Something is certainly wrong with Vivian. She’s not getting younger. Her biological clock seemed to be not only ticking but also sprinting. She wished she could find a pause button.
The story has been told numerous times. She has seen her relationships crumble in front of her eyes like a pack of cards. Nothing appears to work around her.
The tale has always been the same: she will start a relationship today and everything will appear to be normal, then everything will come crumbling down around her. Then it happens again and over again.
She now goes into a new relationship with prayers, not for guidance, but for the relationship not to fail
How do you get out of this mess as a God’s child?
Giving up all offenses
Yes, as easy as it may appear, this is the key to your success. Get rid of all forms of resentment and offense. Frolicking with bitterness is an intentional attempt to prevent anything pleasant from coming your way.
Heb 12:15 (KJV) Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;
It is referred to as a root in the Bible. Every plant has a root that you cannot see.
That is the nature of bitterness. It can be submerged in the stomach for months without revealing its poisonous fruits until the damage is done.
Yes, your “Ex” hurt you and did things to you that were inconceivable and unprintable. That is insufficient cause to put your life on hold. Your parents did this and that to you.
Your closest companion had deceived you. Someone stabbed you in the rear and then in the front! Don’t let that put a stop to your progress!
Allow God to take over. Do not let hatred and resentment get the best of you. Allow no one else’s folly to become your own folly.
Bitterness is referred to as a root in the Bible. When it appears, it will pollute many other relationships, possibilities, and doors!
When John the Baptist became enraged with his spiritual head, his physical head ease decapitated.
Don’t allow your head to become one of the prizes on award day!
Bitterness and iniquity are close relatives. They collaborate. The sooner you tackle it, the better.
Act 8:23 (KJV) For I perceive that thou art in the gall of bitterness, and in the bond of iniquity.
Solicit God’s assistance. He is more than happy to do so. In Jesus’ name, you will fulfill your destiny! God bless you with further understanding!
This may seem unimportant to guys, but it is a major issue for women.
Saying “I love you” could be the solution to the crises raging in your home. She wishes to hear it from you as frequently as possible.
As a lady, she will undoubtedly receive compliments from others. The issue arises when the compliments she receives from others outnumber those she receives from her spouse at home.
Women go through a lot and battle a lot with their emotions, which is why they constantly have a mirror with them everywhere they go. Be her mirror!
Learn to affirm your wife as much as possible as a man. It’ll go a long way toward making her feel cherished.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
2. Attend church together.
The Bible instructs us not to abandon the meeting of the brethren.
Take the initiative as the man and seek out a Bible-believing church to attend.
It is critical that you and your wife are hearing the same thing.
Attending different churches while in the same location is not the way to go.
Grow with one another.
Study together.
Pray as a couple.
It will fortify the marriage.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
3. Never raise your hands to beat or hit your wife.
Refrain from hitting your wife. For whatever reason, never do it.
That is what distinguishes men from boys.
Yes, she can be rude, obstinate, haughty, or whatever.
Hitting her will not get you out of this situation.
1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Make the decision to never physically assault her.
Decide to honor her, protect her, and look after her.
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? Marriage is lovely. Only God, and no one else, can orchestrate the synergy that the marriage covenant creates. There is no limit to when a man and a woman unite in God. The man takes on the role of a dream interpreter for his wife. And the other way around. The marital pact people sign brings their hidden stuff to the fore.
Man has always desired to accomplish something. He has a dream, but no one can interpret it. Then a woman enters his life, and the dots begin to connect. This is why, as singles, you should incorporate God into your matrimonial decisions.
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The lady had always had this lovely desire, but it had remained a dream. Then God sends a man, and the intricate equation of her destiny is instantly simplified when she enters into a marital commitment with God. Only God can provide such interpreters!
A dream without interpretation might be distressing. One can hunt a thousand, but two can put ten thousand on the run! Having multiple dreams with no meaning is exhausting for the soul.
Gen 40:8 (KJV) And they said unto him, We have dreamed a dream, and there is no interpreter of it. And Joseph said unto them, Do not interpretations belong to God? tell me them, I pray you.
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? These men had dreams but no translators, but God sent assistance in the form of Joseph. Joseph quickly realized that interpretations belong to God and no one else.
Every time you pursue relationships without God’s interpretation, you will end up with issues! The status is updated to “It’s complicated!”
May your marital journey be straightforward!
