Why Apostle Paul Said You Should Not Marry

Why Apostle Paul Said You Should Not Marry

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Why Apostle Paul Said You Should Not Marry. Did Apostle Paul actually say this? Yes, he did. He was actually asking the singles to stay single if they can and the married to stay married and not contemplate separation or divorce. Why would Apostle Paul say this?

Let’s look at the context in which he said this.

1Co 7:27 (MSG)  
Are you married? Stay married. Are you unmarried? Don’t get married.


Now, I already know all the singles here want to get married, so that is not my subject of contemplation this morning.

The point I am trying to make is found in the next verse:

Why Apostle Paul Said You Should Not Marry
1Co 7:28 (MSG) But there’s certainly no sin in getting married, whether you’re a virgin or not. All I am saying is that when you marry, you take on additional stress in an already stressful time, and I want to spare you if possible.

Did you see that phrase?

All I am saying is that when you marry, you take on additional stress in an already stressful time!

Wow! Is there really additional stress that comes with marriage?

Well, the reality is that it is true!

Since you want to get married, (otherwise, you wouldn’t be on the Kisses and Huggs Club site, lol) what we should focus on is finding out what this stress is and how to manage the stress

The stress is what comes as a result of temperamental differences, man-woman differences, the needs of men versus the needs of women, and so on and so forth. This is Why Apostle Paul Said You Should Not Marry

And you know what, these differences can be very overwhelming and have led to separation and divorce in some couples. This additional stress can make you do what you don’t intend to do!

This additional stress comes when you refuse to learn the ropes. They come when you are not accountable to anyone in marriage. They come when you are unloving and not submissive. They come when you are trying to prove points in marriage. They come when you don’t understand that marriage is not a place to demand your rights, but a place to please your spouse after pleasing God. They come when you won’t love your wife the way the Bible recommended, and when you won’t submit to your husband the way the Bible advocated.

Prepare yourselves singles. Read all you can read. Go for wisdom. Work on your character. Develop a strong relationship with God. How do you relate with your roommates or colleagues at work now? Are they complaining about specific attitudes? That is what your future spouse would likely complain about after “eyes don clear!” Don’t ever go into marriage without proper Marriage Counseling! That you say apart is no longer an excuse, there are online Pre-Wedding Counseling that is comprehensive enough to give you a head start.

Married couples? Don’t be stressed out. Enjoy the wife of your youth. Make up your mind not to lose your joy! Treat one another tenderly. TLC – Tender Loving Care! Invest in your marriage. Go for Marriage Therapy when things are going South! When things are not working, don’t ignore or look on, or they will get worse, don’t just pray alone, learn, read, research, and go for Professional Therapy if need be!

May God bless your relationship and marriage!

I pray God will help you indeed.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will follow God’s leading for my life

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me into your marital plan for me 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
1Co 7:27 (TPT) If you are married, stay in the marriage. If you are single, don’t rush into marriage.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Read a book on marriage 

BIBLE READING
I Co 7

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The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage

The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage

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The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage. Back then in our University days, we had to go and fetch water some five houses away when our water tank got depleted. We would usually use a water drawer, which could be scarce in those days.

Without the drawer, you are on your own. The one with the drawer was always the champion.

When you are the one that owns the drawer, you simply guard it jealously, because some fellows can be careless and break the drawer, spoil the rope and it would start leaking and all.

I want to teach you this morning how not to spoil your drawer! What is The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage?

Salvation is more than being saved from sin. The word salvation is “Yeshua” in Hebrews and it means deliverance, welfare, prosperity, salvation, victory (in relationship and marriage) and more.

Think of Salvation as well. Think of drawing protection, life, deliverance, health, prosperity, and more from that well.

What is The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage? How do I ensure my drawer is not spoiled so I can fetch good relationships, courtship, and marriage?

Here it is!

Isa 12:3 (KJV) Therefore with joy shall ye draw water out of the wells of salvation.

With joy!  Joy is The Drawer of Relationship and Marriage!

No wonder the devil attacks your joy! No wonder your exuberance is always in contention!

Yorubas call Drawer “Doro!” Hey, don’t come and spoil my Doro!

When that guy starts disturbing you as a single for sex, he wants to spoil your drawer! Because afterward, you are going to be filled with guilt, lose your joy, and can’t fetch anything!

Husbands and wives, those little altercations that you allow to degenerate into strife and bickering, you are spoiling your drawer!

Guard your joy! Protect your Doro.

Leave my drawer alone!

It is not every quarrel you respond to. It is not every right you contend for. Go for peace and apologize quickly so you can fetch all you need out of that well per time!

Envy, jealousy, gossip, strife, bitterness, unforgiving spirit, animosity, and the like will spoil your drawer.

Avoiding them like a plague is simply how not to spoil your drawer!

Know this and know peace!

Good morning! 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I keep my joy intact

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Isa 12:3 (MSG) Joyfully you’ll pull up buckets of water from the wells of salvation.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
End all strife and bickering

BIBLE READING
Is.12

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The Rock And Hole of Marriage

The Rock And Hole of Marriage

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The Rock And Hole of Marriage. The ubiety of duality cuts across the landscape of human endeavors. Life has a way of dishing it out in twos. Man and woman. Boy and girl. Husband and wife. Heaven and earth. Light and darkness. Life and death. I could go on and on.

In the same vein, there are two coordinates I want to establish this morning with their significance and application. 

The Rock And Hole of Marriage.

Let’s take a look at scripture. 

Isa 51:1 (KJV) Hearken to me, ye that follow after righteousness, ye that seek the LORD: look unto the rock whence ye are hewn, and to the hole of the pit whence ye are digged.

We are exhorted to look at two things; the rock and the hole. 

In our relationship or marriages, you are dealing with two dimensions in your spouse or lover if you are not yet wedded.

Your spouse or lover is a product of rock and hole. 

The rock is that which you look up to. The scripture says that rock is Christ. 

Look unto Jesus, constantly and continuously beholding His word. 

In your relationship or marriage, that rock must be your motivation, allowing it to draw you and pull you closer to God. The closer you and your spouse or lover yield to that rock, the more you experience God, and the more you are established as a rock.

But then, we are told to look at the hole as well. The hole from which we are dug. 

The hole represents that past where you came from. The mess from which your message emanated. The hole is that which you were delivered from. It is the snare that has been broken, and from which your soul has escaped. It is the past bondage that held you by the jugular, that the power of Christ, the rock pulled you from.

Why look at the hole? I can understand looking at the rock, it’s positive, and it presents a picture of progress. But the hole?

Well, looking at the hole is to usher you into perpetual gratitude, to have an overwhelming heart of thanksgiving to God for where he dug you from.

You could have died in that hole, but He brought you out and made you whole! Glory to God.

