
 
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY

Heb 13

What Will God’s Word Do For You?

What Will God’s Word Do For You?

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Have you ever wondered what God’s Word will do for you? Alright, start by thinking about what a lamp does? It gives light to a dark area, right? Dark areas are beyond the physical dark places in your environment that require you to switch on the light or use a torch to see.

The unseen dark areas of your life include the times when you are unsure of what to do out of maybe confusion, fear, or pressure.

While in these dark places in your heart and mind, you need light and not a physical light but the light of God.

Divine light instantly lights up everywhere, driving out shadows and making you see well. This divine light is God’s word, the bible.

The psalmist in chapter 119 and verse 105 acknowledges what God’s word does for him.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” – Psalm 119:105

This shows that with God’s word as your light, you won’t lose your footing. You won’t fall into any form of sin, fear, confusion, or bow down to any form of pressure from anyone to make you commit a sin. And even if you happen to want to fall, His word will still help you not to fall.

His word won’t let you fall for they will lighten up your path. They will give you an understanding of any situation you are facing at school, home, or anywhere.

His word will teach you how to handle the situation. He will guide you on what to say, do, or how to act. 

God’s word is very powerful. Able to guide, teach and save you from any challenges you might have. His word is also able to show you how you could have managed past problems.

This way, when such situations rise up again, you already know how to handle them.

Remember this verse when you seem not to know what to do. Go into God’s word and let his light keep your feet firm and your path bright.

God bless you. Amen.

Prayer:
Lord, I thank You for your word and how it divinely helps me walk right in this world. In Jesus name. Amen.

Action point:
Rely on God’s word for all your situations.

Declaration:
The word is my life.

Read yesterday’s article here

How To Guard Against Sexual Relationships As Singles

How To Guard Against Sexual Relationships As Singles

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SINGLES –

Lurry was caught in a cross-road. She had lost one of her parents which resulted in her academic pursuits being threatened.

Her late father’s friend stepped in to help out with finances. It was like God sent because the man was rich.

However, in no time, he began to make sexual advances. Lurry was confused. If she said no, there would be no money. If she said yes, she would be in an adulterous relationship because the man was married with children. What was she supposed to do?

Candid advice! Run, run, run!
There is fire on the mountain!

You see, you cannot because of mammon destroy your destiny. As a believer, God is your source and not man! You cannot trust in the arm of the flesh!

The consequence of violating the sacredness of the marriage bed far outweighs the seemingly temporary ‘lack’ you may experience when you decide to follow God.

God is not an author of confusion. If you stand up for righteousness and refuse to dip your hands in sin, God will surely make a way for you.

Righteousness invariably exalts while sin will culminate in shame and reproach!

Befriending a married man or woman and sleeping with them in exchange for money is a demonic setup to ruin your life, and lose your soul eternally, but you can still make amends as you read this.

Under no circumstance, excuse or guise will you be justified before God for doing such a thing, so don’t even bother with flimsy excuses, God’s word will never be broken.

If you have been coerced into such or you dabbled into it in ignorance, now you know that it is wrong, and you have the power of choice to decide your future now!

Don’t be deceived, it can never be God’s will for you to date or be sexually involved with a married person. The marriage covenant must be respected.
If you have done that, ask God to forgive you and never have an outing again with that married person.

Remember that what you sow is what you reap.
You cannot be another person’s headache (in his or her marriage) and expect that it will be well with your own marriage when it comes to your turn!

May God grant you more understanding.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not be in hurry. I will not violate God’s principles.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, help me to stay chase in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. – Heb 13:4 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for God’s help

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Heb 13

Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage

Understanding The Covenant Bond In Marriage

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COUPLES –

Marriage is a covenant. Know this and know peace!
It is sad to know that there are married people who are entangled in sexual affairs with their colleagues, subordinates or superiors at work. How I wish you know the implication of what you are doing?

How I wish your eyes would open to see the turmoil and anguish that awaits you, then you would have escaped for your dear life.

Adultery ruins, it destroys, it tears families apart, it transfers wrong spirits to innocent children, it opens the home to invasion of demonic attacks, the list is endless.

