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By now all marriage folks on KHC know that it is the responsibility of the wife to be her husband’s helper or helpmeet.

The Bible says so. God said, ‘I will make for him a help meet”. Every wife has inside her what it takes to be her husband first ever helper.

She has what it takes to be her husband ‘s helper in such a way that he will not have to look outside the marriage for a helper.

The issue is now positioning yourself to be the helper God created you to be. Functioning in the area of our calling. It’s sometimes difficult knowing how to function per time especially with the different areas of his life he needs help.

First, we need to be strong. It is only the strong that can be a help meet indeed. We need to include it in our prayers daily that God should strengthen us to function in the area of our calling as help meets to our husbands.

Every thing that may want to steal our strength is indirectly stealing our ability to be proper help meet. And the bible says the joy of the Lord is our strength.

So we need to guard our joy. Joy is an attitude. We need to make a concrete decision to stay joyful. We don’t want to depend on people, situation or things for our joy. Despite what is going on around us, you have to make up your mind to be joyful.

Every self pity, self condemnation, victim mentality, approval mentality, low self image, feelings of rejection, being approval addictive and every other emotional problems are all that seek to steal our joy.

It will interest you to know that majorly, ladies are the ones that deal with one or more of such emotional problems.There is a constant battle of the devil with the women so that they will not fulfill their destiny and calling as helpers.

But the devil is a liar over you and your home in Jesus name! 

I am joyful. I fulfill my destiny. 

Lord, strengthen me

Gen 39:21 (KJV)  But the LORD was with Joseph, and shewed him mercy, and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison.

Decide to be joyful

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