Don’t Allow What You See To Slow You Down

Don’t Allow What You See To Slow You Down

There are several gateways to a man’s spirit. These gateways are like large open doors through which good or bad spirits can access our inner man. I believe it is to this intent that the scripture says: Pro 4:23 (KJV)Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. The heart has to be kept with security systems that would prevent unsolicited access into your heart. The gateways in every man include the mouth gate, the eye gate, the ear gate, and nose gate. This morning, I want to say a few words as it…
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Why Your Lover Will Always Be Different From You

Why Your Lover Will Always Be Different From You

Opposite, they say, will always attract. That has been found to be true, always and at all times. God is a God of varieties. God’s own way of ensuring that you don’t get so bored in marriage is that opposite will attract. The reason you fell in love most of the time is because there is something you saw that you don’t have. God in His wisdom, sovereignty and divine love, intends that your spouse will have strength in the area where you have weaknesses, and you will have strength in the area where your spouse has weaknesses. The strengths…
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Have You Left Your Parents Yet?

Have You Left Your Parents Yet?

It is interesting the extent of love and bonding that exist between parents and their children. It is simply amazing as this bonding remains for years, even after the children became adults. You often see adults becoming and behaving all over again like babies when they are around their parents. And that is perfectly okay. However as marriage approaches, this has to change quickly or else there will be issues in marriage. The Bible is unequivocal when it declares: Gen 2:24 (MSG)Therefore a man leaves his father and mother and embraces his wife. They become one flesh. Does this mean…
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Strength for Finding The Right Person

Strength for Finding The Right Person

Life is a question of power. The moment power is drained and strength is dissipated, life will ooze out slowly and death will set in. Wealth and riches are a question of power. Poverty is an expression of weakness and lack of strength in finances. Strength! It determines a lot. Marriage requires strength. A successful relationship that will translate into a great courtship and eventually a blissful marriage requires strength all the way. When a person lacks strength, all kinds of stuff will happen to the weak emotions. The emotions are as vulnerable to the degree that the soul is…
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Restoration Of Dignity and Respect In Your Love Life

Restoration Of Dignity and Respect In Your Love Life

God is a God of systems. Structures. Principles. This divinely systemic nature of God helps to regulate the entire universe, nothing missing, nothing broken, or we will all be dead in a few seconds. He upholds all things by the word of His power. Everything exists in a delicate balance, yet entirely firm and solid. You couldn’t look far before you see the hand of the Lord and His wisdom dotting the horizon of humanity. Financial structure of this planet is in the hands of the Lord. That is why He said He is the one that gives power to…
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Knowing The Lover You Can’t Figure Out On Your Own

Knowing The Lover You Can’t Figure Out On Your Own

Man is a curious being. Perhaps, extremely curious. Man doesn’t like being oblivious. And this has driven man to quests for knowledge, inventions, and technological advancements. On the flip side, it has also driven man into the supernatural. Man has studied all available stuff to be studied, from science to psychology and to paranormal terrains. The occult is not exempt. A man wants to know, period. As you come to know the Lord, this thirst doesn’t go away. You simply want to know.  And the good news is that God is not denying you from knowing. As a matter of…
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The Greatest Asset In Settling Down And Getting Married

The Greatest Asset In Settling Down And Getting Married

David was very much loved of God. He was simply God’s favorite. Just as today, we are all God’s favorites through the death and the resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. However, he fumbled along the way. From adultery, he descended so fast on the lane of iniquity, fueled by lust of the eyes and of the flesh. From the cage of adultery, he dug further into the dungeon of a murderous act. In one swoop of his signature, he exterminated the life of one of his most loyal men, in a desperate bid to cover up a pregnancy. And…
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Who You Carry Determines Who You Marry

Who You Carry Determines Who You Marry

Single or married, you dare not approach the vicinity of God's presence in the old Testament. Even the priests who go to offer sacrifices once a year on behalf of the people had to do so in trepidation and fear. Ropes will be tied to their legs in case they died and they would simply be pulled out. Such was the case in the old Testament. In the new testament, it's simply amazing. Not only could we approach God's presence, but we are also told to come boldly. E shock you? There is more. This same God we could not…
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What To Do When God Is Not Answering You – Part 2

What To Do When God Is Not Answering You – Part 2

Continued from yesterday… What did Jesus do? Verse 39And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm. Thank God I am not Jesus! He simply dealt with the opposition first. If it were you or me in our full strength of humanity, you will take a look at the disciples, and say something like, “How dare you talk to me, your creator like that? Is it me that you asking a question whether I care for you or not? Now all of you go…
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What Do You Do When God Is Not Answering You?

