It is acceptable to communicate your feelings for your fiancée, but you must not allow verbal expression to escalate into romantic antic. You certainly understand what I mean! There is a distinction to be made between expressing love and expressing lust. The former leads to regret and sorrow, whereas the latter leads to healthy partnerships.
For couples, keep expressing love to one another, and don’t let it be during bedroom affairs alone!
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
2. In terms of Beauty
Ladies who are not yet in a relationship should recognize that they will not appear attractive to everyone.
If someone thinks you’re ugly, that’s their view. You will be stunning to your spouse! According to the Bible, you are ‘fearfully’ and ‘wonderfully’ constructed. So it is acceptable to feel ‘fearful’ to some people. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
When your spouse sees you, you will be the most beautiful lady on the planet. So don’t stress yourself out unnecessarily.
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
3. Having a Sleepover
Things your parents should not hear and your preacher should not know are primarily inappropriate. It is not the time to spend the night at your fiance’s house cooking and washing singlets and boxers! This is not the goal of courtship. Every sexual compromise leads to confusion of the soul!
Take Note of These Facts, Singles
4. Concerning Group Prayer
Avoid praying together in the middle of the night. Don’t put yourself in a trap. You’re praying together in his room at the evening, and the power goes out, and you’re still looking for a touch light? That is the moment to flee for your life.
It’s not so much that he’s a Christian or a prayer leader as he’s a guy and a human being.
All those prayers you say while wearing something seductive are slowly killing the guy. His eyes are red, his tongues are shifting, and you believe that is because of the anointing? No way, the man is on fire! And the bible states that you cannot carry fire in your bosom without being burned.
For couples, do not stop praying together, especially in the night! Never stop praying!
Hello and good morning!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Everyone experiences depression, moodiness, or despair from time to time. Life, as they say, happens, and singles in courtship and couples are not immune.
In most cases, your partner will not be able to solve your mood swings or sadness, but having someone on whose shoulders you can cry can be quite beneficial.
Furthermore, depending on how long you’ve been married, your spouse may lack the appropriate words or acts to make you feel better.
Being patient with your partner will help here. He or she may be coping with troubles of their own and is simply attempting to be strong for you.
It is impossible to overstate the importance of having a personal relationship with the person of the Holy Spirit. He is the greatest source of solace for our souls. He is our fortified. Our helper and comforter.
Job told his friends:
Job 16:2 (KJV) [2] I have heard many such things: miserable comforters are ye all.
The Holy Spirit is the only true comforter!
He provides and brings us joy, gladness, and help.
However, as a pair, we must continue to support one another.
Here are two good strategies to encourage your spouse during difficult times.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
1. Communicate with the Holy Spirit.
It is extremely beneficial to have daily communication with the person of the Holy Spirit. Before you lash out at your spouse for acting in particular ways or conclude that he or she is uncooperative, take the situation to God.
Oh, the things we frequently forego.
Oh, what unnecessary suffering we endure because we do not bring all to God in prayer.
Be An Encouragement To Your Lover
2. Express genuine affection to your spouse
A deep and sincere love for your spouse is one method you might give your spouse in such circumstances. Feel compassion for him or her.
Love, as they say, is an action word.
Show it, not just say it.
God bless our marriages.
Rev. Sophia Okunowo
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When you take stock of your life, you will see some ups and downs. You will become aware of several difficulties that almost pushed you or your relationship and marriage off balance.
You may have faced health or financial difficulties, emotional difficulties, feelings of neglect and uncared for, and so on.
As we move on this year, whatever has happened in the previous months should not be utilized to predict what will happen in the following month.
Take a look at what God says.
Psa 81:13-14 KJV (13) Oh that my people had hearkened unto me, and Israel had walked in my ways! (14) I should soon have subdued their enemies, and turned my hand against their adversaries.
Follow The Directions On The Map
In the preceding verse, Jesus just asks for two things from you.
to pay attention to him;
to walk in his ways
Let us consider another translation:
Psa 81:13-14 MSG (13) “Oh, dear people, will you listen to me now? Israel, will you follow my map? (14) I’ll make short work of your enemies; give your foes the back of my hand.
Follow The Directions On The Map
Will you stick to the plan? You’ve always done things your way, and all you’ve gotten is grief and heartache.
Make the decision to follow God. Get rid of your own agenda. Allow God to guide your life, relationship and or marriage!
