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Ten Things You Should Not Do For Your Lover

Ten Things You Should Not Do For Your Lover

Most times, we need to be reminded not just what to do, but what not to do in a relationship that will lead to marriage. God is clear in His word regarding the Don’ts. It is your ability to stay within the parameters of God’s word that will guarantee a great relationship that will lead to a wedding. Here are those things you need to pay attention to. 1. Do not stop praying for each otherHear this again and again, in addition to working on your relationship, you are going to need a lot of prayers. You are going to…
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Don’t Make The Mistake Of Believing These

Don’t Make The Mistake Of Believing These

There are several beliefs that are so popular and yet very wrong. They are as wrong as they are popular. Believing them is to the detriment of that believer. This morning, I want to delve into some of them so you can roll them up as they come and throw them in the trash can. Incidentally, some of them will be fed to us by precious family and friends around us. That is to the extent they know. And that is why we often believe them. However, you need to note, that irrespective of the source of an information, once…
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Help Pastor, My Heart Is Broken

Help Pastor, My Heart Is Broken

Betty gave her all to that relationship. It was the very first time she would fall in love and it meant a lot to her. She saw nothing other than a glorious wedding, a blissful marriage, and wonderful children ahead. She fantasized herself being with Bode, loving each other as married couples. She nearly failed her exam at a time because she was in love. The love was like drugs to her. She thought about nothing other than Bode. Her friends told her to slow down but she told them they were jealous and it was because theirs weren’t working.…
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Why Are My Prayers Not Answered?

Why Are My Prayers Not Answered?

Betty has been praying to God for the right man for a few years. Her expectation of her prayers being answered had driven her into some relationships that never worked out. You know how you had prayed and then the next person that showed up seemed like the right person, only for the person to heavily disappoint. Betty wasn’t happy at all. On some days, she would wake up with depression. At other times, she would think something was wrong with her. What could be wrong with Betty? There are those seasons in life that it looked like prayers are…
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When Your Lover Wants To Love You Secretly

When Your Lover Wants To Love You Secretly

Back then, as a young man in the university, I had just fallen in love. It all looked so unique because that would be my first and incidentally, the last. I remember how I was giggling all over the place, because I was in love. Next thing I felt like doing and which I did was to introduce her to all loved ones, friends, family and all who matter to me. It was just a natural course of action. If you are in a relationship and your partner is reluctant to introduce you to family, then something might not be…
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How Being Too Emotional Can Ruin Anybody Quickly

How Being Too Emotional Can Ruin Anybody Quickly

Sade has been abused since she was young. Almost everybody who met her wanted to abuse her. From her cousins to her Uncles, and then to the gateman. From fellow schoolmates to friends and neighbors, it has been the same story. It is as though she has a magnetic entity in her body that draws people filled with lust. She got born again and the story did not change. She is completely frustrated and did not what to do. At the root of it all, she discovered she has grown to a point where she actually entertained herself with abusive…
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Signs That Your Lover No Longer Loves You

Signs That Your Lover No Longer Loves You

You don’t need a diviner or a herbalist of a soothsayer to know the man that is just playing you and will not marry you. All the tell-tale signs are loud and visible. The actions and inactions, the disenfranchisement and the distance, the unaccountability and the subtle rebellion are all the signs that should not be ignored in any way. Here is an indication that He will not marry you. Little or No Communication The guy who will not marry you is likely to starve your of communication. If there are two love birds, one way you will know them…
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When You Are Marvelously Helped In Your Love Life

When You Are Marvelously Helped In Your Love Life

There is hardly any strong person. We only have helped people. My discourse with you this morning is a prophetic declaration that you will be marvelously helped in your relationship in Jesus name. Oratory power is cool. Intellectual prowess is admired but is not always a magic wand when it comes to the problems of life. There are issues that defy the best of the intellectuals. There are puzzles and enigmas of life that are beyond the parameters of cognitive abilities. At the end of the day, ensure you are helped of God. Your innate abilities, your gifting, your intelligence…
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Do Not Dance Where Angels Fear To Tread

