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Loving Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul 

As singles, we need to know who to fall in love with. As couples, we need to keep falling in love with the person we have chosen. 

Let’s talk to singles first. I frequently remind people that there are some questions for which they do not need to pray. Certain situations do not need seeking God’s face. Certain concerns should not be brought up with your pastor.

God is an orderly God! So, when He created us, he gave us brains so that we could think. In addition, He gave us His word to instruct us. His principles are clearly stated in His word.

So, when it comes to receiving guidance from God regarding relationships and marriage, there are some issues we don’t need to ask God about again because He has already informed us in His word.

As a single individual ready to marry, you cannot marry everyone and everyone. Some people should be avoided. You see, when you fall in love with the wrong person, there’s no need in asking God about it because His word already tells you not to.

That is why we never receive responses to some of our prayers because His word clearly provided the solution.

This is why, according to James, we sometimes ask the wrong question.

Jas 4:3 AMP
[Or] you do ask [God for them] and yet fail to receive, because you ask with wrong purpose and evil, selfish motives. Your intention is [when you get what you desire] to spend it in sensual pleasures.

Loving Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul 

So, who are you not supposed to fall in love with?

Don’t fall in love with someone who despises God!

That’s all there is to it.

You cannot love someone who despises God. Hear me, and hear me clearly. Do not consider him if he has not been born again and does not fear God. Don’t bother asking God whether it’s okay. His word is already clear: don’t do it.

2Co 6:14 MSG
Don’t become partners with those who reject God. How can you make a partnership out of right and wrong? That’s not partnership; that’s war. Is light best friends with dark?

Loving Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul 

Light and darkness cannot be united in marriage.

Now comes the tricky part.

A God-hater can appear to be pleasant. A God-hater, like Nabal, can amass wealth, but that wealth will harm them.

Pro 1:32 KJV
For the turning away of the simple shall slay them, and the prosperity of fools shall destroy them.

Think carefully before falling in love. Watch your hormones and sentiments before they take control of your spirit! Watch it before your thinking is dismissed and your sensibility is blunted by “love.”

It is explicitly stated in the scriptures. A person who does not know God cannot adequately love you. God is love, and you must first know God in order to genuinely love another.

The majority of what is professed as love is simply lust!

What if you’ve already fallen in love with someone who doesn’t know God and has stated his disinterest in God? Simply rise above the love you’ve fallen into! No more.

You fell in love, didn’t you? Simply get up and leave the love to save your life and destiny. Your life’s mission and purpose should not be buried and forgotten in the kitchen of a God-hater!

Deliver yourself and go off!

Pro 6:5 KJV
Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

What if you are already married?

The first thing to think of is not divorce or separation. The first thing is how to save your marriage. Unless of course, you are being abused and your life is threatened. If your life is not threatened, then you want to pray and seek counsel and find ways to initiate changes and improve the marriage. Ultimately, the relationship with God has to be prioritized by the couple and then all others will fall in gradually. 


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