Some of the things God will advise you to do may seem counterintuitive, but they will shape your future!
Isn’t it wise to follow the one who sees today and knows what will happen tomorrow? Isn’t it good to follow the one who has given hundreds of Saints and Patriarchs a map over the previous 6000 years?
I believe this is an excellent moment to make that decision. Make the decision to do things God’s way.
I pray for you that God would give you inner strength today and always. God will honor you as you choose to honor Him in your life and relationships.
Have a fantastic week!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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I call these mistakes foolish errors because we appear to want a better end, but our actions and judgments, whether good or poor, decide our fate.
Every time, universal law applies. Whether we are aware of it or not.
Seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, will continue as long as the earth exists.
Gen 8:22 As long as the earth continues, there will always be a time for planting and a time for harvest. There will always be cold and hot, summer and winter, day and night on earth.”
This rule applies to everyone. This scripture’s seed symbolizes everything and anything. Every action we take is a seed. This is a harsh reality that must be endured. But we must swallow it since it is the truth that will set us free.
If we understand that every action we take is a seed, we will be more careful not to plant the incorrect seeds in our marriage.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
1. Failure to recognize the power of unity
Because the husband is the head of the marriage, he is responsible for the family’s orientation.
A husband and wife walking and working together as one have tremendous power. Protect your unity!
2. The blunder of not loving your wife.
Every woman requires wings in order to fly. Every husband should let his wife fly by loving her. You create an environment in which your wife can thrive.
All husbands are commanded by the Bible to love their spouses. It is their obligation to love their wives as Christ loves the church.
1 Pet 3:7 In the same way, you husbands should live with your wives in an understanding way, since they are weaker than you. You should show them respect, because God gives them the same blessing he gives you—the grace of true life. Do this so that nothing will stop your prayers from being heard.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
3. Making the dumb mistake of engaging in any type of immorality or adultery.
Immorality and adultery are among the destroyers of the marriage covenant. It has the power to bring every marriage to its knees, no matter how high it has risen.
According to Proverbs, it is a dumb sin. It makes no sense because it is preventable and avoidable.
That is why the bible instructs men to drink from their own cistern. Don’t fall for the strange woman’s charm, and don’t let her eyelashes trap you.
In any adulterous episode, the house has been destroyed, and the children have been exposed. It’s pointless.
4. The blunder of failing to be honest, open, and straightforward with your wife.
There is a local adage that claims the dead body does not hide from the one who will bury it.
Your covenant partner is your wife. I’m sure some wives don’t help situations either. They break confidence, cheat, and commit other heinous crimes. But, all else being equal, the spouse should be aware that he is expected to be completely honest.
Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage
5. Making the blunder of oppressing your wife.
I am against the oppression of spouses and women.
Your wife was not given to you in order for you to oppress her. She should not be trampled beneath your feet. God created a lady from a rib taken from the husband’s side. God designed her to fulfill your most pressing need. She plays an important role in your life.
She is supposed to be your assistant. Most husbands have no financial, spiritual, emotional, or physical support. When you oppress your wife, she is unable to carry out her duties as a helpmeet. Every husband requires assistance. Your wife can provide the assistance you require.
If you treat her with decency and honor, she will protect you and your destiny will be safeguarded.
She will be the best wife, function in her calling, and fulfill destiny if you love her, adore her, honor her, appreciate her, and you are sensitive to her.
God bless you and your marriage.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Here are some errors to correct as you prepare for marriage.
1. My money is mine.
This is a mindset you must abandon as you approach marriage. You, as a person, no longer have absolute control over how your money is spent. It is now a shared decision.
You must be frugal with your money as a wife or future wife. You can no longer buy everything that catches your fancy. You must first inform your partner before giving gifts or making major financial decisions.
The same is true for the husband. You may wind up in financial trouble if you are reckless with your expenditures. It is no longer just you, you now have a family to cater for.
Correct These Errors Before Wedding
You must actively participate in covenant principles such as tithing and giving to enjoy the fullness of God’s blessing over your finances.
Correct These Errors Before Wedding
2. Marriage is like a Restaurant
Many people have the erroneous belief that marriage is something that can be entered like a store, boutique, or restaurant.
The food in a restaurant is already prepared and ready to be served. People are waiting for you. If the dish does not taste good, you may complain or place a different order. You owe no one a compliment if the dish is nicely prepared. After all, that is why they exist.
