This Is What To Look For In A Wife. There are different kinds of ladies out there. There are godly ladies and ungodly ladies. There are born-again sisters and those who are not born again. There are those who have given their lives to Jesus at one time and have also collected back the life from Jesus after some time!
There are those who are born again but their minds are not renewed yet, hence, they still do all they used to do before they got born again. There are strange women which the scripture warned about. There are ladies who will genuinely be an addition to you because he that finds a “wife” finds good and obtains favour from the Lord!
Interestingly, you can find all these categories right in church! This morning, I want to tell you a few things to take note of ”
The scripture says “ He that finds a “wife,” not a sister!
So, the indication is that every lady must become a wife before being found! And this talks about your preparation, not relocating to your fiance’s house!
You are not supposed to move into his house before marriage to go and prove anything. That is not what we are talking about here. If he does not trust you enough to love and believe He has been led by God, then it may not be worth it. It is not scriptural for you to move into a guy’s house before marriage to go and cook, wash clothes, boxers, and singlets, nay, that is an affliction!
If a brother insists you should be pregnant before marriage, something is wrong somewhere, because he is more or less telling you to despise God’s commandments.
So if you agree and get pregnant, and then you are preparing for the wedding and it’s just two weeks away, God forbid, if there is a miscarriage, what happens? He will postpone the wedding? God has not called you into such sexual experiments, which translates to disobedience to God! That way, you risk losing God’s favour and support!
If you already made that mistake, it’s okay, don’t allow the devil to plummet you with agonizing guilt, ask for forgiveness and move on with your life. But if you are about to do such things, I stand as God’s mouthpiece and servant to let you know that it is not God’s plan for your life!
And you know what? You will have the greatest level of result and fulfillment when you are in God’s plan!
This Is What To Look For In A Wife
1. She is a genuine child of God, born again and spirit filled with the evidence of speaking in tongues.
Pastor, why speak in tongues? That is the power of Christianity! Without it, Christianity will be a bore. You have been configured to survive as a child of God with the help of the Holy Spirit, not without Him. He is the one that will help you live above sin!
Listen to me, there are certain things you will just not understand when you are not filled with the Holy Spirit! Do you know the Holy Spirit is the one that will help you identify the right spouse and warn you against wrong relationships? As a wife, do you know you need the help of the Holy Spirit to submit to your husband fully? This Is What To Look For In A Wife
I will conclude this tomorrow.
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have God’s wisdom to do the right thing
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I resist every sinful lifestyle in Jesus’ name
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace. (Romans 6:14 KJV)
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to stop all sinful lifestyles
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My question is, what if someone I found is not in my church, we don’t live together and of course it’s wrong to invite her over and spend time “together” to test if she is filled with the Holy Ghost and even speak in tongues.
How do I then know?
I love today’s devotional ❤. Marriage is not beans and being a good wife takes a lot of wisdom and help from the Holy spirit just as mentioned. May God help us all. Thank you daddy, more wisdom in the knowledge of God in Jesus name.
@Kusanu Idowu – There are many places where you can pray together aside from your “room” An example. A School field. Asides, if you attend same church, its’ easier to know.
Please i want to know if it’s bad for a guy,has in a male friend to come and visit me in my house .though
not often sha but ones in awhile.