Looking unto the rock keeps you fired up and productive. Looking unto the hole keeps you humble and filled with thanksgiving.

These two dimensions, when engaged, keep you in your marriage and relationship. The Rock And Hole of Marriage.

May God grant you more understanding.

Have a great Sunday and be blessed. 

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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I look to the rock constantly 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, establish me upon the rock 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 
Isa 51:1 (MSG) “Listen to me, all you who are serious about right living and committed to seeking GOD. Ponder the rock from which you were cut, the quarry from which you were dug.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Thank God for digging you out of the hole 

BIBLE READING
Is.51

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Kisses of Enemies And Wounds Of Friends

Kisses of Enemies And Wounds Of Friends

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Kisses of Enemies And Wounds Of Friends. Ade met Sally and professed his love. He was all over her. Six months later, Sally was heartbroken. Ade became her enemy. There have been several kisses, but they were kisses of an enemy.

Mr. and Mrs. Johnson have married two years ago. Mr. Johnson had a bad habit that only his wife knows. His wife was on his case, until he began to make changes. His ego was bruised, and his pride was punctured, but he got better. He was wounded, but they were wounds of a friend.

The scripture is filled with God’s wisdom. There is enough wisdom in God’s word such that, if followed, crises in relationships and marriages will be minimized.

Let’s take a look at the scripture

Pro 27:6 (KJV) Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

There is an obvious contradiction in the verse above. I would have understood if the Bible says “The kisses of a friend and the wounds of an enemy. But the scripture says “Wounds of a friend and the kisses of an enemy.”

The friend comes with wounds. The enemy comes with kisses. Kisses of Enemies And Wounds Of Friends

Your lover or spouse will often come with wounds, yet he meant well. Corrections and confrontations will burst you ego, will dissolve your pride and will challenge your weakness zone! You will feel wounded either in courtship or marriage because that which you are used to is being unsettled.

Never refuse instructions from your spouse because your spouse knows you in and out.

Pro 15:32 (KJV) He that refuseth instruction despiseth his own soul: but he that heareth reproof getteth understanding.

Get ready to be wounded by those who love you! The one decorating you with kisses only is actually an enemy! The one that doesn’t correct you and tells you what you want to hear all the time is an enemy.

True love can be tough. God chastises those He loves! It pleased God for Jesus to be wounded so that we might be saved. It took a kiss from Judas for Jesus to be betrayed.

A kiss came from the devil because the Bible says Satan entered Judas. But a wound came from God to Jesus. He was wounded for our transgressions!

Your friend is a “wounder” and your enemy is a “kisser! Know this and know peace!

When you understand these dynamics, you will know that your spouse is not an enemy, the one who is not your spouse but is taking advantage and telling you stuff is actually an enemy! This is where we will stop on Kisses of Enemies And Wounds Of Friends. May God grant you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not cooperate with my enemy

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Ask God to show you the motives of people around you

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 15:32 (MSG) An undisciplined, self-willed life is puny; an obedient, God-willed life is spacious.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Appreciate those who correct you

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Prov 15

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Love Before And After Wedding

Love Before And After Wedding

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Love Before And After Wedding. Don’t Fall In Love With Just Anybody. Why fall in love with another person’s spouse? What do you wish the other person? That he or she should die so that you can get married to that person? Not a good wish and that is a prayer God will never answer.

Such desires waste your time, it blinds you to the original thing God wants to do in your life and ultimately bring delay in God’s individual plan for you. Besides, you will be endangering your life. The wrath of a man or woman whose spouse is being trifled with is not something to experience.

It’s the same when you have sex with your neighbor’s wife: Touch her and you’ll pay for it. No excuses. Adultery is a brainless act, soul–destroying, self–destructive; Expect a bloody nose, a black eye, and a reputation ruined for good (Proverbs 6:29,32-33 Message)

Why fall in love with a person you cannot spend your life with? You don’t like him, but you are in love. You know he doesn’t like you but you are in love. The pastor must not know about the relationship, but you are in love. Your parents must have none of that relationship, but you are in love. All your friends are warning you about this person, but you are in love. God’s principles are being violated but you are in love.

Well, that would not really be love, because you cannot love a person you don’t like! Something is amiss somewhere and it is an indication for you to apply the brakes.

Why fall in love with a man because of money?

You don’t love him, you hate his guts, but now you have fallen in love with his money. Man is not designed to be Jehovah Jireh, so don’t attempt to invent that.

That man promising you heaven and earth will fail you in the end. Why? Man is built to disappoint!

Why do you put up with him? Money? The wrong purpose for sticking together! Why would you put up with an older woman? Money? Wrong way of living! It is what Jesus Christ referred to as the deceitfulness of riches.

Married Couples – Love Before And After Wedding

Married couples, You fall in love over and over again with your spouse after the wedding because it keeps the marriage fire burning. It is what you must do deliberately.

Love Before And After Wedding. Let’s talk to married couples.

In marriage, you should not allow the fire to go out. Be creative. Never stop wooing each other.

There are intense temptations and traps out there, so you protect each other by falling in love repeatedly! Take yourselves out again. Toast her again. Get the flowers and write the poems again!

When you make that sacrifice for each other, you will have peace of mind in your marriage and you will be able to maximize the power of agreement that lies in a good marriage!

Finally, what do you do when you find yourself in love with the wrong person? Walk away. Run away. Fly away! By all means, save your soul!

Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler. (Proverbs 6:5 KJV)

I know it can be uneasy because of emotional connection, but when you think of the inevitable agony that lies ahead, the consequences of disobedience that are sure to come, the disenfranchising of oneself from the favour and support of God, and the delay of God’s beautiful plan, when you think about all those and more and you sum them together, you will muster enough strength to fly away and say a “strong NO” to a wrong lifestyle.

And the beauty of it all, God will be waiting to embrace you and make all things right! Decide today! May you receive strength today to live for God! This is Love Before And After Wedding

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will give you direction 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 6:5 (MSG)  Run like a deer from the hunter, fly like a bird from the trapper!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Disconnect from all ungodly relationships

BIBLE READING
2 Kings 19

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How To Be Romantic And Spiritual

How To Be Romantic And Spiritual

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How To Be Romantic And Spiritual. Being spiritual is one thing, being romantic is another. One should not take the place of the other in marriage. Both are essential, necessary, and needed for successful family life.

The Speaking
After speaking in tongues, make sure you speak to each other. This “speaking” is important and should be perpetual. Toasting should not end on the wedding day, in fact, it should just begin. Speaking the right words is needed for a great sexual experience, especially for the wife. It helps her to get ready!

On the other hand, singles should use the right words for each other, and align their souls rather than their bodies. The bodies are meant to come together after the wedding, not before.

What should come together before the wedding is the souls, in the place of beautiful conversation, healthy chats, romantic exchanges of words, making plans for the future, and envisioning the future together.