I’m praying for you today, in your marriage endeavor, that God sends you a dream interpreter. There are dream interpreters, and there are dream murderers. There are men who act as walls and men who act as doorways. There are men you contact and then laugh, and men you dabble with and end up in anguish!
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer?
When Amnon met Jonadab, his royal blood was squandered. Ruth met a man who saved her life. You were all heated up before meeting that sweetheart, and then all the fire was extinguished by the waters of compromise! This should not be the case.
You will not simply meet and marry any guy or woman, but God will provide you with a dream interpreter in Jesus’ name! Because of your marriage…in God…the deepest desires of your heart begin to find magnificent expressions!
I hope you find the interpreter of your dreams!
God bless you with further understanding! Hello and good morning!
How to Celebrate Your Relationship Or Marriage. Rejoicing has been shown to open doors to blessing, increase, promotion, health, change of position, and, of course, marital pleasure throughout time. It’s incredible how you can use laughing to defeat the devil’s forces.
To be happy is not the same as to feel joyful. Happiness is determined by chance. Some people are already disqualified because of this. There may be nothing to be happy about right now. Failure, scarcity, hardship, treachery, and the list goes on and on.
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How to Celebrate Your Relationship Or Marriage
However, when we choose to respond to the Lord’s gladness on the inside, victory is assured.
When you choose to celebrate when you should be unhappy and gloomy, you are allowing God to intervene in your situation. Joy is associated with God, whilst depression is associated with doom.
When things don’t seem to be going well in your life or marriage, your reaction should be delight in the Lord.
1Pe 1:8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:
Although the joy is indescribable, it is danceable, singable, shoutable, and laughable. Whatever the situation, simply learn and decide to express joyfully and adequately. Learn how to react with delight. The devil wants you to be sad, but you must never trade your joy for sadness. Make your home a haven of joy and laughter, not because you have a reason to be happy, but because you want to be happy all the time.
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How to Celebrate Your Relationship Or Marriage
Here are some practical ways to celebrate.
1. Be grateful
You can’t be happy unless you’re appreciative.
2. Get pumped up with joy!
Be upbeat because you know God will do great things. Rejoice because you believe in his mercy.
3. Sing
Fill your space with a song. Sing in tongues, in your comprehension, in the spirit, and always have a song ready.
4. Laugh
Choose to laugh. Allow no depression or unhappiness into your life or that of your family.
5. Shout
Learn to say Hallelujah to God all by yourself. It’s a triumphant cry.
6. Dance
Dancing in the presence of the Lord becomes a pathway to dancing in reality.
How To Get Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions. Negativity seems to be the norm in the world we live in. We acquire various habits as we grow older, such as drinking, smoking, gambling, masturbating, and seeing pornography, especially before getting born again. Most of the time, these practices are unhealthy for us.
In his generosity, God has not abandoned us defenseless. He has offered a solution to every sticky issue we might encounter. In actuality, He has already achieved victory for us.
The devil only wants to take advantage of our ignorance. We don’t read God’s word, therefore we continue to be uninformed. The more Scripture we consume, the more victory we can experience in God.
Sinful patterns and bad behaviors need to be actively changed if you want anything to change.
Here are a few strategies for handling any persistent sin in your life.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
1. Tell God the truth
This is the initial action. God expects you to be truthful with him. For God to assist you, you must be honest. Do not attempt to trick God. He is aware of everything and wants you to be accountable.
Because of this, He questioned Adam, “Where art thou?”
Be not fooled; God is not mocked, the Bible warns. You, therefore, approach God and tell the truth.
Take after Jacob. He had to honestly respond to the query “What is thy name?” before having his name changed from a liar to a Prince.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
2. Set a stake in place
A stake is used to designate or mark a significant location or the start of a journey. Make the decision to end it in front of God.
According to the Bible, sin should not dominate you. Decide what you want. Be tenacious. Ask God for assistance. Help is available, so don’t just live in hopelessness and helplessness.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
3. Rely on God’s strength
You’ll require divine strength. Yes, you will require God’s strength. Similar to how some things can only be changed via prayer and fasting, certain behaviors are difficult to break alone. God never intended you to prevail over them using your own abilities or knowledge.
You need the assistance of the Holy Spirit as a Christian. You won’t give in to the lust of the flesh if you connect with that power and walk in the Spirit.
God will grant you success in breaking those habits in Jesus’ name!
