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4. Blame Shift

You are constantly blamed for their woes, problems, difficulties, lack, failure and unhappiness.

You are told that you are the reason for any misfortune in their lives.

You are constantly reminded that everything with them was okay until you came into their lives.

5. Withdrawal

They are adept in withdrawing into their shells in order to punish you and demand your attention. They disengage and use neglect, abandonment, and measured withdrawals to punish, frighten and intimidate you.

6. You are always in the wrong

They make you feel that they are always right, and you are wrong. They would arrange facts and sentiments to prove that to you over and over again until you start thinking there is a curse on you, or that some people are fighting you spiritually from your village.

7. Control over you finances

They try to control your finances and how you spend money. Your credit card is permanently with them.

They tell you what to buy and what not to buy. You are told that you are a careless spender and and you cannot mange money well.

They end up emptying your account from month to month and keep threatening you that they will leave you and you will not be able to survive.

You know what?

God has made you free from such manipulative relationships!

Our soul is escaped as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and we are escaped.

Psa 124:7 (KJV)

The snare of the soul has been broken by the Lord Jesus Christ.
Do not subject yourself under any weak and beggarly element again! You have been made free!

I pray for all who might be in an emotionally draining and abusive alliance.
I break the power of such deceptions and manipulations in Jesus name and I proclaim you free in Jesus name!

Whosoever the son of man has made free is free indeed! You are free from today in Jesus name!

The eyes of my understanding are opened to see these signs.

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:

Disconnect from every wrong relationship when

Pro 6


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