Speaking in tongues should not replace speaking loving words to each other. Both are very important. Speaking loving words to your lover should not replace speaking loving words to your creator.

Both are lovers. God is the lover of your soul, your dear one is the lover of your body! God loves you to speak loving words to Him. Your lover craves loving words to be spoken to him or her. After you have prayed, make sure you also play with your loved one!

There must be a balance of the romantic and the spiritual in order to keep your love life going and in order to make the relationship lead to marriage. This is How To Be Romantic And Spiritual

Speaking loving words to each other will keep false assumptions away. Speaking in tongues will keep demonic influence away.

Speaking loving, romantic words to each other adds strength to your love life. Speaking in tongues adds strength to your inner man.

With your love life, you fight doubt and insecurities. With your inner man, you fight and wade off attacks of the enemy.

That is why the scripture emphasizes that romance alone will not deliver.

Rom 14:17 (KJV)  For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.

That is, if you want to bring the kingdom of God into your relationship or marriage, it is not in meat and drinks alone, it is not in ice cream and cinema outings alone, it is also in right living, in Shalom, and in the Holy Spirit!

Do you get it? That he is handsome alone would not be enough, can he speak in tongues? That she has hot legs alone would not suffice, does she have a hot heart as well?

I will stop here this morning! This is How To Be Romantic And Spiritual

As we begin a new month, I pray for you, that God will bring a new beginning into your life.

I prophesy new beginnings in your relationships, marriage, home, family, finances, and career.

So shall it be for you in Jesus’ name!
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a love being

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to balance my love life 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Rom 14:17 (MSG)  God’s kingdom isn’t a matter of what you put in your stomach, for goodness’ sake. It’s what God does with your life as he sets it right, puts it together, and completes it with joy.

ACTION PLAN
Decide to be spiritual and romantic 

BIBLE READING
2 Kings 20-21

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This Is Why Your Love Life Took A Nap

This Is Why Your Love Life Took A Nap

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This Is Why Your Love Life Took A Nap. Marriage wine can often dry up, turn sour or simply lose taste. Relationships can lose the spark, the fun, and the glee! Love can wane, can grow old, and can fast dissipate. Feelings are fickle, never with a forever status. 

What do you do when love seems to wane when the tummy butterflies have all rested their wings, love birds have no more songs when words evoke no more feelings, and the blushing, the dimples, and the smiles have all gone?

 What do you do at such times? This is the subject of our discourse this morning.

You are in courtship and everything seems intense, but recently, you are no longer excited. You don’t even look forward to hearing from each other and yet you still have peace that you are in the right relationship.

You are married, and the marriage bed has gone cold. Sex used to be a trip but right now it is a complete bore. You could almost be reading a novel while you are at it.

And yet the Bible unequivocally advises that

Pro 5:19 (KJV)  Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.

What happened? Here are a few things that could steal the wine from the marriage shelf, that could sap out and zap off every fun in the union.

This Is Why Your Love Life Took A Nap
1. When you allow pressures to stifle the pleasure
There will always be pressures, especially pressures from work. Wise husbands and wives learn to leave office pressures at the office and not bring them home.

For those in courtship, do not allow work pressures to swallow up fun communication times, times of bonding, and times of aligning the souls.

Decide to enjoy your courtship through vibrant communication and unhindered flow irrespective of the pressures that be

2. When you allow the hustles and bustles of life to steal your rest in God
Whether you like it or not, there will always be issues to deal with. You must have a commitment to each other in relationship or marriage to put each other first place after God.

3. When you refuse to spend quality time together
Love will wane when you don’t spend time with each other. Nothing will ever replace quality time spent together enriched with destiny discussions and plans for the future.

Those times of fellowship can never be replaced with any other thing For singles in courtship, this quality time must not be tainted with sex and other sexual sins.

With compromise, quality time will become dangerous time, bringing with it, damnation and guilt.

4. When you refuse to give yourself self-development and learn how to please each other
Bringing new wine into a relationship or marriage can be learned. Both parties must give attention to learning.

Study temperaments, weaknesses, and strengths. Learn how to minimize your weaknesses and maximize your strength

5. When you stop praying and the devil starts preying
When the wine finished at the wedding at Cana in Galilee, they had to enlist the help of Jesus. There is no doubt that the supernatural is needed in keeping the fire of the bedroom hot and in bringing fresh wine into relationships and marriages.

Keep your relationship and marriage established on the foundation of prayers!

That is how it is going to last! These are different reasons Why Your Love Life Took A Nap

May God grant more understanding in Jesus’ name

CONFESSION
I am refreshed in God

PRAYER
Lord, I ask for new wine in my relationship/marriage   

THOUGHT
Pro 5:19 (MSG)  Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!

ACTION PLAN
Invest time in your relationship/marriage

BIBLE READING
Jeremiah 10

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There’s No Going Along With The Crowd

There’s No Going Along With The Crowd

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There’s No Going Along With The Crowd. Our generation is beleaguered with so many pressures that believers are even compromising heavily, and yet the truth is that God will not lower or change his standard because of the peculiarity of our generation or the pressures of our environment. God’s word remains forever.

Look at the following verse:

Eph 4:17 KJV This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,’

The Spirit of God writing through Paul here says, as children of God, we cannot walk as the unbelievers walk. There has to be a distinguishing. We cannot be lumped together. Our light must shine in the midst of darkness. We must stand out. The life of God in us will not allow us to live carelessly.

Message translation says we cannot move with the crowd!

Eph 4:17 MSG And so I insist–and God backs me up on this–that there be no going along with the crowd, the empty-headed, mindless crowd. There’s No Going Along With The Crowd!

You as a child of God cannot flow with the tide. Having done all, you’ve got to stand, unmoved, unshaken, and unyielding to the grip of iniquity.

Verse 20 says: Eph 4:20 KJV But ye have not so learned Christ;

That is not what we learn about Christ when we gave our life to Christ. At what point did we accommodate the devil’s antics into the programme of our lives?

At what point did we think that as a child of God, you can be dating three people at a time?

At what point did we start combining a life of fornication with a life of leading others in worship?

At what point did pastors think they can go free with sleeping with naive church members because they are anointed? That is not how we learned Christ! There’s No Going Along With The Crowd!

Eph 5:2 MSG Mostly what God does is love you. Keep company with him and learn a life of love. Observe how Christ loved us. His love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn’t love in order to get something from us but to give everything of himself to us. Love like that.

You’ve got to learn a life of love and not a life of lust. God did not love us in order to get something from us! The moment you say you are in love with a person and then you want something you can get, either money or sex, you have moved from love into lust. People ask me, how can I know whether he or she loves me? That is the answer right there!

