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What Marriage Is and What It’s Not

What Marriage Is and What It’s Not

Marriage is beautiful, but it can quickly be obscured by the challenges and pressures that come with it. Its intended purpose can quickly fizzle out if care is not taken. My discourse with couples this morning is taken from below short video. Watch it quickly before we proceed. https://youtu.be/hqOLwoI0Q_k The devil is a bad devil. He seeks to distract, and obscure the reality of what God intended! Your marital experience should be nothing short of fruitfulness. Fruit of the womb, fruit of the land, fruit from your substance and so on and so forth! Here is what God said: And…
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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife 1. Take Care Of Her NeedsA lady has many needs; material, emotional and spiritual Love to a lady is spelled being there for her at such times of need. As a guy who loves her genuinely, you should show empathy for her needs. Definitely, you will not be expected to meet all her needs especially since you are not her Jehovah Jireh. However, the husband is expected to show concern and encourage her in those times of need. Don't just ignore her needs and pretend as if those needs are not…
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Money Talks You Should Have With Your Spouse

Money Talks You Should Have With Your Spouse

We know money is a major part of our lives as married couples. In fact, we make about 70% of our decision based on finances. The house we live in, the area we stay, how many kids we have, what school they go, the type of clothes they wear, the type of food they eat, how comfortable the house we live in is, do we rent an apartment or buy one, what work we do, where we work, what part of the country we live in, what type of friends we have, the type of car(s) we have, what church…
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Before You Walk Down The Aisle

Before You Walk Down The Aisle

The fact is that there are no perfect persons and we are all projects in the hands of God. However, there are basic traits to watch out for generally. While you may not be able to find a person that successfully combines all these, the qualities should guide you in your decision. If a person does not have character defects and does not live in habitual sin, some of these qualities can be improved upon by asking God for His grace. 1. The test of integrity.Test him for faithfulness and integrity in little and big things. Make sure she has…
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Your Money Is No Longer Your Money

Your Money Is No Longer Your Money

In marriage, it is our money! Marriage fuses two individuals together, and they are no longer two but one! Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. Mat 19:6 (KJV) The Passion Translation puts it this way: From then on, they are no longer two, but united as one. So what God unites let no one divide!” Mat 19:6 (TPT) There is nothing like “My money!" Marriage wedges two destinies together, wherein you are naked and not ashamed. In marriage covenant as ordained by God, there should be…
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How Unfaithfulness Can Be Spelt As Neglect

How Unfaithfulness Can Be Spelt As Neglect

How do you know a potential spouse that will be unfaithful when you are not married yet? There are tell-tale signs. When you double date, you are simply in a rehearsal for adultery. Simple! Why is this so? You see, it takes the same heart! The heart that can accommodate and justify double dating will also glide into the dangerous terrain of adultery and extra-marital affairs effortlessly! Adultery is a killer. It looks sweet initially, but the consequences are undesirable. Now, let’s look at some scriptures in the book of Proverbs. When Solomon starts talking to you about adultery, you…
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Why She Is Vital In Your Life

Why She Is Vital In Your Life

Women occupy a major part in the plan of God, in the life of a man and in the society in general. Her role and importance cannot be over-emphasized as this is exemplified in her capacity to cause procreation to become a reality. She is the woman, the man with a womb, The womb-man! She is the help-meet! The helper for the man. Isn’t it interesting that she and the Holy Spirit are the ones referred to as helpers throughout the scripture? You grieve the Holy Spirit, your prayers can be hindered. You grieve your wife, your prayers can be…
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Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire?

Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire?

