How To Focus Your Energy In Marriage – Part 2

How To Focus Your Energy In Marriage – Part 2

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God has made it very easy for you. Focus only becomes effective when your attention and energy are on ONE thing! So what is that one thing? The moment there are two things, it is no longer focus. What is that one thing?

Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. For consider him that endured such contradiction of sinners against himself, lest ye be wearied and faint in your minds. – Heb 12:2-3 KJV

So easy! Looking unto Jesus! That is as simple as you can see it. How do you look at Jesus? By looking at His word! Regularly! Continuously!

Why look at Jesus?

Because he is the author and finisher of your faith and your life! Your life is like a book and Jesus authored it! The book is not about to be written, it has been written and published. You are only acting out the script!

It becomes logical then to make sure you act well. You have to look at the author who is also the director of your life’s flick. Each chapter of the book is a portion and a season of your life. You have to keep on looking at Jesus and His word because the devil is always attempting to offer you what is never part of the script.

The moment you stop looking, focus is broken and there will be serious troubles, agony, and regrets.

How do I know that what God authored in the book are good things about me?

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. – Jer 29:11 KJV

Waoh! They are good stuff! I need to simply focus on Him!

Take a look at the message translation:

I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out–plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for. – Jer 29:11 MSG

Glory to God! Make up your mind to focus on Him this year and see the result. There is joy set before you! God wants to take care of you! Seriously! Others may not know what is going on with your life, but God says emphatically, ‘I know what I am doing!’ He is the author!

When you focus on Him and His Word, you will come to discover a lot. There is a chapter He has authored about your relationship and courtship. There is a chapter He has authored about your marriage. As you focus on Him, you will effortlessly glide into His will and plan for your life! That is the benefit of focus!

There are some things you are going through that are never part of His original script because you have refused to focus on Him and probably compromised as a result.

However, despite every broken focus experience, if you make up your mind today to focus on Him, God can fast-forward, rewind, pause, stop, erase, cancel, add, rewrite, restore, and do anything for you! How will He do that? He is the author…not just that….but also the finisher! Glory to God!

He is the one that will finish the story! The devil does not have the final say! God does! Turn around today and decide to focus!

For the Lord GOD will help me; therefore shall I not be confounded: therefore have I set my face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be ashamed. – Isa 50:7 KJV

Make up your mind. Set your face like a flint never to compromise again. God will help you and He will save you from imminent shame! Be blessed!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am focused. I will not be distracted.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will give you focus and cause your face to be set like a flint

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Isa 50:7 AMP For the Lord God helps Me; therefore have I not been ashamed or confounded. Therefore have I set My face like a flint, and I know that I shall not be put to shame.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Consciously disengage yourself from every distraction

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Gen 30-32




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The Wise Words of King Solomon – Part 3

The Wise Words of King Solomon – Part 3

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Hello precious child, there is something interesting for you to learn here today. We are continuing with the wise words of king Solomon from the book of proverbs.

Our verse for today is

Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures;Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God. For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding. He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly. – Proverbs 2:3-7

This verse talks about the importance of searching for wisdom and how we as God’s children should seek after wisdom.

Our study verse first of tells us that if you and I want to be wise, we can’t just sit and wish to be wise, we have to seek for it, look for it, search for it, and that’s how we get knowledge and be wise children.

See the words used in this verses, the Bible says;

1. We should cry after knowledge

2.We should lift up our voice for understanding.

3.We should look for it as silver

4.We should search for it like an hidden treasure.

All these words are powerful.

It means we have to actively do some certain things to be wise, our effort is need to get wisdom.

The Bible says, until we look for wisdom, we won’t find it.

When we seek to be wise, that’s when we will find wisdom.

How will this happen?

For the LORD giveth wisdom: out of his mouth cometh knowledge and understanding. He layeth up sound wisdom for the righteous: he is a buckler to them that walk uprightly. – Proverbs 2:6-7

God will give it to us, and he gives it out of his mouth. This means through his words, and words are found in the Bible
How interesting is that?

God had laid up wisdom for us in the Bible, these words are to guide and direct our everyday lives.

All we need to do is read his word like searching for treasures, that’s how to get wise dear.

PRAYER:
Lord Jesus, I receive the grace to search the word of God like treasures in Jesus name. Amen.

ACTION PLAN:
Read your Bible today.

DECLARATION:
I am committed to reading and search my Bible everyday. I am wise in Jesus name.

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His Word Will Not Fail

His Word Will Not Fail

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Understand that God’s word will not fail. Let’s look at the journey of the Israelites. After the death of Moses, the Israelites needed a new leader.

After the death of Moses, the servant of the Lord, the Lord said to Joshua son of Nun, Moses’ aide: “Moses my servant is dead. Now then, you and all these people, get ready to cross the Jordan River into the land I am about to give to them- to give to the Israelites. (Joshua 1:1-2 NIV)

Moses died before he got to the Promised Land and God needed to fulfill His promise to Abraham. So, God chose Joshua to continue from where Moses had stopped.