Love wants to improve the other person’s life, not deplete it. If you are in a relationship with a person, and your Christian life goes down, watch it. God will not lead you into a relationship where all you have is the anguish of the soul, a life of iniquity, and a life full of lust. You cannot tell me you love a lady whom you have impregnated thrice and paid for abortions. That is not love!

Look at the next verse:

Eph 5:3 MSG Don’t allow love to turn into lust, setting off a downhill slide into sexual promiscuity, filthy practices, or bullying greed.

I will stop here this morning! Good morning! There’s No Going Along With The Crowd!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a love being. I love like God loves.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, show me how to imitate you through your word 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 5:4 GNB – Nor is it fitting for you to use language which is obscene, profane, or vulgar. Rather you should give thanks to God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Read a book today

BIBLE READING
Acts 13 – 14

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Two Indications That A Marriage Might Crash

Two Indications That A Marriage Might Crash

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Two Indications That A Marriage Might Crash. Our Marriages will not crash in Jesus’ name. However, there are indications or tendencies we should guard against.

These indications are sure signals that marriage will crash.

Two Indications That A Marriage Might Crash. What are they?

1. When the couple lives in deception
No marriage can be built on deception. Deception is a sandy, fragile, frail, and flaky foundation that would seem to hold a marriage for a while, but will give in, and crash eventually. 

Deception brings with it, false promises and this even becomes intense when both husband and wife are deceiving and lying to each other.

It is a matter of time before the loud crash is heard around and beyond. 

Pro 27:6 (KJV)  Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.

It is even worse if the couple knows they are in deception, and they keep encouraging each other rather than seeking help.

2. When the couple lives in isolation
A couple that lives in isolation will die in desolation.

It is not a curse, it is a predictable end.

A couple that has nobody speaking into their lives is at risk.

There must be a place you are drawing from.

Who can you report your spouse to?

If there is nobody, something is not quite right. 

Who mentors your marriage?

Whose marriage models yours?

Find that person prayerfully and stop fighting alone.

There are battles you can fight for days in a marriage that could have been ended by wisdom in a few statements in the heart of someone around you.

Pro 25:12 (KJV)  As an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover upon an obedient ear.

A wise reprover is likened to precious jewelry with which you adorn yourself and come out beautifully.

Do you want a beautiful marriage?

Do you desire a beautiful home?

Then my question is, “who is your wise reprover?”

If you have none, then prayerfully find one together and agree on being mentored.

May God give you more understanding! These are the Two Indications That A Marriage Might Crash

Be blessed!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will go for wisdom 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will lead you to the right mentor  

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 25:12 (MSG)  And a wise friend’s timely reprimand is like a gold ring slipped on your finger.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Have a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse 

BIBLE READING
Romans 11

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This Dream Requires Your Prayers

This Dream Requires Your Prayers

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This Dream Requires Your Prayers. Today’s devotionals are basically the same, for singles and married, because of the significance of the message. Dreams and visions are valid languages of God through which He often chooses to communicate to us. The Holy Spirit will reveal and bring warnings as needs be from time to time.

You will recall that Joseph had dreams. You will also recall that Joseph had a dream in which He was instructed to run away with Jesus. Have you ever thought why God would ask Joseph to run away as against protecting them without having to run?

Peter had a trance in Acts 10

It was somewhat of unrest and I am calling on us to Let’s Pray Against Unrest In Nigeria

People and vehicles were still able to move about but in panic. I saw crowds. I saw people running and trying to escape from something. What it was, I don’t know exactly.

I saw people crushed under the weight of others running and trying to escape.

I saw people fall into ditches and sink below the ground. There was pandemonium. There were a few deaths here and there.

It looked like unrest, not a war situation. Riots and unrest, and the accompanying violence and looting that follows.

People were kind of animated and excited, and yet you could see fear and panic at the same time. It was also a picture of confusion. Maybe you want to call it civil unrest. However, there were casualties. 

I believe strongly this is a prophetic dream. This Dream Requires Your Prayers.

This is calling on the body of Christ to pray! This kind of dream will come because God wants us to pray to avert the plans of the devil at such a time as this.

While I will in no way impose my convictions on people, I feel strongly that God is asking the body of Christ to pray about this!

May our nation be preserved in God. May God give us a leader after His own heart!

May Nigeria be great again! This Dream Requires Your Prayers.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
We will not be thrown into confusion 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, heal our Nation

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
2Ch 7:14 (KJV) If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for Nigeria 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
2Ch 7

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I Woke Up With A Dream: Unrest In the Land

I Woke Up With A Dream: Unrest In the Land

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I Woke Up With A Dream: Unrest In the Land. Dreams and visions are valid languages of God through which He often chooses to communicate to us. The Holy Spirit will reveal and bring warnings as needs be from time to time.

You will recall that Joseph had dreams. You will also recall that Joseph had a dream in which He was instructed to run away with Jesus. Have you ever thought why God would ask Joseph to run away as against protecting them without having to run?

Peter had a trance in Acts 10

It was somewhat of unrest and I am calling on us to Let’s Pray Against Unrest In Nigeria

People and vehicles were still able to move about but in panic. I saw crowds. I saw people running and trying to escape from something. What it was, I don’t know exactly.

I saw people crushed under the weight of others running and trying to escape.

I saw people fall into ditches and sink below the ground. There was pandemonium. There were a few deaths here and there.

It looked like unrest, not a war situation. Riots and unrest, and the accompanying violence and looting that follows.

People were kind of animated and excited, and yet you could see fear and panic at the same time. It was also a picture of confusion. Maybe you want to call it civil unrest. However, there were casualties. 

I believe strongly this is a prophetic dream.

This is calling on the body of Christ to pray! This kind of dream will come because God wants us to pray to avert the plans of the devil at such a time as this.

While I will in no way impose my convictions on people, I feel strongly that God is asking the body of Christ to pray about this!

May our nation be preserved in God. May God give us a leader after His own heart!

May Nigeria be great again! Let’s Pray Against Unrest In Nigeria

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
We will not be thrown into confusion 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, heal our Nation

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
2Ch 7:14 (KJV) If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for Nigeria 

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
2Ch 7

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The Weapon of Delilah Today

The Weapon of Delilah Today

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The Weapon of Delilah Today. We started on this yesterday. We will conclude today. The next question is how did Delilah get Samson eventually despite that Samson knew she wanted to deliver him to his enemies? You see it right there!

Jdg 16:16 KJV And it came to pass, when she pressed him daily with her words, and urged him, so that his soul was vexed unto death;

She pressed him with words! This is The Weapon of Delilah Today

The lesson here is simple. Once you can see that a person is not the type of person to relate with, disconnect fast. If you give some allowance, you will be pressed with ‘words!’

See The Message Translation

Jdg 16:16 (MSG) She kept at it day after day, nagging and tormenting him. Finally, he was fed up—he couldn’t take another minute of it.