Do Not Dance Where Angels Fear To Tread

The race is never to the swift. The battle is not to the strong. We are only helped of God. This is not to disregard the significance of labour, for there is dignity in labour. However, and at the end of the day, the realization sinks, that it is all by the help of God. Let’s take a look at the scripture this morning. He also installed the latest in military technology on the towers and corners of Jerusalem for shooting arrows and hurling stones. He became well known for all this—a famous king. Everything seemed to go his way.…
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Dear Singles, Don’t Limit God In Your Love Life

Dear Singles, Don’t Limit God In Your Love Life

A perpetually irritating friend or ally is always somewhat a nuisance. There are some naughty relationships like that. They just keep provoking you and testing your patience till you want out. After you have been grieved severally and you are brought into a place where it looks like there will be no change, you probably want to quit. If this is done to you, you sure don’t want to stay too long among such people. There is a way you naturally move away from where you are being afflicted to where you will be celebrated. Nobody wants his or her…
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Ten Statements You Should Not Say To Your Lover

Ten Statements You Should Not Say To Your Lover

Words are powerful. It is interesting to know that our world is created by our words. Your micro world as well, guess what, was fashioned by your words. Words are so powerful that what you say eventually overwhelms you and give direction to your life. It is in the regard that the scripture says: "Take this most seriously: A yes on earth is yes in heaven; a no on earth is no in heaven. What you say to one another is eternal. I mean this. Mat 18:18 (MSG) Words are so powerful that even the heavenlies respond to your words…
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God is Punishing Me, What Should I Do?

God is Punishing Me, What Should I Do?

I remember how many times I was disciplined growing up. With mum, it was regular and lenient. With dad, it was occasional but terrible and indelible. I can’t forget the day my younger sister reported me to dad that I jumped from a first floor balcony, only trying to show that what a boy could do, a girl couldn’t. Well, she showed me what girl could do; she reported me. My dad beat me so much that when I slept that night, I dreamt that I died and I was buried. It was that intense. The discipline “entered” From that…
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The Bone of Your Bones And The Flesh Of Your Flesh

The Bone of Your Bones And The Flesh Of Your Flesh

Bones are so important in the body that it cuts across the entire body mass. They are everywhere, even inside the ears! And the bones in the body are so important that any anomaly in it is the beginning of a slow death. May our bones remain strong! Bones! You don’t see them, but they hold the entire frame of the homo sapien in place. Without bones, the man will collapse, unable to move an inch. Without bones, mobility will cease, and productivity will be grounded, so much so that any anomaly is often referred to as a disability. Then…
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It’s September To Remember To Birth Greatness

It’s September To Remember To Birth Greatness

There is a plan of heaven this month on your life! It’s good news! Get ready! One of the most joyful events among humanity is the birthing of a new baby! How beautiful can it be? Especially, when the parents have been trusting and waiting for a while! The arrival of the baby elicits a joy that knows no bounds, an excitement that goes really deep and an ecstasy beyond what any drug can offer! All because of what? The birthing of a new baby! I love Septembers! Forget about the wild belief of “ember” months! I choose to disregard…
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Don’t Allow What You See To Slow You Down

Don’t Allow What You See To Slow You Down

There are several gateways to a man’s spirit. These gateways are like large open doors through which good or bad spirits can access our inner man. I believe it is to this intent that the scripture says: Pro 4:23 (KJV)Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. The heart has to be kept with security systems that would prevent unsolicited access into your heart. The gateways in every man include the mouth gate, the eye gate, the ear gate, and nose gate. This morning, I want to say a few words as it…
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Why Your Lover Will Always Be Different From You

Why Your Lover Will Always Be Different From You

Opposite, they say, will always attract. That has been found to be true, always and at all times. God is a God of varieties. God’s own way of ensuring that you don’t get so bored in marriage is that opposite will attract. The reason you fell in love most of the time is because there is something you saw that you don’t have. God in His wisdom, sovereignty and divine love, intends that your spouse will have strength in the area where you have weaknesses, and you will have strength in the area where your spouse has weaknesses. The strengths…
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