You get up and depart once the meal is finished. You don’t even pack your plates. You are unconcerned about the dishes or anything else.
Marriage is more like a garden in which you only reap what you sow.
You can’t expect to harvest roses if you didn’t plant them. So it would be best if you were deliberate about not planting thorns through offenses, bitterness, and unnecessary tantrums.
When both partners are committed to making the marriage succeed, it becomes enviable.
May God grant us a deeper understanding.
I’ll stop here this morning!
Rev. Sophia Okunowo
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Here are a few reasons why you should not leave your marital bed.
Son 2:15 Take us the foxes, the little foxes, that spoil the vines: for our vines have tender grapes.
I want us to take note of three points from the preceding scripture.
1. Take these little foxes.
2. The foxes are little, insignificant issues.
3. Our vines, (marriage) have tender grapes.
Marriage has the ability to produce tremendous results when we operate it with biblical principles.
I want to emphasize that godly ideals are not always easy.
Why You Shouldn’t Leave Your Matrimonial Bed
The following are some legitimate reasons why either the wife or husband would leave their marital bed:
1. My spouse snores and sleeps restlessly. I can’t function without a decent night’s sleep.
2. My wife has just put to bed. She requires ample space to nurse our child.
3. Because I require privacy, let us have separate rooms.
4. I need to teach my wife or spouse a lesson because we haven’t spoken in a long time.
5. My wife is having her monthly period right now. I’ll return when she’s finished.
God’s principles, on the other hand, demolish all forms of this logic.
Why You Shouldn’t Leave Your Matrimonial Bed
You become one flesh after marriage. Leaving your “flesh” in one room is not an option. Accept the person you married, since love is patient.
Do not leave your wife alone to raise your baby. Keep an eye on her, especially at night.
You will not have any privacy if you leave your spouse in one room and go to another. Such actions as a matter of fact leave doors for the devil to invade your so-called privacy.
You deal with your problems by talking about them. Separate quarters will only cause you to drift apart.
Her monthly period is natural. You were aware of this before marrying her, so stick with her. If you can’t stay with her for 5 days in a month, you won’t be able to stay with her for the rest of your life.
God bless you and your marriage.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Something is certainly wrong with Vivian. She’s not getting younger. Her biological clock seemed to be not only ticking but also sprinting. She wished she could find a pause button.
The story has been told numerous times. She has seen her relationships crumble in front of her eyes like a pack of cards. Nothing appears to work around her.
The tale has always been the same: she will start a relationship today and everything will appear to be normal, then everything will come crumbling down around her. Then it happens again and over again.
She now goes into a new relationship with prayers, not for guidance, but for the relationship not to fail
How do you get out of this mess as a God’s child?
Giving up all offenses
Yes, as easy as it may appear, this is the key to your success. Get rid of all forms of resentment and offense. Frolicking with bitterness is an intentional attempt to prevent anything pleasant from coming your way.
Heb 12:15 (KJV) Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled;
It is referred to as a root in the Bible. Every plant has a root that you cannot see.
That is the nature of bitterness. It can be submerged in the stomach for months without revealing its poisonous fruits until the damage is done.
Yes, your “Ex” hurt you and did things to you that were inconceivable and unprintable. That is insufficient cause to put your life on hold. Your parents did this and that to you.
Your closest companion had deceived you. Someone stabbed you in the rear and then in the front! Don’t let that put a stop to your progress!
Allow God to take over. Do not let hatred and resentment get the best of you. Allow no one else’s folly to become your own folly.
Bitterness is referred to as a root in the Bible. When it appears, it will pollute many other relationships, possibilities, and doors!
When John the Baptist became enraged with his spiritual head, his physical head ease decapitated.
Don’t allow your head to become one of the prizes on award day!
Bitterness and iniquity are close relatives. They collaborate. The sooner you tackle it, the better.
Act 8:23 (KJV) For I perceive that thou art in the gall of bitterness, and in the bond of iniquity.
Solicit God’s assistance. He is more than happy to do so. In Jesus’ name, you will fulfill your destiny! God bless you with further understanding!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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This may seem unimportant to guys, but it is a major issue for women.
Saying “I love you” could be the solution to the crises raging in your home. She wishes to hear it from you as frequently as possible.
