1. Do not pass the night in his house
If you do, you can end up pleasing him and offending God. Losing God’s support and favor is not what anybody should experience
2. Do not succumb to any sexual pressures
Do not melt like stew every time someone touches you.
You are not a sexual toy.
You are not a sexual object.
Relationships that are sex driven do not last.
3. Do not double date
Don’t welcome deception into your heart.
It is a dangerous visitor.
The capacity to cheat on him or her is a capacity that ends in destruction.
4. Do not fall into comparison traps
We are all unique.
We will not all take off at the same time and sure enough arrival points will be different.
2Co 10:12 (KJV)
For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.
5. Do not sow seed of bitterness
Avoid use of wrong words.
Words are spirits!
Let go of abusive words, vulgar words and curse words.
Speak healthy words
6. Encourage him in that which is good
Be an encourager.
Be a helper.
Seek his advancement.
7. Seek God together and for each other
Pray a lot for him.
Seek for God and do it with all your heart.
Jer 29:13 (KJV)
And ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.
8. Pay attention to your spiritual life
Ask questions when you are in the presence of great people.
9. Get a mentor over your relationship.
Mentors will fence off tormentors of destinies.
10. Avoid strife completely
Strife ushers in dryness.
Avoid it like a plague.
Confusion lies on the bosom of strife.
Jas 3:16 (KJV)
For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
May God grant more understanding on how to love God.
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
The Lord is my helper
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray for grace to love God.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 3:3 (KJV)
But thou, O LORD, art a shield for me; my glory, and the lifter up of mine head.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Praise God today
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Romans 1 -3
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