Today is my birthday! 51 today! God has been really good! I want to express my appreciation to all our followers and partners over the years, God will continue to honour and bless you in Jesus’ name!
A FREE MASTER CLASS
There is a free Master Class you don’t want to miss! One for Couples, and one for Singles Have you registered for the FREE seminar to celebrate my 51st birthday yet? Find details below and the steps you need to take! And the best part? It’s absolutely FREE
COUPLES:
Time: 8:00pm Date: October 13th, 2023 Theme: Strengthening Connection
Instructions: Create a cozy date night atmosphere where you and your spouse can fully immerse yourselves without interruptions. Prepare some delicious snacks and drinks. Make sure to have writing materials on hand for the practical workbook session. The PDF materials will be provided during the webinar.
This free webinar is the first class of the 7 Weeks Ultimate Marriage Course.
Topic: Strengthening Connection
Activities included: a. Watching a video together as a couple b. Workbook session c. Live session with Dunamis & Sophia
Join us for an exclusive online seminar, the first class of Pre-Wedding Counseling for Singles. Theme: Enhancing Communication Skills Date: October 14th, 2023 Time: 8:00 PM
This exciting event includes:
a. A captivating video presentation b. Interactive workbook session c. Personal guidance from the esteemed duo, Dunamis & Sophia
Are you ready to embark on this transformative journey? If you haven’t registered yet, don’t miss out and secure your spot now! Simply click on this link – https://forms.gle/dUKo3nTHDLa5zphY7
The webinar link will be sent to you prior to 8:00pm on Friday! Wishing you all the best on your path to self-discovery and meaningful connections!
Find your way back to God. Similar to the prodigal son, who realized his mistakes while living a life of despair, it is crucial to come to terms with your own thoughts and emotions. This is the initial step towards regaining mental clarity, finding restoration, and overcoming confusion.
2. Seek forgiveness and dedicate yourself to growth
The next thing to do is to consciously ask God to forgive you. Do not allow the voice of doubt to convince you that you are beyond redemption. Remember, no one is ever too far gone. God has the power to save even the most lost souls. After seeking forgiveness, commit yourself to personal growth and transformation.
How To Overcome Confusion
3. Disconnect from negative influences and unhealthy relationships
The company we keep greatly impacts our lives. It is essential to sever ties with negative influences and ungodly associations. Delete their contact information and avoid visiting places that hinder your progress. Protect your destiny by making choices that align with your values and goals.
Seek the guidance of a mentor who has walked the path you aspire to tread. A mentor possesses wisdom that can help you navigate through foolishness. A single word of advice from a mentor can prevent a year of heartbreak and agony. However, choose a mentorship that feels mutually beneficial, and never allow yourself to be coerced into a mentoring relationship that doesn’t align with your comfort.
How To Overcome Confusion
5. Make reading the Bible a daily habit
Commit to reading the Bible every day. It nourishes your soul, provides spiritual sustenance, and safeguards you from falling into temptation.
6. Seek divine direction through prayer
Constantly communicate with God and seek His guidance in all aspects of life. Maintain an open line of communication with Him, and He will respond to the desires of your heart.
7. Place unwavering trust in God and His word
Trust in the Lord and His teachings. He genuinely cares for you and will always guide you in the right direction. Remember the words of Psalms 71:1, In thee, O Lord, do I put my trust: let me never be put to confusion.
Uncovering the Origins of Confusion. Today, I want to delve into a significant issue that affects both individuals and couples, whether single or married.
A recurring statement that I constantly hear is, “Pastor, I am in a state of confusion, unsure of what steps to take!” It is widely acknowledged that confusion does not originate from God. As stated in scripture:
For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. (1 Corinthians 14:33 KJV)
Confusion stems from the devil. A relationship or marriage plagued by confusion will inevitably crumble. Consider this:
The city of confusion is broken down: every house is shut up, that no man may come in. (Isaiah 24:10 KJV)
The next pertinent inquiry then becomes, “What are the causes of confusion?” Let us explore some of them. By identifying the root causes of confusion, one can avoid falling victim to them. So, what are these causes?
Uncovering the Origins of Confusion
1. Neglecting to read the Bible
The word of God is life-giving. In Him lies life, and this life serves as the guiding light for humanity. When one ceases to engage with divinity through His word, confusion inevitably takes hold. If the word of God brings life and light, then it follows that neglecting to read the Bible leads to darkness and spiritual death.
Initially, this may not manifest as physical death, but it undoubtedly results in a loss of direction, brewing confusion.
2. Ignoring the voice of God
The Spirit of God perpetually seeks to guide us. He communicates with us daily and at all times. Confusion becomes the outcome when one chooses to disregard His voice and instead follow the desires of their heart.
Obedience to God and His word brings peace of mind. Conversely, disobedience to God and His principles leads to confusion. The word of God is replete with guiding principles. By adhering to these principles, one can avoid disappointment.
We lie down in our shame, and our confusion covereth us: for we have sinned against the Lord our God, we and our fathers, from our youth even unto this day, and have not obeyed the voice of the Lord our God. (Jeremiah 3:25 KJV)
4. Engaging in multiple relationships simultaneously
Being involved with more than one person in a relationship invariably leads to confusion, as it disrupts God’s intended order.
When Adam proclaimed, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh,” he referred to a singular partner. However, when one engages with multiple individuals simultaneously, it becomes impossible to discern which person truly belongs to them.
5. Succumbing to sexual sins
Indulging in sexual compromises will undoubtedly lead to confusion. God does not desire for us to entangle ourselves in the snares of promiscuity. Such scenarios will invariably breed confusion, as they defy God’s intended order.
The subsequent pressing question then becomes, “What should one do when faced with confusion?” How does one extricate themselves from this state?
We will consider some potential solutions tomorrow.
Spirituality should never in any way disturb being a romantic lover, single or married.
This has nothing to do with sexual intimacy.
The synonyms of “romantic” include loving, amorous, passionate, tender, affectionate, lovey-dovey.
Speaking in tongues should not disturb speaking sweet things to your lover.
One is to God, the other is to your lover. After you have done the one for God, do the one for your lover as well.
Let your relationship or marriage be characterized by the expression of love.
Be passionate towards him or her.
Before the wedding, “passionate’ does not include kissing, smooching, and intimacy.
It includes calling regularly, doting on each other, praying for one another, sending loving (not vulgar or perverse) texts to each other (not sexting), buying each other flowers, chocolates, and special gifts, and doing memorable things together.
After the wedding, it includes all of the above and regular, consistent, times of intimacy, as much as you want.
In the Old Testament, honeymoons last as long as one year!
Deu 24:5 (KJV) When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken.
God wants you to enjoy each other! Obviously, this doesn’t mean to go and stay somewhere without work in today’s world, It simply means to continue in that atmosphere of honeymoon. By the time you do one year, it becomes a lifetime practice.
In the New Testament, God wants you to have a honeymoon for life! Enjoy every day of your married life!
Sadly enough, by the first week of most marriages, it is only the moon they can find, no honey!
That will not be your portion in Jesus’ name!
The Bible clearly advocates that married couples enjoy themselves sexually and otherwise.
Pro 5:18-19 (KJV) Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. [19] Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.
Are You Lovey-Dovey?
There is nothing wrong with fantasizing about your spouse! It is godly. Take a look at the Message Translation:
Pro 5:18-19 (MSG) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! [19] Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!
Have you done your free registration for this Friday’s seminar? Go ahead and do so, it’s my 51st birthday gift for you! Good morning!