As a lady, she will undoubtedly receive compliments from others. The issue arises when the compliments she receives from others outnumber those she receives from her spouse at home.
Women go through a lot and battle a lot with their emotions, which is why they constantly have a mirror with them everywhere they go. Be her mirror!
Learn to affirm your wife as much as possible as a man. It’ll go a long way toward making her feel cherished.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
2. Attend church together.
The Bible instructs us not to abandon the meeting of the brethren.
Take the initiative as the man and seek out a Bible-believing church to attend.
It is critical that you and your wife are hearing the same thing.
Attending different churches while in the same location is not the way to go.
Grow with one another.
Study together.
Pray as a couple.
It will fortify the marriage.
Three Things Every Man Should Be Aware Of
3. Never raise your hands to beat or hit your wife.
Refrain from hitting your wife. For whatever reason, never do it.
That is what distinguishes men from boys.
Yes, she can be rude, obstinate, haughty, or whatever.
Hitting her will not get you out of this situation.
1Pe 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
Make the decision to never physically assault her.
Decide to honor her, protect her, and look after her.
That is how a man should act.
God bless your marriage.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? Marriage is lovely. Only God, and no one else, can orchestrate the synergy that the marriage covenant creates. There is no limit to when a man and a woman unite in God. The man takes on the role of a dream interpreter for his wife. And the other way around. The marital pact people sign brings their hidden stuff to the fore.
Man has always desired to accomplish something. He has a dream, but no one can interpret it. Then a woman enters his life, and the dots begin to connect. This is why, as singles, you should incorporate God into your matrimonial decisions.
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The lady had always had this lovely desire, but it had remained a dream. Then God sends a man, and the intricate equation of her destiny is instantly simplified when she enters into a marital commitment with God. Only God can provide such interpreters!
A dream without interpretation might be distressing. One can hunt a thousand, but two can put ten thousand on the run! Having multiple dreams with no meaning is exhausting for the soul.
Gen 40:8 (KJV) And they said unto him, We have dreamed a dream, and there is no interpreter of it. And Joseph said unto them, Do not interpretations belong to God? tell me them, I pray you.
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer? These men had dreams but no translators, but God sent assistance in the form of Joseph. Joseph quickly realized that interpretations belong to God and no one else.
Every time you pursue relationships without God’s interpretation, you will end up with issues! The status is updated to “It’s complicated!”
May your marital journey be straightforward!
I’m praying for you today, in your marriage endeavor, that God sends you a dream interpreter. There are dream interpreters, and there are dream murderers. There are men who act as walls and men who act as doorways. There are men you contact and then laugh, and men you dabble with and end up in anguish!
Is Your Lover a Dream Interpreter or a Dream Killer?
When Amnon met Jonadab, his royal blood was squandered. Ruth met a man who saved her life. You were all heated up before meeting that sweetheart, and then all the fire was extinguished by the waters of compromise! This should not be the case.
You will not simply meet and marry any guy or woman, but God will provide you with a dream interpreter in Jesus’ name! Because of your marriage…in God…the deepest desires of your heart begin to find magnificent expressions!
I hope you find the interpreter of your dreams!
God bless you with further understanding! Hello and good morning!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Hullo Sweetie, We Are Married. The phrase “I married you” conveys both a choice and an acknowledgment on the part of the speaker.
These two components are necessary for the continued health of any marriage. The aspect of decision reminds us that we have selected one path in life, and we must adhere to it if we want our marriage to endure.
On the day of your wedding, your guests will rejoice with you, but in the end, you will be left with the outcome of your choice. This is something that I frequently tell individuals who are engaged.
There is no turning back after a couple has exchanged vows and become husband and wife. Your choice is now set in stone and cannot be reversed. You shouldn’t be focusing on changing your decisions; rather, you should be focusing on how to enjoy the ones you’ve already made.
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Hullo Sweetie, We Are Married
When it comes to acceptance, the words “I married you” demonstrate that there is no room for comparison of any kind in the relationship. It indicates that you are aware of what you have done and are clear about your decision.
Marriage is an adventure that lasts a lifetime. There is no purpose in wasting each day dwelling on past wrongs, suffering, and resentment. You do not have an infinite amount of time, therefore you should make the most of each day.
Continue doing what you’re doing and make sure you’re getting the most out of your marriage.
