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Sally, a God-loving babe is single, sassy, smart and searching! She has many suitors, but she just can’t seem to decide what she should really go for. She knows God loves her and is assured of that, but she is yet to find the man that will truly love her. Who should one really go for? What is it that must not be negotiated?

Before saying “I do,” what should one do?

Before walking down the aisle with the loved one, the sweetheart, the fedora, the rose, the lily, what should one really look out for?

What should a man look for in a lady or what should a lady look for in a man?

This is our bone of contention this morning and we are going to have to crack it by the Holy Spirit.

In relationship and marriage decisions, there is something that should not be negotiated. This is what we are looking at this morning.

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There is something that you should watch out for that if you cannot see, you should talk to your lower limbs and pick a race.

You cannot marry everybody or just anybody. In the scriptures, God is particular about where the children of Israel should marry from.

In the contemporary world of 2022 and beyond, what do you look for?

After being involved in ministry work and pastoring for over two decades, with countless experiences in counseling sessions, I can tell you a few things.

After being married for twenty-two years plus, my eyes have seen a little. I have listened to countless brides crying and agonizing over the phone over their regrettable choices in marriage. I have listened to mature men break down like little boys because of the frustration experienced from their wives.

 In the world of relationships and marriage, all men are not equal or the same. There are men and there are mean men.

There are honest men who speak with integrity and there are froward men whose mouths speak deceit and lies.

To be continued tomorrow…

I will not say I do to the wrong person

Oh Lord, do the best for me

And Abraham gave ALL that he had unto Isaac. – Genesis 25:5 (KJV) 

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