Words are spirits! The moment you start going out on an innocent date with that inappropriate person, you will be pressed with words. Your soul will be so much vexed and before you know it, you’ve started eating what you know will kill you!

If he or she is not a child of God, run! If he or she is not your spouse, run! If you allow yourself to be pressed with words, you will compromise!

The second card that Delilah played is here:
Jdg 16:15 MSG She said, “How can you say ‘I love you’ when you won’t even trust me? Three times now you’ve toyed with me, like a cat with a mouse, refusing to tell me the secret of your great strength.”

How many times have you heard that from folk demanding sex in a courtship?

“If you really love me, bla…bla…bla.”

I have shown you two strategies that were used to ‘finish’ The Weapon of Delilah Today. Samson’s destiny! Delilah here can be a guy or a lady.

Learn from that wisdom. A word is enough for the wise. May God grant you the wisdom and strength to run away from every ‘Delilah’ in your life!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am protected

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, shield me from enemies who say they are friends

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joh 15:12 (KJV)   This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. 

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Study the life of Samson

BIBLE READING
Acts 9

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Ten Good Habits of Great Couples

Ten Good Habits of Great Couples

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Ten Good Habits of Great Couples. A lot of married couples are often caught up in the hustles and bustles of life and become distracted. Here is a reminder list of what you should do regularly to each other and how to go about it.

Ten Good Habits of Great Couples.
1. The Praying Couple

Pray for her. Let it be genuine. This helps you to harness the help of God to come to bear for you.

2. The Calling Couple
Whether you will see each other later in the day is not the issue, the issue is that communication is the live wire of any relationship or marriage that will survive. Keep in touch. Send SMS. Use chats.

3. The Exchanging Couple
It doesn’t have to be expensive! But let it be touching. Notice what I wrote, exchange gifts; not collect gifts! Those little gestures help to keep the fire of your relationship and marriage aflame.

4. The Sharing Couple
Share with him or her what God is dealing with you in His word.
Whatever God tells you in your devotion or in your personal walk with God, will also bless him or her as long as it blesses you.

5. The Encouraging Couple
You are his number-one fan. You are her number-one fan. Don’t discourage each other. Don’t dissipate your energy on criticism. Be aware that your input goes a long way because you are the closest person.

6. The Forgiving Couple
Forgive each other so that your heavenly father will forgive you also. You are not perfect, are you? So don’t become a judge, rather lovingly overlook and forget any mistakes that are meant to show up.

7. The Correcting Couple
Do you know it takes up to nine affirming statements to be able to accommodate and see one criticism as it should be seen? But you know what people do is give nine brutally critical statements and one of none of affirming statements. It will not yield any positive result like that.

8. The Obedient Couple
Seek to help each other in obeying God’s instructions. You are the greatest influence. Don’t encourage him or her to sin. Stand on the path of truth and help him or her to resist temptations.

9. The Balanced Couple
Don’t feed each other’s weaknesses. Rather, you should balance him or her out, because you will always have strength in areas where he or she is weak. Be available to help him stand. Be there to help her say No to iniquity. Don’t be seen as a partner in crime, or partner in iniquity. Let him or her be able to say, I trust my spouse; he will never compromise. Trust one another and protect your trust.

10. The Accountable Couple
Be accountable together. Make sure you have a mentor you talk to from time to time. Sometimes, very intense issues and disagreements are dissolved with a few statements. Well, that is the grace of God upon our lives and upon this ministry; to provide positive intervention in crisis-laden marriages and to provide godly counsel for those in courtship. Accountability to those who have done what you are trying to do is a lot of wisdom. Stay close to these devotionals that have been succor to a lot of marriages and relationships across the world, discuss them from time to time and keep on making adjustments! So help us, God! These are the Ten Good Habits of Great Couples. 

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I respect my spouse out of respect and honor for God.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
God, I receive grace to love my spouse in my relationship.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 4:27 (KJV)  Neither give place to the devil.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Find practical ways to be a great couple

BIBLE READING
Matthew 18

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How To Deal With Delilahs Today

How To Deal With Delilahs Today

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How To Deal With Delilahs Today. The story of Samson and Delilah will never cease to amaze me. Samson was called by God, anointed, and appointed. He was one of the privileged few whose birth was announced by an angel! His birth and assignment were that significant.

However, he had a terrible weakness, and that is women! Samson was a womanizer. He would see a woman and completely lose his bearing. His erection would become his direction.

Jdg 16:1 KJV
Then went Samson to Gaza, and saw there an harlot, and went in unto her.

He was uncontrollable when it came to girls! Despite that he was anointed and appointed, he eventually became a disappointment because he would not deal with his weakness.

He was so undisciplined that all he needed to lose his bearing was just to ‘see’ a woman. At one time, he saw a lady and he could not speak his language correctly! He said, “…get her for me to wife!”

Jdg 14:2 KJV
And he came up, and told his father and his mother, and said, I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife.

This is the kind of person Samson was. The result? His eyes were gouged out and he was caught off in the midst of his days.

How To Deal With Delilahs Today. Delilah wanted to find out the secret of Samson’s power with the intent of killing him. Samson knew Delilah wanted to set him up and yet he refused to disconnect from her. Three times, Samson deceived Delilah about the secret of his power, and those three times, the Philistines came upon him to kill him, so Samson knew really well what was Delilah’s intention. Yet he clung to Delilah and would not let go.

How many of us are in this kind of scenario today? We find ourselves in an ungodly relationship, that we know is heavily compromised and yet we would not let go! You find yourself to be in love with a person that constantly abuses you and yet you did not run for your life. You find yourself in love with the one that is not in love with you. You find yourself to be in love with a person that does not value you. You find yourself in love with a person that beats you up at any little provocation and yet you cling to that relationship.

You can see that the person you are amorously in love with is leading you straight to hell, yet you cling to the person. You can see that the person you love is about to introduce you into the world of illicit drug use, and yet you stay there professing your love! You can see that the person you met in the church is not really a child of God by virtue of what he or she has done to you and with you and yet you refuse to heed warnings.

My advice to you this morning is simple. Don’t become another Samson. You are gifted, don’t let it end with asking God to let you die! Don’t let it culminate in you being delivered right into your enemies’ hands. Don’t let it get to the point where your spiritual eyes are dismembered, and you can longer behold the perfect law of liberty! Don’t let it be that the brother or sister that has been greatly used by God is now a pitiable sight to behold.

