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Top Ten Quarrel Triggers in Relationships and Marriages Part 2

This is Part 2. We had Part 1 yesterday. If you missed it, read it below

6. Constant negativity and criticism.

Complaining nonstop sucks the energy. Constant criticism without affirmations can quickly destroy the esteem of your partner, which might already be fragile.

Eph 4:29 (GW) Don’t say anything that would hurt another person. Instead, speak only what is good so that you can give help wherever it is needed. That way, what you say will help those who hear you.

7. Financial disagreements.

Money stress can be so overwhelming. This can quickly escalate when one or both partners are financially undisciplined. Work with a budget and stay on the same page. Learn to trust God for your finances as well.

Php 4:19 (GW) My God will richly fill your every need in a glorious way through Christ Jesus.

8. No quality time together.

Relationships need a couple of times together to be at their best. Spend time and invest in quality time together. Pray together, and play together. Laugh and relax together and stop worrying unnecessarily.

Ecc 4:9-10 (GW) Two people are better than one because together, they have a good reward for their hard work. [10] If one falls, the other can help his friend get up. But how tragic it is for the one who is ⌞all⌟ alone when he falls. There is no one to help him get up.

9. Lack of intimacy.

Not feeling close physically and emotionally strains things. Do not work against your intimacy through lies, deception, and insensitivity. Study your partner and make them happy as much as you can.

The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.” 1 Corinthians 7:3

10. Not resolving conflicts constructively.

Sweeping issues under the rug or fighting dirty poisons the vibe. Settle quarrels quickly. A good union is one of two forgivers. Avoid strife and don’t sulk continually.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Romans 12:18


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