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Everything that is happening in your marriage right now is a direct result of the choices you have made.
A marriage s beyond a transaction. it is a covenant, God Himself being the covenant witness. It comes with responsibilities, learning and unlearning, understanding how to live with your spouse, and sacrificing for one another most of the time.
Are you ready to get married? Are you married? Then start thinking about commitment, responsibility, sacrifice, understanding, and adding value to one another!
Good morning!
Rev. Sophia Okunowo
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How to Celebrate Your Relationship Or Marriage. Rejoicing has been shown to open doors to blessing, increase, promotion, health, change of position, and, of course, marital pleasure throughout time. It’s incredible how you can use laughing to defeat the devil’s forces.
To be happy is not the same as to feel joyful. Happiness is determined by chance. Some people are already disqualified because of this. There may be nothing to be happy about right now. Failure, scarcity, hardship, treachery, and the list goes on and on.
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How to Celebrate Your Relationship Or Marriage
However, when we choose to respond to the Lord’s gladness on the inside, victory is assured.
When you choose to celebrate when you should be unhappy and gloomy, you are allowing God to intervene in your situation. Joy is associated with God, whilst depression is associated with doom.
When things don’t seem to be going well in your life or marriage, your reaction should be delight in the Lord.
1Pe 1:8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:
Although the joy is indescribable, it is danceable, singable, shoutable, and laughable. Whatever the situation, simply learn and decide to express joyfully and adequately. Learn how to react with delight. The devil wants you to be sad, but you must never trade your joy for sadness. Make your home a haven of joy and laughter, not because you have a reason to be happy, but because you want to be happy all the time.
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How To Get Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions. Negativity seems to be the norm in the world we live in. We acquire various habits as we grow older, such as drinking, smoking, gambling, masturbating, and seeing pornography, especially before getting born again. Most of the time, these practices are unhealthy for us.
In his generosity, God has not abandoned us defenseless. He has offered a solution to every sticky issue we might encounter. In actuality, He has already achieved victory for us.
The devil only wants to take advantage of our ignorance. We don’t read God’s word, therefore we continue to be uninformed. The more Scripture we consume, the more victory we can experience in God.
Sinful patterns and bad behaviors need to be actively changed if you want anything to change.
Here are a few strategies for handling any persistent sin in your life.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
1. Tell God the truth
This is the initial action. God expects you to be truthful with him. For God to assist you, you must be honest. Do not attempt to trick God. He is aware of everything and wants you to be accountable.
Because of this, He questioned Adam, “Where art thou?”
Be not fooled; God is not mocked, the Bible warns. You, therefore, approach God and tell the truth.
Take after Jacob. He had to honestly respond to the query “What is thy name?” before having his name changed from a liar to a Prince.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
2. Set a stake in place
A stake is used to designate or mark a significant location or the start of a journey. Make the decision to end it in front of God.
According to the Bible, sin should not dominate you. Decide what you want. Be tenacious. Ask God for assistance. Help is available, so don’t just live in hopelessness and helplessness.
Getting Rid Of Bad Habits And Addictions
3. Rely on God’s strength
You’ll require divine strength. Yes, you will require God’s strength. Similar to how some things can only be changed via prayer and fasting, certain behaviors are difficult to break alone. God never intended you to prevail over them using your own abilities or knowledge.
You need the assistance of the Holy Spirit as a Christian. You won’t give in to the lust of the flesh if you connect with that power and walk in the Spirit.
God will grant you success in breaking those habits in Jesus’ name!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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And by thy sword shalt thou live, and shalt serve thy brother; and it shall come to pass when thou shalt have the dominion, that thou shalt break his yoke from off thy neck. (Genesis 27:40 KJV)
I feel that the narrative presented above is familiar to all of us. Isaac wished to bestow his blessing on his son Esau. He requested venison so that he might bless him from the depths of his being.
Esau went on a hunt in order to bring home some game so that he could cook a nice feast for his father.
Jacob had already deceived his father and obtained the blessing before he returned home, having conspired with his mother to do so.
Even though Isaac had his reservations about Jacob’s person, Isaac ended up taking the food from him and blessing him.
After Esau had returned from the field, he learned about what his brother had been up to. He couldn’t hold back the emotions any longer as he begged his father for just one blessing. Isaac ought to have maintained his silence, but due to Esau’s insistence, he spoke up, and the words that came out of his mouth were not pleasant.
