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What is Really Important In A Spouse?

We all want to have our desires when it comes to our choice of spouse. Well, there is nothing wrong with that. It is ideally in order. 

We know that man we want. Tall, dark, and handsome. Loaded with muscles and six packs and also loaded in the pocket, enough to afford a honeymoon in Dubai or the Bahamas.

Very cool. Nothing wrong with these desires.

We know that lady we want. Beautiful enough to turn heads. Curvy with Coca-Cola Bottle shape. Catwalk, nice shape, and all that.

You have all these desires. 

What is Really Important In A Spouse?

After the wedding though, your priorities change quickly. Yes, you are proud of all the equalities, but you soon promptly discover, there are deeper qualities that are even more important!

Pro 31:30 (KJV) Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

All of a sudden, you begin to discover that favour or charm can deceive. The Message Translation puts it this way;

Pro 31:30 (MSG) Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-GOD.

You just simply find out that someone can be beautiful and stupid. Somebody can be handsome and wicked. 

At the end of the day, you soon and out that charm can be misleading and deceitful, while beauty can be vain and can quickly fade.

What is Really Important In A Spouse? 

What is the most important thing?

It’s a spouse who fears the Lord! Wow! How can I emphasize this? 

A spouse who fears the Lord will take care of you, love you, and care for you, irrespective of mistakes, weaknesses, and whatever along the way! 

No, I am not talking about coping with rubbish, I am talking about being accepted as who you are, and becoming better by the day because you are married to a spouse that fears the Lord.

Single, looking for a God-fearing spouse? Are you already married, and having issues? Seek counsel and don’t just keep quiet! Couples, go for rejuvenation before things get really messy. Don’t just watch things degenerate, for the sake of your mental health and children as well.

Myself and Pastor Sophia have a five-week renewal and rejuvenation journey for couples that can help your marriage massively!

You will watch some videos, we will have some one-on-one live video classes and reviews with both of you and you will go through a workbook for all topics treated! This will make you dig deep and ultimately bring new wine into your marriage and rapidly improve all areas including communication, intimacy, esteem, love, respect, what your spouse wants, needs and so on. If you are interested in this up close mentoring session for your marriage, chat me up on Whatsapp: +234 802 350 7395

Have a great day!