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Today I will share with you some helpful hints. A broken heart for a moment is better than a broken heart for life. You may want to carefully and prayerfully weigh your options and make your decision. Remember we make decisions and the decisions eventually make us.

1. Consider your future and destiny
It is very important in falling in love to consider the future. Can you see him/her in the picture of your future? Is there destiny alignment? Are there things in destiny to accomplish together?

2. Consider your genotype
For example, AS and AS is a no-go area. Don’t fall in love before finding out your genotype. A few days of pain and a broken heart is far better than a lifetime of pain and regret.

3. If he/she is an unrepentant sinner
If he/she is an unbeliever or a believer who still enjoys habitual sin and is unrepentant. The things of God are taken with levity and he/she is making no efforts to draw closer to God. He or she does not go to church. A breakup may save you from a regretful future.

4. If there are a lot of character flaws
Nobody is perfect but there are some character flaws that cannot be overlooked. If he or she drinks, smokes, womanizes, is a fraudster or engages in any form of violence, a break may be a better option.

5. If love is not genuine
If the love is lopsided and he or she only loves you for what he can get from you a breakup is a better option. There is no genuine basis for the relationship.

6. If there is a major parental and family disapproval
If prayers, efforts, and all possible options have been explored and yet there is strong parental disapproval despite prayers, you may want to consider a breakup. It may happen to be direction in the long run.

Remember that as a child of God, He wants the best for us and our future.

God bless you.

I am wise in my decisions

Lord, give me a wise and understanding heart

Pro 16:9 (KJV) A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.

Consider these points and see if need be to break up

Matthew 27; Mark 15


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