Wow, it’s twenty-five million Naira to be won. Which Couple Wants To Be A Millionaire? The couples’ meeting got to an interesting part all have been waiting for! 25 Million grand! It can buy a few cars or build a bungalow! Every couple present looked out to winning the star prize that night. The moderator’s voice boomed out of the sound system as he announced what it takes to win the money! Couples could be seen whispering to each other, full of excitement and joy that is welling up from within. Who doesn’t want that kind of money! Some even…
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The Four “F”s of A Great Marriage

The Four “F”s of A Great Marriage

1. FocusA great marriage is made of a couple who are so into themselves. They focus on each other’s needs. They love each other tirelessly. They are best friends of themselves. For the Lord God will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed. Isa 50:7 (KJV) God will help, but you must set your face like a flint, which means to focus. Focusing on each other will help you to be faithful to each other in your marriage. 2. ForgiveA fantastic…
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How To Exit And End An Affair Properly

How To Exit And End An Affair Properly

It’s a generation where husbands and wives are cheating on each other, even within the church. People have a lot of excuses why it had to happen. It’s all sounding as if God has revised the scriptures and is now accommodating such lifestyles, but truthfully, the scripture remains the same. God still frowns at it! The devil is a master strategist. From the very day you are married, he begins to plot and twist, all in a bid to bring you against your maker. You must do well not to slide into his slimy descent of deception. As couples, you…
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She Wants A Longer Time In The Chamber

She Wants A Longer Time In The Chamber

I suppose you already understand what I mean by the word “chamber.”I am not talking about lawyers! Smile…and this is for married couples. This is married couples’ devotionals. If you are single before I count three; Oya! 1…2…Pim! There are some times that love is made in what we often refer to as a quickie. That is understandable. And it’s one type of doing it. And it’s cool. However, if you want to make your wife happy and give her an earth-shaking big “O,” then you are going to spend some more time or longer time before the actual thing.…
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Take Care Of Your Woman

Take Care Of Your Woman

I love the way our Eastern brothers usually refer to their wives. They will say "My Woman!" Well, your wife is your woman. She is yours and no other. So you simply take care of her. "Oh yeah, Pastor, I am taking care of her.' "Have you really asked her and engaged her to know her definition of being cared for? It may be way different from what you think. What a woman interprets as care is often influenced by a lot of factors which may include background, parental upbringing, schools attended, church attended, personality type, temperament, past experiences, and…
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September To Remember  – Day 16

September To Remember – Day 16

Today, we are on September To Remember - Day 16. September To Remember Fasting was called by God to cause us a birthing Scriptures for Today September To Remember - Day 16 Arise, shine; for thy light is come, and the glory of the LORD is risen upon thee.Isa 60:1 (KJV) ARISE [from the depression and prostration in which circumstances have kept you--rise to a new life]! Shine (be radiant with the glory of the Lord), for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord has risen upon you!Isa 60:1 (AMPC) And the Gentiles shall come to thy…
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Loving a Choleric Wife Without Shutting Her Down

Loving a Choleric Wife Without Shutting Her Down

Choleric wives are energetic and creative. They never run out of ideas. They are full of boundless energy and they cannot sit in one place. Properly channeled, nurtured, and encouraged, they can fit into the energetic virtuous man described in the book of Proverbs They are very independent, and they can act like they don’t need their husbands for anything. She is productive, has the capacity to have several businesses running at the same time and she will usually climb to the zenith of her career if she chooses. All these can come at a price to pay, however. The…
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Dear Couples, Avoid Nagging in Your Marriage

Dear Couples, Avoid Nagging in Your Marriage

There is a habit that is so unhealthy for any marriage. Do all you can to avoid it like a plague! It’s called Nagging! One of the persons you should respect when he is offering marital advice is King Solomon. You will never be able to break his record. With a thousand women in his harem, no living human being has been able to break that record. He was simply in a class of his own when it comes to women. He had them all and he would know a lot about them. So he gave a piece of advice…
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Outward Beauty Versus Inner Beauty

Outward Beauty Versus Inner Beauty

Outward Beauty Versus Inner Beauty There is something about that which comes from within. The pulchritude is that which is seen, but is often a total departure from the true reflection within. And yet the reality is that the external alone cannot be used to conclude on the entity. Adam saw bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh, not just flesh alone! Dwelling on the flesh, the externals alone is a gross mistake in decoding the personality. What makes a person includes the deep things, the values, the happenstances in the realm of the mind and events that…
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