How to Get Angry and Get Results in Life
And Isaac answered and said unto Esau, Behold, I have made him thy lord, and all his brethren have I given to him for servants; and with corn and wine have I sustained him: and what shall I do now unto thee, my son? (Genesis 27:37 KJV)
Isaac was more or less telling him that there is nothing more that he could do for him at this point. I have elevated your sibling to a higher position than you. There remained, however, a glimmer of hope for him, provided that he was able to pay the price.
…and it shall come to pass when thou shalt have the dominion, that thou shalt break his yoke from off thy neck.
See this translation in the Message:
You’ll live by your sword, hand–to–mouth, and you’ll serve your brother. But when you can’t take it any more you’ll break loose and run free. (Genesis 27:40 Message)
It is more along the lines of saying, “When you get angry or restless, you will be free!”
Some of us have become so accustomed to the trials that Jesus has saved us from that we have become comfortable with them.
You had to get some rage this morning and rip that thing off your neck in order to free yourself from the predicament in which you find yourself. There is no other option.
Lack and insufficiency will no longer exist.
No more failure.
No more delay in marriage.
No more melancholy and gloom.
No more squalid living conditions.
There will be no more shattered relationships.
How to Get Angry and Get Results in Life
How do you get angry?
1. Immerse yourself in the Word of God and compile a list of verses that affirm your victory in God.
2. Present your case before God and argue it like you would before a judge or jury so that you can be vindicated.
3. Accept who you are and refuse to be bound by the chain of iniquity.
4. Maintain a close relationship with God and with His word.
I hope that every yoke in your life is broken and cursed in the name of Jesus as I lift this prayer up for you this morning. You are liberated from everything that has been working to bind you up from this day on!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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21 Ways To Love Your Wife To the Fullest. The following is a list of 21 useful ways to show your wife that you love her.
1. Serve as the spiritual leader of your household. As a single brother, pray more than play!
2. Take responsibility for providing for your family.
3. Learn to communicate your love to your wife using her love language. Know her love language.
4. You should do everything in your power to learn to speak the love language of your wife.
5. Have a good understanding of the temperament of your wife.
21 Ways To Love Your Wife To the Fullest
6. Do not make a comparison between your wife and another woman. Comparison traps can be dangerous in any marriage.
7. Put in a lot of effort and don’t be a slacker.
8. Always act with honor and morality towards her, as singles in courtship or as married couples.
9. Strive to maintain a small circle of close and highly accountable pals, who also treat their wives or fiancees well.
10. Don’t overlook her birthday, anniversaries, or any other date that she may perceive to be significant or essential.
11. Remark on the efforts that she has made to make you pleased. Whether it be through her cooking, her presents, or her improved communication.
12. Schedule regular dinners or outings so that you can spend time together in private.
13. Obtain presents for her that she can put to personal use.
21 Ways To Love Your Wife To the Fullest
14. When she does things for you, you need to lovingly say a simple “thank you.” This does not elude sex as singles.
15. Even in the smallest of matters, you must not take her for granted. Honour her.
16. Because she is prone to being sensitive to words, you should be careful with the phrases and jokes you use around her.
17. Put her safety ahead of that of your friends, families, and everyone else in the world.
18. Honor and praise her in private and in public for the good qualities she possesses.
19. Have faith in the accomplishment of her goals and demonstrate in tangible ways that you are behind her and supportive of her endeavors.
20. Do everything in your power to demonstrate that you care about her health and happiness. Help her out by taking care of the children and the house so that she doesn’t have to worry about those things as much as she does.
21. Celebrate your wife’s originality.
Rev. Sophia Okunowo
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Five Ways To Prevent Regrets. I will give you a quick rundown of the top five things you should never do in a relationship.
Five Ways To Prevent Relationship Regrets
1. Refrain from becoming engaged if there is significant and persistent resistance from the family.
The blessing of one’s family is essential. The consent of one’s parents is not an outdated concept. The person you hope to spend the rest of your life with did not fall from the sky. Someone or at least two people gave birth to them. Respecting this reality is a prudent course of action.
Even as married couples, these dynamic relationships with families have to be properly balanced.
Five Ways To Prevent Regrets
2. If he cannot be held accountable, don’t go ahead.
Holding oneself accountable is an indication of meekness and humility. Someone who can converse with them and get their attention is necessary. No one truly lives on their own.