Run for your life! If Samson had run, maybe he would have been saved. But his undisciplined life led him to his death. Flee! That is what the scripture says. When the scripture says run, do not say ‘let’s reason together!’ This is How To Deal With Delilahs Today

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am kept by God’s power

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, protect me from evil

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 119:22 (KJV)  Remove from me reproach and contempt; for I have kept thy testimonies.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Stay away from sin 

BIBLE READING
Acts 7

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Identifying The Wrong Voices In Marriage

Identifying The Wrong Voices In Marriage

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Identifying The Wrong Voices In Marriage. God is a good God. God speaks to us. The devil is a bad devil. He also attempts to speak to us. That is why the scripture declares:

Joh 10:4-5 (MKJV) And when he puts forth his own sheep, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him. For they know his voice. [5] And they will not follow a stranger, but will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.

As children of God, God speaks to us as a father will speak to his children. When we listen to His voice, we will not get into problems. When we disregard His voice, we start listening to another voice. The moment we don’t flee or run away from that voice, we get into a serious mess.

When we make up our minds to listen to God and fill our hearts with His word daily and consistently, we will not listen or take heed to the voice of the evil one. That is why the way Jesus refuted and refused to listen to the voice of the devil during the temptation was to speak out God’s word. Three times he was tempted, three times he said, ‘It is written…’ What if he doesn’t know what is written?

This morning, by the Spirit of God, I want to identify ten areas where we might have been listening to the wrong voice. It comes in subtle ways mostly.

The devil often uses people and situations to speak to us. We must be careful. Here are the people and voices the devil often uses.

Identifying The Wrong Voices In marriage.

1. The user’s voice
I can marry her, but I don’t have to be committed to her

2. The deceiver’s  voice
I don’t have to let my spouse know everything, or else the marriage can be jeopardized.

3. The religious voice
Everybody has a lover somewhere, God must accommodate that or we will all go to hell.

4. The foolish voice
As long as I have a prophet somewhere that I consult and prays for me, I can continue with my lifestyle.

5. The sensual voice
I am not sure of my spouse’s commitment. I can as well explore and also live my life.

6. The greedy voice
I can collect money from him to help my spouse. After all, it’s for the family. It’s for us and that can be a secret. If I don’t do it, we will be hungry.

7. The unbeliever’s  voice
My family does not need Jesus. I have enough money. It is poor and hungry people that go around praying.
Are you Identifying The Wrong Voices In Marriage already?

8. The self-righteous voice
I don’t want my family to be fanatical. We don’t have to go to church. The church is full of hypocrites.

9. The carnal voice
I serve God passionately and I give. But God knows that addictions cannot really go like that. I will keep on working on it and one day God might even give me a sign to stop.

10. The confused voice
The only way to keep this man married to me is to allow him have his way with other ladies out there. As long as he doesn’t bring them home, he can do whatever he wants. Life is give and take, I can’t be policing him around, since he doesn’t disturb me from doing what I am doing.

Well, all the above statements are defective These types of statements are defective statements indicative and symptomatic of deeper spiritual problems. They are belief systems that are sure to crack and leave you cracked. That will not be your portion in Jesus’ name.

If you are married, and one or more of the above seems to be the scenario, you will need to pray a lot for God’s help and intervention and then seek counseling as well.

In life, God has laid out His principles and when we deviate from them, things will not work out however we try because the scripture cannot be broken! In any way where you seem lacking, God will forgive, forget, redeem and restore as necessary when you genuinely repent.

Why not call upon Him this morning?

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not be confused

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, give me a sensitive heart  

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 4:27 (KJV)   Neither give place to the devil.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Refuse to listen to or entertain the wrong voice

BIBLE READING
Matthew 17

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
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Tender Loving Care For Married Couples

Tender Loving Care For Married Couples

Reading Time: 2 minutes

Tender Loving Care For Married Couples. In the below verse, there are three instructions that I believe every married couple should take cognizance of.

Eph 4:32 (KJV)  
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.

1. Be kind to one another

2. Be tenderhearted.

3. Forgive one another 

These three instructions will go a long way to help couples in relating with one another and also help in managing a lot of issues.

A kind husband living with a kind wife will minimize unnecessary quarrels. This is what Tender Loving Care For Married Couples is all about

Then it says to be tender-hearted. 

That is, let your hearts be tender towards each other. 

Do you know how a mother is tender towards a day-old baby?

How does she handle her, feed her, carry her and nurture her? 

What if you are tender this way to your loved one?

You won’t shout at each other.

The husband will never lift his hands against his wife.

The wife will never use abusive words on her husband.

Then it talks about forgiving one another.

And this is powerful.

Don’t be bitter towards each other. Forgive easily and quickly.

Take a look at the Message translation:

Eph 4:32 (MSG)  
Be gentle with one another, sensitive. Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly as God in Christ forgave you.

Be gentle.

Be sensitive.

Let forgiveness be quick and thorough.

Do not forgive halfway. 

Finally, let’s take a look at the amplified Version:

Eph 4:32 (AMP)  
And become useful and helpful and kind to one another, tenderhearted (compassionate, understanding, loving-hearted), forgiving one another [ readily and freely ], as God in Christ forgave you.

Take a look at the words used.

Compassionate. Understanding. Loving.

This attitude will eliminate screaming at each other, shouting at each other, being at each other’s neck, being vindictive, being in strife, being violent at each other, and speaking wrong words at each other. This is Tender Loving Care For Married Couples

I pray that God will grant us more understanding.

I pray for your marriages, that God will abate every storm and crush every opposition in Jesus name!

The plans of the devil over your marriage are destroyed in Jesus’ name!

Be blessed!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will love my spouse with tender loving care 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, give us a tender heart 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Luke 1:78   (CEV) God’s love and kindness will shine upon us like the sun that rises in the sky.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Give your spouse some TLC!

BIBLE READING 
Matthew 16

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
2.  Tag us @RevDunamisat50 We will pick up your post and share it on our page! The tag is important!
3. Send Video Testimonials / Wishes / Encounters to your Facebook and tag us  @RevDunamisat50
4. Join and Follow Facebook Page Here for Event updates – https://web.facebook.com/RevDunamisat50
Reach Rev Dunamis directly on Whatsapp +234 802 350 7395


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A Conversation On Feelings And Guilt

A Conversation On Feelings And Guilt

Reading Time: 5 minutes

A Conversation On Feelings, Sex, And Guilt. Buddy, with a lot in his mind, a lanky handsome guy of twenty-five years of age goes to his mentor’s office for some talk. George is about forty years old, a leader in the church, a man of one wife and no more, and a man who truly loves God.

Buddy: Good evening sir

George: Eh…Buddy, how are you doing? (Lowering his eyeglasses)

Buddy: I am cool

George: So, how has it been?

Buddy: I’ve got stuff on my mind and I need to see you, sir

George: Right, (Pushing his book away) I am all ears

Buddy: You know my fiancee?

George: Remi? How is she doing? Has she gotten a job?

Buddy: Yes, she is working in a Bank now

George: So, what is the problem?

Buddy: You know we compromised once?

