Oil for Today: Day 383

Oil for Today: Day 383

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Oil for Today: Day 383 – Prayer For Relationship And Marriage

Prayer 1

Let’s begin to thank for His mercy

Ps.136.1 – O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.

Prayer 2

Lord, I speak mercy to my marriage/relationship.

Job 22.28 – Thou shalt also decree a thing, and it shall be established unto thee: and the light shall shine upon thy ways.

Prayer 3

Lord turn every evil counsel of the wicked over my marriage/relationship to foolishness

2Sam.15.31b – And David said, O LORD, I pray thee, turn the counsel of Ahithophel into foolishness.

Prayer 4

Lord Jesus take over the building of my marriage/relationship

Ps.127.1(MSG) – If GOD doesn’t build the house, the builders only build shacks. If GOD doesn’t guard the city, the night watchman might as well nap.

Prayer 5

I receive wisdom and understanding for my marriage/relationship.

Prov.24.3 (MSG)- It takes wisdom to build a house, and understanding to set it on a firm foundation;

Prayer 6

Wealth and glory accompany my marriage/relationship in the name of Jesus.

Prov.8.18 – Riches and honour are with me; yea, durable riches and righteousness.

Prayer 7

My marriage/relationship is fruitful in the name of Jesus.

Gen.9.7 – And you, be ye fruitful, and multiply; bring forth abundantly in the earth, and multiply therein.

Prayer 8

Appreciate God for the answered prayers.

Eph.3.20 – Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Prayer For Relationship And Marriage

Confession

My marriage/relationship is blessed. I will not lack wisdom and understanding in this marriage/relationship because I have made Christ the foundation. Negative words or counsel will not prevail over my marriage/relationship. The wine therein is fresh everyday and will not end. God is sustaining us with wealth and honour in the name of Jesus. Amen

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Help Pastor, We Don’t Communicate Well in Marriage

Help Pastor, We Don’t Communicate Well in Marriage

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Help Pastor, We Don’t Communicate Well in Marriage! Communication is so important in marriage. Just as you can do for long without food, the same way, you cannot do without communication in marriage.

There must be good communication between a husband and wife.

A husband and wife must talk about everything and anything. They must not be secretive and they must not hide anything for one another.

Never allow your communication to degenerate into mono-syllable answers, where it seems only one party is doing the talking.

Communication is so important that whole cities and countries have been brought down simply because the two parties involved cannot understand one another.

This is this story of Tower of Babel. They had a great goal; to build a city whose top will reach unto the heavens, God attested to their feat that they would do it.

The only way for God to stop their ambition is to touch their language and they could not understand each other.

Their language became confounded. Once that happened, their project was brought to an abrupt  end.

May I dare say that a lot of opportunities have been truncated because the husband and wife are busy fighting and throwing tantrums, and withdrawing from themselves.

Help Pastor, We Don’t Communicate Well in Marriage! Learn to talk in your marriage.

For communication to take place, there must be a person who is willing to receive and another who is willing to share.

When either party does not want to share and at the same time doesn’t want to receive, that may be a major issue there.

Help Pastor, We Don’t Communicate Well in Marriage! If you are the quiet one in your marriage, then you must consciously encourage your spouse when he or she is talking or joking.

Also, deliberately respond to your spouse and don’t just shake your head. Your spouse is not a Radio station which talks alone most of the time.

Be deliberate about good communication. I pray that God grant you more wisdom. Be blessed! 

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am helped in my marriage. Our communication is getting better.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, strengthen me in my are of weaknesses

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Gen 11:7 (MSG) Come, we’ll go down and garble their speech so they won’t understand each other.”

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to initiate a meaningful conversation between you and your spouse

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Genesis 11

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How To Exercise Dominion In Marriage

How To Exercise Dominion In Marriage

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COUPLES –

God created you to exercise dominion and authority on earth. It is not right for the one who is to exercise dominion to be dominated. You are to be the man and woman God created you to be.

All such things as insecurities, low self-esteem, rejection, condemnation, guilt, approval addiction, and fears, are all an attempt of the enemy to steal your authority from you. He attempts to make you laden with a poor image of yourself. That devil is a liar.

You have what it takes to have dominion. It was inbuilt into you at creation. Every source of insecurity is giving way right now. You cannot be battling with such feelings and expect to take charge of your life.

You take charge of your life by first knowing and believing what God says about you.

God says;

You are the head and not the tail.

You are acceptable in the beloved.

You are the apple of His eyes.

You can do all things through Christ that strengthens you.

Ye are gods and children of the Highest.

You have been made the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.

 All these and many other promises you have to believe. You are secured in who God says you are. Your approval is not based on your past, who rejected you, your performance, or what you did or didn’t do.