What Do You Do When God Is Not Answering You?

Sandra has been a child of God in all respect. She serves God with her time and energy, but she is not happy. She is getting older and all her prayers about getting the right man and settling in marriage seemed unanswered. Why does it seem God is not answering her prayers? Bode on the other hand is married, but his marriage is full of challenges. His sweet fiancée then, is no longer his sweet wife after three years of marriage and he is wondering why he is getting tired of his marriage, and it looks like God is not…
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A Few Things God Wants From Every Single Lady

A Few Things God Wants From Every Single Lady

1. He wants you to have a conscious and deliberate relationship with Him evidenced in your consistent time spent in the word and prayers.As a wife in the making, you will be able to derive and draw a lot of strength from the presence of God in other to succeed at the multi-tasking nature of a woman’s role in the house. Spending consistent time in His presence will help you to avoid burn-out and stress. It is in the presence of God you get fresh oil and get rejuvenated to cheerfully attend to your duties as a wife and a…
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Get A Refreshing For Your Love Life From The Oasis

Get A Refreshing For Your Love Life From The Oasis

Life can be tiring. Relationships can become wearisome really fast especially when there have been disappointments after disappointments. Discouragement can creep in so stealthily that it transforms into despondency quickly. The pain of broken engagements is not good on the heart in any way. Delay in finding the right person can really get any strong person doubting and tired. Entanglement with the wrong persons can make your faith fizzle away that you get to a point of giving up and blaming God. What do you do at those points when you are so down? God’s voice reverberates through His words…
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Tapping Into God’s Faithfulness For Marital Settlement

Tapping Into God’s Faithfulness For Marital Settlement

The faithfulness of God never ceases to amaze me. It is beyond every explanation. It is beyond the parameters of cognition. It supersedes the highest of the mountains, the loftiest of the buildings, the grandest of the beauty in nature, and the calmness of the night seasons. It is a thing to know God is faithful, it is another thing to JUDGE God faithful. Ever thought of that? The scripture elucidates here; Heb 11:11 (KJV) Through faith also Sara herself received strength to conceive seed, and was delivered of a child when she was past age, because she judged him…
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Let The Bed Remain Green, and Not Red

Let The Bed Remain Green, and Not Red

In those days, when a new bride has been given, the bridegroom will lead her into a hut where their love will be consummated. Everybody will wait outside, expecting the groom, or is it the bride herself now, to bring out a red stained cloth, a token signifying that she was a virgin till her wedding. Yes, these values and powerful cultural practices are quickly being eroded by civilization cum immorality, we still must raise the standard as children of God. Our bed must remain green! A green bed signifies a life devoid of sexual immorality and pre-marital compromise. A…
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Here Is The Mandate Upon You And Your Love Life

Here Is The Mandate Upon You And Your Love Life

After God created man, God spoke to him in the very first words ever recorded from God to him. Interestingly and amazingly, God referred to man as “them” Gen 1:27 (MKJV) And God created man in His image; in the image of God He created him. He created THEM male and female. God created man. He created them! What is going on here? The reason is that God wasn’t only talking to Adam, He was talking to Adam and all of humanity in his loins. Male and female were both within the loins of Adam and God addressed all of…
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How To Find Your Lover From The Very Beginning

How To Find Your Lover From The Very Beginning

Our text this morning comes powerfully shining a spotlight on the very beginning of things. 1Jn 1:1 (KJV)That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life; From the text above, there was something or someone which was from the beginning. Your spouse to be or the person you are about to marry is not just about to be decided by God. He already existed in the mind of God, even before you were born. Both of you…
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