George: Yes, I remember

Buddy: And you prayed for us and restored us and all that

George: Yes, and I am sure God forgave you

Buddy: But my problem is that anytime we are together, irrespective of what we are discussing, my body misbehaves. I feel like grabbing her, sincerely.

George: But did you grab her?

Buddy: No

George: So you are doing great

Buddy: But this feeling, I mean, my eyes are almost red all the time, not because I smoke cigars, but because my body is smoking. And she doesn’t seem to have an idea. Sometimes, she touches me, and then she looks at me intently, innocently though, but my God, you know she is beautiful!

George: Yeah, I understand.

Buddy: So these feelings, I really don’t want to mess up again. How can I eliminate the feelings? This thing of sin, I sometimes and ridiculously feel like cutting it off.

George: It is not a thing of sin. It is a gift of God.

Buddy: Waoh!

George: You see, that is not where the problem is. The problem is not your manhood. When it gets engorged with blood and changes in size when you see the one you love, it means you are perfectly normal. The problem is not down there; it’s up here. (touching his forehead)

Buddy: How do you mean?

George: The problem is with your mind.

Buddy: How do you mean?

George: If there is anything you feel like cutting off, it should be your mind.

Buddy: So how do I do that?

George: God never says you should cut off your mind. He says you should renew your mind. He tells you that you can have the mind of Christ.

Buddy: How do I do that?

George: The more of God’s word you listen to, the more your mind is renewed. The more your mind is renewed, the more you come to appreciate God’s word and the more you get revelation knowledge. The more revelation knowledge you get, the more you are strengthened in your inner man. The more might you have in your inner man, the more you are able to put your body under.

Buddy: Umnnnn

George: The feelings you have are okay. I have those feelings sometimes. I sometimes even have those feelings towards somebody I perceive as beautiful aside from my wife.

Buddy: Are you serious?

George: Yes, but after marriage, you are permitted only to admire, and not desire! So you don’t act out those feelings. Those feelings are brought about in my mind through my thoughts. So I consciously dispel those thoughts, casting down imaginations and every thought that exalts itself against the knowledge of God.

Buddy: How do you cast down those thoughts?

George: By thinking about what God says concerning that situation and saying them out. That is why it is good to read your Bible regularly. The point of being tempted is not when you start looking for your concordance.

Buddy: I see. Are you telling me even after marriage, I will still feel like going out with others apart from my wife?

George: The devil continues to tempt you, especially in the areas of your weaknesses, but when you resist him, he will leave you alone for a while. You resist him the same way Jesus resisted him…It is written.

Buddy: But Jesus was never tempted by women

George: Read your Bible very well. He was tempted at all points, so says the scripture.

Buddy: Ok, give me an example of where you think he must have been tempted by women.

George: Ok. I will do just that. Do you remember when the lady with the alabaster box began to pour oil on his feet and then began to rub his feet with her hair?

Buddy: Oh!

George: So you agree now, he was tempted at all points…but the scripture says the prince of this world hath nothing in him. He refused to fall into any traps.

Buddy: Lord, help me.

George: He has helped you already. He sent you a helper. So when you take advantage of that help, you will be kept safe.

Buddy: How?

George: Did you read in your scripture where it says, Walk in the Spirit and you will not fulfill the lust of the flesh? The Holy Spirit is your helper.

Buddy: Yes, I remember

George: That is it.

Buddy: One more thing. That time my fiancee and I compromised…it wasn’t her fault. It was mine. I was the one that put pressure on her

George: Why are you still talking about what God has forgotten?

Buddy: How can God forget? I understand the part about forgiving, but forgetting?

George: You see, He said your iniquities would I remember no more

Buddy: How is that possible?

George: It is made possible by the blood of Jesus.

Buddy: You mean he has completely forgotten about it

George: Yes, when you go back and ask for forgiveness the second time, He is wondering. It’s no longer in your records. But you complicate matters when you go back into that sin and it becomes habitual.

Buddy: So what about this guilt I still feel

George: That’s the devil, trying to make you feel worthless so that your prayers can be hindered.

Buddy: God help me

George: You know the Bible says “let us now come BOLDLY unto the throne of grace that we might obtain mercy and find grace to help in the time of need?”

Buddy: Yes

George: He tries to rob you of that boldness by reminding you of sins that God has forgotten and forgiven

Buddy: So how do I deal with that?

George: By quoting and meditating on what the scripture says.

Buddy: I hear!

George: You can wait and you can hold on.

Buddy: Yes I know, God help me.

George: Every time you compromise, you lose something. Something dies.

Buddy: I know

George: Sin is a destiny destroyer. But the power of sin is broken. What the devil is contending with is your glorious future. So you don’t mess up a permanent blessing with a temporary pleasure of a few minutes like Esau did.

Buddy: I will wait

George: Sin shall no longer have dominion, so says the scripture.

Buddy: One other thing…she sometimes wears provocative and tantalizing clothes…

George: Tell her, not accusingly, but let her know that she doesn’t have to show her cleavage or laps to you. She needs to know how she can help you.

Buddy: And you know she is light in complexion…

George: I know…but let her know that men are moved by sight…including you. Don’t suffer in silence or pretend or act spiritually when you are burning inside.

Buddy: I will tell her…she would just think I am a miserable sinner

George: No, she would respect you more…because she suddenly sees that you are willing to preserve virtue rather than fulfill the lust of the flesh. That would bring trust. It will cement your relationship more. Good things come to those who wait.

Buddy: Thank you, Uncle

George: You are welcome! We just had a Conversation On Feelings, Sex, And Guilt

Buddy: Thanks for your time. What about Auntie…

George: She is resting…we just came back from an outing, today is her birthday.

Buddy: Oh….kindly wish her Happy Birthday on my behalf…

George: Will do just that

Buddy: Ok then.

George: Yeah, see you later.

This is the end of A Conversation On Feelings, Sex, And Guilt

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will wait. I will not compromise

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father, let your Holy Spirit be my helper indeed, that I may walk in the Spirit and not fulfill the lust of the flesh

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ; (2 Corinthians 10:5 KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Make amends where necessary

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 
Luke 23

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
2.  Tag us @RevDunamisat50 We will pick up your post and share it on our page! The tag is important!
3. Send Video Testimonials / Wishes / Encounters to your Facebook and tag us  @RevDunamisat50
4. Join and Follow Facebook Page Here for Event updates – https://web.facebook.com/RevDunamisat50
Reach Rev Dunamis directly on Whatsapp +234 802 350 7395


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Know These And Know Peace In Marriage

Know These And Know Peace In Marriage

Reading Time: 2 minutes

Know These And Know Peace In Marriage. I want to talk about two crucial things in marriage. They are pivotal to a smooth relationship as couples. Let’s dive into it.

Know These And Know Peace In Marriage

1. Renewal and Recharge Junctions

In marriage, you must learn to take breaks from work and relax. You have to have time that you spend together as husband and wife.