God wants you to enjoy life and have life in abundance. Having life in abundance is being in dominion and exercising your God-given authority, where you are not intimidated by anything or anybody.

Your relationships are good. You are trusting and hoping in the Lord. You have faith in your heavenly Father that He loves you and so he is mindful of you.

Walk in dominion and God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
God’s vision over my life will not be prolonged.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, this year, your vision for my life will speak!

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
This vision–message is a witness pointing to what’s coming. It aches for the coming––it can hardly wait! And it doesn’t lie. If it seems slow in coming, wait. It’s on its way. It will come right on time. Habakkuk 2:3 MSG

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write down plans for the coming months 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 17, 35

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How To Serve With Integrity of Heart In Marriage

How To Serve With Integrity of Heart In Marriage

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COUPLES –

God wants us to serve him with the integrity of heart.

In our homes and in our individual lives, God requires that we serve Him with an upright heart. Serve God in the faithfulness of your heart. Seeking to know God and His ways will engender walking in the integrity of your heart, where you are not deceived in your own heart.

Some people try to mock God. They serve God unfaithfully and expect the reward of being faithful.

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. – Gal 6:7

What you reap is a function of what you sow; that is God’s word. You can’t serve God without integrity and expect the reward of those that serve God with integrity.

David served God with the integrity of his heart. He was sincere. He was true to himself and to God. He loved God genuinely, he served him with the whole of his heart. He had no other God. Were David’s heart to be opened, you will see him serving God with the truth. He had no skeleton in his cupboard.

So he fed them according to the integrity of his heart; and guided them by the skilfulness of his hands. – Psa 78:72

God promised that if we walk in the integrity of heart and in uprightness, keeping all His statutes, He will establish us. In the works of our hands, in our homes, and on the job, He wants to show Himself faithful.

And if thou wilt walk before me, as David thy father walked, in integrity of heart, and in uprightness, to do according to all that I have commanded thee, and wilt keep my statutes and my judgments: Then I will establish the throne of thy kingdom upon Israel for ever, as I promised to David thy father, saying, There shall not fail thee a man upon the throne of Israel. – 1Ki 9:4 – 5

Let us be true to ourselves. Let us not think we can do things on our own. Let our heartbeat be to do His will. Some of us don’t want to do things God’s way because we think His ways are too difficult.

In our hearts, let us check for any form of deception that may want to deceive our hearts. As a husband or as a wife, seek to serve God with the integrity of your heart. God is searching for those whose hearts are upright towards him.

God bless your marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have the wisdom of God to do the needful

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will teach and instruct you in the way to go

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye (Psalms 32:8 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discuss the issue of integrity

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 56, 120, 140-142

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How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

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SINGLES – How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

God is interested in your relationship and marriage. God will always lead you even though He allows you to do the choosing. He will not force anyone on you. But if you ask for His direction, He will lead you and often reveal to you His best choice for you.

It is only God that sees you in some thirty years’ time, sees your intended spouse in some years to come, and knows what you will be doing before then, by then and after then, hence he knows the best person fit for you!

House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord. – Pro 19:14 AMP

I love the above scripture. You see, there is a plan of God for you concerning your marital life and it is important you follow that plan!

To understand this, we will go back to the very first story of marriage in the scripture. From there, we can always see the pattern that God has established. God’s methods may change, but His underlying principles remain unchanged!

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. – Gen 2:18-23 KJV

In verse eighteen, God rightly said the man needed a helper. So he created Eve for Adam. God created an Eve, not a Steve! God’s order is clear from the beginning! Man and another man is not God’s order. Two women in marriage is an aberration, it is not God’s order! That is just by the way.

After God created Adam and established he needed help, God created all animals and brought them to Adam to see what He would call them. Thank God, Adam named them appropriately and didn’t call a baboon a wife in the process. If Adam had looked at a monkey and said this is the bone of my bone….that would have spelt some trouble!

This could actually have happened because verse 20 says,

…but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

You must learn to name people appropriately and not go out with everybody or jump in bed with everyone and anyone! This is my boss. This is my colleague. This is just a friend! This is just an acquaintance. This is an unbeliever.

Like Adam, you must name people rightly! Not everybody is your helper! Some are nice but they are destiny killers! There are handsome destiny destroyers and beautiful dream abortionists. You must name people appropriately and you must not allow desperation to push you out of God’s will!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
By the Spirit of God, I am making wise decisions concerning my spouse. I make the most of opportunities in my relationships.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, I ask for an anointing of wisdom. Teach me to do the best and at the right time.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Lam 3:27 KJV It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discern which season you are now and ask God for wisdom to maximize it and choose your spouse.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 38-39

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