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What God Wants Versus What You Want

In the journey of life, whether you’re single or in a relationship, it’s easy to get caught up in our own desires and expectations.

We often find ourselves asking, “What do I want?” But as followers of Christ, we must also ask, “What does God want for me?”

The difference between these two perspectives can shape the direction of our lives, relationships, and spiritual growth.

For singles, there may be moments when loneliness feels overwhelming, leading to impatience or even compromise. You might think, if only I had someone now, or why isn’t God moving faster? Yet, God’s timing is perfect, even if it doesn’t align with ours.

Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.”

When we surrender our plans to Him, He uses those seasons of waiting to refine us, deepen our faith, and prepare us for His best.

Couples, too, face challenges where personal desires conflict with divine will. Perhaps one spouse prioritizes career over family time, or both partners struggle to agree on major decisions like finances or children. In such cases, seeking God’s guidance becomes essential.

Ephesians 5:21 encourages mutual submission out of reverence for Christ. This means putting aside selfish ambitions and choosing instead to honor God through love and selflessness in marriage.

Ultimately, what God wants transcends fleeting pleasures or temporary satisfaction. He desires intimacy—both with Him and within our relationships.

For singles, this means cultivating a deeper walk with Christ during times of solitude.

For couples, it involves nurturing unity rooted in a shared devotion to God. By aligning our hearts with His purpose, we experience lasting joy and fulfillment that worldly pursuits can not provide.

So today, take a moment to reflect: Are my choices reflecting what I want or what God wants?

Let us pray for discernment, patience, and trust in His sovereign plan. As we yield our wills to Him, He promises blessings far greater than anything we could dream for ourselves.