There is potential for conflict if he does not have a pastor or a mentor who watches over him.
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After the wedding, continual accountability is a must for married couples.
Five Ways To Prevent Regrets
3. If he doesn’t have a vision, you should not become engaged.
A man who is able to see where he is heading and acts accordingly is known as a man of vision. Even while he might not be aware of all the specifics, he does have an idea. That is a model of a good leader to follow.
As married couples, develop a family vision if you don’t have one. Google “Family vision” and you will get ideas.
Five Ways To Prevent Regrets
4. Don’t get attached if he/she just broke up
Don’t rush. Wait for some time to pass. The process of healing is very significant. Don’t carry around the hurt and pain of others when you haven’t experienced it yourself.
Five Ways To Prevent Regrets
5. If there is no sign of peace, do not proceed.
This is of the utmost significance. The presence of peace is a sign of God’s favor. Don’t put on a false front or you’ll regret it later.
Don’t try to persuade your emotional self. Let there be an actual and genuine state of peace.
As married couples, ensure you don’t take a step unless you have this peace of God!
If you steer clear of all of these, I promise you that you won’t have any regrets in the name of Jesus.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Some Harsh Realities About Dating and Marriage. This devotional deals with some truths that are bitter, nevertheless they are the truth.
Some Realities About Dating and Marriage
1. Being a child of God does not automatically guarantee success in a romantic relationship or marriage.
Indeed, that is a very valid point. The fact that you are a child of God and that you have the ability to speak in tongues does not mean that you are equipped with the discernment necessary to deal with another person in your life.
You can be a child of God while at the same time being completely oblivious to the fundamentals of human interaction. This is one reason why it’s necessary to work on one’s own personal development and seek out new knowledge.
You plan to tie the knot by the end of the third quarter of this year; how many books on marriage preparation have you read?
Make the decision to better and improve yourself.
Some Realities About Dating and Marriage
2. Just because you fell in love with another person does not indicate that God led you to that person.
It’s possible to develop feelings for another person even if God has other plans for your life. It’s possible that the way you feel for that individual is not necessarily how God wants you to respond.
Yes, God can guide you in the direction of your aspirations, but you need to make sure you are being led in that direction before you allow yourself to fall in love.
Hearing God gets more challenging once feelings are involved.
Some Realities About Dating and Marriage
3. You will develop romantic feelings for whoever you spend the most time with.
It is hilarious when a woman claims that she does not like a guy, but she still hangs out with that guy. The more time you invest in a relationship with another person, the more emotionally linked you will feel to that individual.
Don’t even entertain the thought of hanging out with a married individual. It’s been designated as a ‘No Go’ zone.
I pray for you, God will favor you. His compassion will lead him to you. The spirit of procrastination is cursed. Your husband will find you and bring you back. You will eventually locate your bride.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Five Things About Your HusbandThis morning I will like to share with you five things about your husband. One of the major points of conflict in marriage is not understanding male-female differences. It is in order to study your spouse and know who you are dealing with because the Scripture even advises that we should deal with men according to knowledge.
This morning I will like to share with you five things you should do for your husband.
Five Things About Your Husband
1. Show your husband respect and defer to his authority.
Your husband is the head of your household. You are obligated to show him dignity and respect. Respect him in both public and private settings. Make it abundantly clear to everyone that you hold him in extremely high esteem.
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2. Under no circumstances should you try to force your viewpoint on others.
It is best to defer to his judgment in every matter. Your husband should have the final say in any decision unless he gives you permission to proceed. Do not make any decisions unless he specifically gives you permission to do so.
3. Your husband is not your child
We are to love our husbands and correct our children, but most of the time, what we are doing is loving our children and correcting our spouses. That is not the order.
Avoid constantly correcting him and instructing him on what to do and how to carry out his actions.
4. Don’t get quiet on your husband
Don’t be such a downer. He wants his wife / future wife to be upbeat. Because men are logical, you should become skilled at expressing yourself verbally.
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5. Have some fun with it
Every man has a little bit of a boy inside of him. Have some fun with him. Try not to take life so seriously all the time. The stresses of work and everything else can be relieved by playing together. Playing also improves your physical health and makes you more mentally agile.
This will be my last stop for the day.
