Why Men Cheat and What You Can Do. God frowns and warns against infidelity! The scripture is clear on that. It really doesn’t matter what number of men are doing “side-chicks” It really doesn’t matter how many married women are yet opening their laps for men in other get some favour or whatever reason!
The reality remains that this sore area has to be confronted and treated and God disapproves of it entirely!
Before I go on, a quick one! On REVIVE Conversations yesterday, we treated and responded to the following:
- I fell victim of what I feared most
- Venting: I Saw My Husband With A Strange Woman
- He Doesn’t Have Money: Is This Waiting Or Time Wasting?
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The scripture warns clearly of the consequence! Take a look at one of them.
Pro 6:32 (KJV)
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
So we see the very first reason why men cheat right there!
Why Men Cheat and What You Can Do
1. Lack of Understanding
The amplified Bible explains what lack of understanding means.
Pro 6:32 (AMPC)
But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks heart and understanding (moral principle and prudence); he who does it is destroying his own life.
Men cheat because they just don’t have that good heart, that moral principle, and prudence that keeps a man zipped up!
This is one of the qualities you look out for as singles. And this is something you continually pray into your spouse as married.
Attending a relevant meeting, reading books, and studying the Bible, can go a long way in showing man areas where he is lacking!
One of the most difficult things to do is to confront an ignorant man who is also arrogant.
It takes a lot of humility for a man to admit he has been stupid. Some actually admit when they get into trouble only to dabble back into another adulterous terrain. Another translation actually calls it stupidity!
Pro 6:32 (CEV)
But if you go to bed with another man’s wife, you will destroy yourself by your own stupidity.
Now, as a single, the man that will cheat on you has probably started doing so even while he is courting you. Watch out for the telltale signs and don’t think the wedding will correct that habit! Be sure you know what you are going into!
Why Men Cheat and What You Can Do
If you are married, fighting your husband, or going into some retaliatory adultery would not always work.
Seek help. One of the ways you can seek help is to go and anonymously pour out your heart at https://khcng.com/vent and we will surely respond!
Don’t keep quiet! Aside from the fact that it is not healthy for you, people will blame you in the end why you kept quiet and did not seek help until things become very messy!
I pray God will intervene in that situation in Jesus’ name!
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