You need to go back to what used to excite you before the wedding and do those things again and again.

Apart from reading your Bible and praying in the Holy Ghost which refreshes and recharges your spirit, you should also learn to be relaxed once in a while.

2. Mentoring  

Every marriage must have a mentor to whom you defer and seek wisdom.

There is something that a couple that has been married for thirty years knows that a three-year-old couple is oblivious of.

It is plain wisdom to seek counsel.

Most issues that lead to serious strife and possible separation and divorce could easily have been resolved by seeking knowledge.

That is why I am a little scared of couples who talk to nobody! Something is not quite right with that.  Part of having a marriage mentor is being humble.

3. Sincerity and Openness 

Finally, this is so crucial to the survival of any marriage! Be open

Marriage is not a secret cult! Talk about everything and anything.

Hiding things and allowing your spouse to discover will only lead to mistrust and suspicion. The rule of the game is to talk about everything. That will go a long way to establishing trust. Know These And Know Peace In Marriage

If you keep talking exactly how it is, it would be difficult to go into adultery, because adultery is perpetuated in the platform of insincerity and deception. May God help us all. 

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have God’s wisdom in my marriage 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, give us a humble heart  

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Psa 51:10 (KJV) Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discuss on mentorship and agree

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 
Mark 7

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
2.  Tag us @RevDunamisat50 We will pick up your post and share it on our page! The tag is important!
3. Send Video Testimonials / Wishes / Encounters to your Facebook and tag us  @RevDunamisat50
4. Join and Follow Facebook Page Here for Event updates – https://web.facebook.com/RevDunamisat50
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I Wish I Knew This During Our Courtship

I Wish I Knew This During Our Courtship

Reading Time: 2 minutes

I Wish I Knew This During Our Courtship. I wish I knew we were supposed to be different. I got engaged to my wife in the year 1996. That was a long time ago. I was born again, with ministry in view, but I was an ignoramus when it came to the issues of temperament.

You see; knowledge is power. I am a quick, nimble person when it comes to how I do my things. My wife is not like that; she is deliberate in doing her things.

So, having waited for her like three times, and almost getting late for fellowship, (We lived in the same hall – male and female section!) I got angry. So I would lecture her and all that. Then I stumbled on the book by Tim LaHaye on temperament, and that book delivered me.

I understood that we are supposed to be different. I saw that it was actually our differences that got us attracted to each other in the first place because opposites attract.

However, after being lost in love and you are now awake, and your eyes are cleared, the very ‘opposites’ that attracted you in the first place now becomes an irritation and many relationships do not get past this stage!

Understand that you are supposed to celebrate your point of differences because that is how the balance would be achieved in your relationship and marriage later on. What would the world look like if everybody were like you? It would be so boring! I Wish I Knew This During Our Courtship

Many husbands ignorantly try to “change” their wives to be like them. It will not likely happen!

You can learn from each other over the years, and even exchange temperaments at some points, but you are going to be different in thought patterns, opinions, and so on.

Know this and know peace! Celebrate your differences and let weaknesses be covered by each other’s strengths.

No spouse is useless. Everybody is bringing something vital to the table.

Work together and harness your strengths. Minimize your weaknesses and you will be a power couple eventually.

I hope you are blessed this morning. Good morning! This is What I Wish I Knew During Our Courtship

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I seek relevant knowledge. God’s word gives me light

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach me wisdom in areas where I lack in Jesus’ name

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A wise man is strong; yea, a man of knowledge increaseth strength.  Proverbs 24:5 KJV

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Celebrate each other.

BIBLE READING
Mark 13

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
2.  Tag us @RevDunamisat50 We will pick up your post and share it on our page! The tag is important!
3. Send Video Testimonials / Wishes / Encounters to your Facebook and tag us  @RevDunamisat50
4. Join and Follow Facebook Page Here for Event updates – https://web.facebook.com/RevDunamisat50
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Communication Is So Important In Marriage

Communication Is So Important In Marriage

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Communication Is So Important In Marriage. I started writing yesterday on things that should be present in every marriage and we looked at one thing yesterday. Today we look at four more things. 

The second thing that must be present in every marriage that will succeed has to do with communication.

Communication Is So Important In Marriage. Constant Communication. A man was once asked what the three most important things in a marriage are.

His response:

1. Communication
2. Communication
3. Communication

Do I agree? Yes, I fully do!

When communication dies, assumptions, suspicions, lies, and deception will take over.

There is nothing as beautiful as a marriage where both parties can fully express themselves.
Hear each other out!

When a man talks, his goal may be a logical explanation, but when a woman talks, it is more than an explanation, it is a release; an emotional release.

So every time she is muted, there are pent-up tensions being stored up for a later time. 

It is akin to the molten magma within, nothing shows on the surface much, but one day, the magma can no longer hold still, and there will be a volcanic eruption causing untold havoc!

Unexplained hurts, unexpressed bitterness, are all like the molten magma in the belly of the ground.

So, when you tell your spouse to “shut up” continually, and it looks as though you are in charge and winning, well, you are not really winning, you are actually losing!

Allow free expression in your matrimonial home.

When a lady is also reluctant to talk or communicate, it shows some deeper issues as well.

Both husband and wife have to be committed to communication. The excuse of temperaments should not be brought in.

Well, people at work, in church, or elsewhere can look at you and say you are a quiet person, but your spouse should be able to say “you are not quiet to them!” This shows they are friends!

Make the commitment to be friends and to keep talking. Communication Is So Important In Marriage.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will keep communicating with my spouse

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to work on areas where I am lacking 

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Mat 12:35 (MSG) A good person produces good deeds and words season after season. An evil person is a blight on the orchard.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Have a time out with your spouse 

READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
Matthew 12

Pastor Dunamis 50th

Rev. Dunamis Will be 50 in October!
We need all the honest feedback on how Kisses and Huggs Club has been a blessing. Wishes/Testimonies etc. Please don’t hold back. Let’s glorify God and celebrate grace! We will be using some of the texts and video content as well on D-Day.
1. Drop your testimonial/praise reports or encounters with Kisses and Huggs club on your Facebook timeline
2.  Tag us @RevDunamisat50 We will pick up your post and share it on our page! The tag is important!
3. Send Video Testimonials / Wishes / Encounters to your Facebook and tag us  @RevDunamisat50
4. Join and Follow Facebook Page Here for Event updates – https://web.facebook.com/RevDunamisat50
Reach Rev Dunamis directly on Whatsapp +234 802 350 7395


Do you want to Give to Support Kisses & Huggs Club? Click HERE to do so.

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30 Days Promise Challenge


Couples’ Hangout


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Step 2 – Download App

Step 3 – Join Whatsapp Group For Weekly Training