I pray that the Lord will bless our marriage.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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There are three costly mistakes that every couple should try to avoid making.
I have been married for quite some time—23 years, to be exact—and I have picked up a few useful life lessons throughout that time, particularly from frequent marriage counseling sessions.
Allow me to impart some knowledge to you this morning.
Couples, Avoid These Mistakes
1. Do not tell your parents or your spouse’s parents about your spouse.
It will not go well in the end. It is impossible for anything to work out that way. It’s only normal for parents to develop an emotional attachment to their offspring. There will be partiality, and people’s feelings will be hurt.
Most of the time, you report to them when there are problems, but you fail to call them back when the problems have been resolved, which causes them to continue debating the matter and concluding on tour spouse.
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The only time you should disclose something to your partner’s parents is if they are the only people your partner pays attention to. If this is not the case, you should not proceed.
Couples, Avoid These Mistakes
2. Do not tell your coworkers or boss about things between you and your spouse.
The devil is crafty, searching for new ways to hobnob with you. If you tell a coworker or your boss that your husband has issues with you, the devil may take advantage of the situation and set you up for an emotional affair.
An emotional affair is only a few steps away from becoming an adulterous relationship.
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You are going to want to avoid going down that road at all costs.
Couples, Avoid These Mistakes
3. Do not engage in emotional manipulation of your partner.
This will have an impact on the way you pray. When your partner says or does anything that doesn’t sit well with you, your natural response is to withdraw and assume an air of superiority. That is not the path to personal development.
Keep each other company and pray together.
I pray that the Lord will bless your marriage.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Women place a great deal of value on words. The majority of women experience pain when others they care about, particularly their spouses, use abusive language toward them.
Women, similar to children, are quick to believe and trust what you say. Because of this, as a husband, you need to exercise caution in the things that you say to your wife.
Insults Never To Use On Your Wife
The first words that Eve heard were expressions of love, admiration, gratitude, and love all rolled into one.
Gen 2:23 “And Adam said, this is now bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man,” the Bible states.
Documentation of these words was done so that men all across the world could learn the significance of language.
There will be pivotal times when the words you say to your wife will provide her encouragement. times when she is feeling down, uncertain, and down on herself.
Insults Never To Use On Your Wife
The first of these ten phrases that you should never say to your wife is,
“I made a mistake marrying you.”
There is nothing about you that makes my life easier.
You are worthless and unproductive.
I will make you pack your belongings and leave my home immediately.
You have no idea what your responsibilities are as a wife; have you talked to Mrs. A?
This food is bland once more; please remove it from my line of sight.
You’re not a good parent at all.
There are a lot of other women out there who are far better than you.
I have had enough of you. I have no choice except to learn to live with all of your bullshit.
You are a complete whore. A whore is superior to you in every way.
These words, along with a great number of others like them, are lethal. Don’t put an end to your marriage by criticizing and hurting your wife like that.
I pray that God blesses your home.
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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Three Things About Delay. We are going to be looking at the different sources of delay.
1. You may be the source of the delay
Delays can be caused by oneself. There may be delays caused by your own carelessness.
Disobedience to God can result in self-imposed delay. This can also be caused by arrogance and ignorance. Refusing to follow God’s commandments can likewise cause delays.
Cooperate with God as soon as possible in all areas to avoid self-inflicted delays.
If God’s instructions are clear to you, act quickly to carry them out.
Three Things About Delay
2. Delay can be caused by God
Delay can be caused by God when He knows you are about to make a decision that will hinder your salvation, joy, or bring any type of evil.
The Lord does not delay [as though He were unable to act] and is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is [extraordinarily] patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance. 2 Peter 3:9 AMP
Because God does not want you to perish, He can delay stubborn decisions you are about to make in order to save your soul.
Make modifications in accordance with God’s instructions.
This type of delay might also occur if you refuse to work on your character.
Constant attitude adjustment is critical to moving your relationship and marriage aspirations forward.
Three Things About Delay
3. The devil can cause delays
Finally, the devil can cause delays. This is the devil’s work, and it will not be permitted. It must be repudiated, rejected, and opposed.
The devil’s works have already been destroyed by Jesus.
The Son of God appeared for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil.
1 John 3:8b AMP I pray for you today that God would grant you the much-needed victory in Jesus’ name, and that He will send help your way in Jesus’ name!
Rev Dunamis Okunowo
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