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SINGLES – How To Protect Yourself From Heartaches

In these days and these times, you fall in love deliberately and with your eyes open, not hopelessly and thoughtlessly!

You don’t fall in love or walk down the aisle in marriage without taking into considerations some pertinent questions in order to protect yourself and to be sure you know what you are doing!

Gone are those days when you should fall in love blindly and go into a marriage without your common sense!
Well, if you are still with the slogan that love is a blind, I have news for you, marriage is an eye opener. Reality settles in after marriage.

It is for this reason careless marriages end few months after! Trust me, I get calls every other day, of brides who are still supposed to be in the moon taking some honey, crying and weeping profusely and talking about regrets.

I get calls of ladies who are married for less than six months and they want to walk out of the marriage because they never knew ‘he was like this!’

There is a popular saying that God gave us brains that He may rest! It is true because after God finished the work of creation, the bible says God rested.

I believe God is resting because everything is completed, all we need for life and Godliness is already provided.

The same is true of our relationships, everything we ever need is already available, we only need to look within us and draw it out.

Part of drawing all we need, I believe, is asking ourselves certain questions.

Questions are very powerful, what they do is that they draw out wisdom from within us or from people around us who are graced with such wisdom.

To be continued…

I possess wisdom, wisdom directs my actions. I am not blindly in love that I do not apply wisdom. I am patient to find out what I need to find out before saying ‘I do’.

Lord, help me to do my part and follow your leading in my decisions especially in the area of my relationship.

‘Ask (questions), and the answer shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you’. –Matthew 7:7

Take a pen and paper and write down all the questions you are going to ask the person you intend to marry, whether he/she is already around or not.

Ezekiel 46

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