Above all, God’s principles and spiritual laws are violated, you risk losing all of God’s support in your life. It’s an unsafe place to be!

Honor marriage, and guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy between wife and husband. God draws a firm line against casual and illicit sex. – Hebrews 13:4 (MSG)

Sexual intimacy between a man and a woman is sacred. It is not a carnal act neither is it an evil act.

The Bible advises that this sacredness of sexual intimacy between a husband and a wife must be guarded.

Marriage is to be honoured. It is an institution that must be respected. One of the ways you respect the marriage institution either as a husband or wife is to guard the sacredness of sexual intimacy.

To be continued.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will guard the sacredness of my marriage.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, give me the wisdom I need to run my marriage well.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
All of you should honor marriage. You should keep the marriage bed pure. God will judge the person who commits adultery. He will judge everyone who commits sexual sins. –Hebrew 13:4

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
List a few ways you need to make changes in your marital bed. Follow through.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Ezekiel 40

Cultivating The Habit of Thanksgiving

Cultivating The Habit of Thanksgiving

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The habit of thanksgiving is good. In fact, it makes everyone around you want to do something for you, you know why? That’s because everyone loves to be appreciated.

Let me show you something interesting. Even the bible says we should give thanks in everything.

In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.
KJV 1Thessalonia 5:18

Giving thanks is God’s will for us as his children. His desire is for us to be appreciative of everything and anything.

The bible says “in everything”, another translation says “in every circumstances.”

In essence, all the time is when we should give thanks.

Giving thanks or saying thank you shows you are a grateful person, and grateful people get more things, unlike someone that isn’t appreciative.

So many things happen when we give thanks, to God, our parents, friends and everyone.

1. You make the person receiving the thanks or appreciation happy

2. You get blessed the more. It’s very simple, if you say thank you for biscuits you’ll get more. Try it.

3. You can multiply what you have by giving thanks.

Remember Jesus, when he fed the five thousand, he gave thanks and broke the bread, then gave his disciples to share.
He feed five thousand people and more with five loaves of bread and two fishes.

How do you learn this habit?

1. By asking the Holy Spirit to help you be a grateful person.

2. By thanking God all the time for what you have.

3. By being appreciative each time you get something.

Prayer:
Lord, help me to be thankful always; Amen.

Action point:
Study the word “gratitude”

Declaration:
I am grateful to God. I thank my maker every day of my life.

Read yesterday’s article here

Five Relationship Tips For Singles

Five Relationship Tips For Singles

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SINGLES –

1. Respect

If you are not married, don’t demand for sexual gratification. If there is respect, you won’t want his/her virtue compromised to satisfy your own lust. Real love and respect is waiting.

2. Communication

Don’t discuss your past, inadequacies and failures in great detail at the inception of the relationship. Some details are better left until there is acceptance, trust and understanding between the two parties.

However, basic issues like health status, genotype, family history and some other crucial issues need to be discussed as early as possible. If he/she finds out years later, mistrust can easily rear up its heads.

3. Chastity

Don’t start kissing someone you met two hours ago. Don’t end up in a car or in corner in a sexual encounter with a total stranger. That is gross irresponsibility and indiscipline. Moreover, you will be offending God.

4. Emotional Needs

Do not depend on one another for the fulfillment and satisfaction of every emotional need. Your partner is not the Holy Spirit. Participate in activities outside your romantic relationship. Don’t be parochial. Be creative and be open to ideas that will further move your relationship forward. Learn, read books, attend seminars together.

5. Selflessness

Guard against selfishness. Both sides should be involved in giving. Love should be reciprocal. It is not a one way affair, it is a song done by a duet. In marriage, there are no spectators; both are actors striving to get better and sowing energies and time into the marriage to make it work.

Stop quarreling everyday of your courtship. Follow the principles of God and stop every compromise. Make sure your foundation for marriage is rightly laid.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
Our love is rekindled daily. I love my spouse and I am committed to our marriage.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, open my eyes and show me what I know not.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Gal 6:7 GNB Do not deceive yourselves; no one makes a fool of God. You will reap exactly what you plant.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Talk to God. Pour your heart to Him now

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
John 1:15-51