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Opposite, they say, will always attract. That has been found to be true, always and at all times. God is a God of varieties. God’s own way of ensuring that you don’t get so bored in marriage is that opposite will attract.

The reason you fell in love most of the time is because there is something you saw that you don’t have.

God in His wisdom, sovereignty and divine love, intends that your spouse will have strength in the area where you have weaknesses, and you will have strength in the area where your spouse has weaknesses.

The strengths versus weaknesses tango will then create a balance, so that the children can be properly and emotionally developed.

Won’t it really be very odd for husband and wife to have same weaknesses?

So opposite will attract. Your lover will reason and think differently from you, mostly.

These opposites that attract, however, will also now be the very thing that will cause irritations when the love euphoria dies down.

It is at this point that most relationships get broken, because they did not understand why they have been so different, without knowing that the very difference is what they need to create a beautiful balance and be able to have a matured marital experience.

So, do not despise your differences in any way, rather celebrate those differences because that is what will bring balance into the relationship and eventually your marriage.

The opposite ways will definitely bring different opinions, reasonings and conclusions, but you must be matured enough not to mute your spouse but rather create an enabling environment for expressions in the relationship and marriage.

Work on your strengths by maximizing them. Work on your weaknesses by minimizing them!

May God grant you more understanding.

I am different. I am unique. I am special.

Lord, help me to accept the fact that we are made to be different.

For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.
2 Corinthians 10:12 KJV

Study a book on temperament to know why you are different

Rom 4


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