Since he had been an aide to Moses, he was the best fit for the job of leading the descendants of Jacob to the promised land.

He also fought many wars to win land for his kinsmen. God also showed and used His great power during this period.

Through praise, he had the wall of Jericho fall down so that the Israelites could defeat the people of Jericho.

The Jordan also parted for the Israelites to walk through it just like the Red Sea, in the time of Moses.

The sun stood still so the Israelites could win their fight against the Amorites (chapter 10) and victories over many more battles.

It was in Joshua’s time that each tribe of Israel received their portion of the land promised them by God.

God was with Joshua just like He was with Moses. He did everything He promised. He gave provision and protection as always.

On any adventure, God always watches over His children.

May the Lord be with you always. Amen.

Prayer :

Lord, as you were with Joshua, be with me also. Help me. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Action point:

Read up on Joshua.

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How To Save Your Marriage With Your Mouth

How To Save Your Marriage With Your Mouth

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Life is about challenges. Without these challenges, there will not be opportunities for thrust and lift. That you are a child of God will not exempt you from having your own share. But what I love so much is what Jesus really said that we have already overcome. I love that!

I know you are facing one thing or the other. I don’t have a child yet. I have children, but they are wayward. My husband is not responsible. My wife is not cooperative. My husband is too hard and never listens. My wife is not submissive. My in-laws are my enemies. My husband listens more to his mum. My mum is not welcome in our house. And the list goes on and on. Issues are in the billions, as numerous as humans on earth.

I want to talk to you this morning about one the most powerful weapon God has given you to overcome situations.

What the Bible says in each situation we find ourselves is a very great weapon in our hands to overcome such situations.

Most people don’t know anything about the Bible or about the potency of God’s word. The result is that a lot of people live in defeat despite the victory that has been wrought for them by Jesus Christ.

The truth is that words are powerful. Now when those words are spoken by God, it makes all the difference! The reason God’s words are powerful is because words are as powerful as the person who speaks the word. We all know God is all powerful!

When you find yourself in a marriage or life issue, the first thing you should do is to go into the scriptures and find out what God said about the situation.

You can confront that marriage issues and problems with the power of the spoken word. What you say matters a lot.

As believers, you have access into the promises of God. Take these promises and meditate on them until they are rooted in your heart. It then flows out naturally from your mouth.

Once the words are in your heart, start speaking what God said and not what the situation is.

Somebody says ‘would I not be telling a lie? No, God’s word is the truth! The situation is a fact, but truth is higher than a fact, so you use your mouth to superimpose the truth on the fact, and because God cannot lie, He deploys every available resources including angelic interventions to make sure what you said come to pass. No problem or challenge can withstand God’s word. Try Him today!

Take authority over that issue. Your mouth is your might. Keep saying what you want to see and not what you are seeing.

Stay stubbornly on God’s word until you see the travail of your heart. Do not cave in or give up, hold on to the horns of the altar.

I see God turning that situation around for you. Lift up your hand and thank Him for that!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love God’s word.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Heb 4:12 MSG God means what he says. What he says goes. His powerful Word is sharp as a surgeon’s scalpel, cutting through everything, whether doubt or defense, laying us open to listen and obey.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take a promise of God’s word and meditate on it.

BIBLE READ FOR THE DAY
2Chron 25




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The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Work – Part 3  

The One Thing That Will Make Your Relationship Work – Part 3  

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Continued from yesterday..


4 God’s word will become light and direction to help you choose as a single.

There is rigour in direction. Life is about decisions, but that is not all to it. Good life is about making the right decisions. The frailty of our human nature is overcome when we rely on God to lead us in our choice of marriage partner. ‘The Lord is my shepherd’ becomes a living story of our life when we embrace His word.

5. God’s word will bring stability to your relationship and marriage.

As you put God’s word in your heart, it will help your discernment in knowing the right people and the wrong ones. In a relationship or marriage, you need stability. You need God’s help to have a successful marriage. You need a wisdom from above that will not make your marriage follow the usual pattern of separations and divorce.

And wisdom and knowledge shall be the stability of thy times, and strength of salvation: the fear of the Lord is his treasure. (Isaiah 33:6 KJV)

6. God’s word will regulate and help maintain your relationship and marriage when you follow its principles.

Following the principles of God gleaned from His word will help to regulate your relationship or marriage from the hullabaloo of marital journey.

7. God’s word will help you to have peace of mind in that relationship or marriage

God’s word brings peace. It helps put the couple at rest and delivers them from cheating on each other. It helps the couple to be satisfied with each other, and saves them from the pits that the enemy might have dug on their paths.

8. God’s word will help you to raise your children

When you train a child in the way he should go in the principles and systems of God, he will not depart from those principles when he grows up.

Rather than worry about the overwhelming peer pressure that an average youth is exposed to, show that youth the ways of God and his or her destiny will be preserved.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a student of the word.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, make me a word addict

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Joshua 1:8 This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Put the above points to use

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Jos 1




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