Signposts Of An Emotionally Abusive Lover Part 2

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Dec 15, 2021 | Singles

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4. Blame Shift

You are constantly blamed for their woes, problems, difficulties, lack, failure and unhappiness.

You are told that you are the reason for any misfortune in their lives.

You are constantly reminded that everything with them was okay until you came into their lives.

5. Withdrawal

They are adept in withdrawing into their shells in order to punish you and demand your attention. They disengage and use neglect, abandonment, and measured withdrawals to punish, frighten and intimidate you.

6. You are always in the wrong

They make you feel that they are always right, and you are wrong. They would arrange facts and sentiments to prove that to you over and over again until you start thinking there is a curse on you, or that some people are fighting you spiritually from your village.

7. Control over you finances

They try to control your finances and how you spend money. Your credit card is permanently with them.

They tell you what to buy and what not to buy. You are told that you are a careless spender and and you cannot mange money well.

They end up emptying your account from month to month and keep threatening you that they will leave you and you will not be able to survive.

You know what?

God has made you free from such manipulative relationships!

Our soul is escaped as a bird out of the snare of the fowlers: the snare is broken, and we are escaped.
Psa 124:7 (KJV)

The snare of the soul has been broken by the Lord Jesus Christ.
Do not subject yourself under any weak and beggarly element again! You have been made free!

I pray for all who might be in an emotionally draining and abusive alliance.
I break the power of such deceptions and manipulations in Jesus name and I proclaim you free in Jesus name!

Whosoever the son of man has made free is free indeed! You are free from today in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
The eyes of my understanding are opened to see these signs.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Disconnect from every wrong relationship when

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
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How To Keep Love Alive In Marriage – Part 2

by Rev Dunamis Okunowo | Nov 19, 2021 | Couples

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We started on the topic of keeping love alive in our marriages in yesterday’s devotional. Let’s delve in the remaining things we need to keep love alive.

2. Don’t Compare

The grass always seem greener at the other side. Never fall for the comparison trap.

Don’t compare other couples or marriages with your own.

Yes, you can learn from them but never compare.

The truth is you never know that other husband or wife.

Every good marriage you admire sacrificed on their path to get to where they are now.

So rather than compare and blame your spouse for not being like husband A, work on your own marriage, pay your own price and make your own sacrifices.

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3. Don’t withdraw

The withdrawal syndrome is one thing that destroys a marriage fast.

It’s a temporary shield you build around yourself to avoid confronting and dealing with issues.

Don’t withdraw into work, yourself, your passion, activity, church project, children, porn, friends, outings or keeping late nights.

When you hide in withdrawal, you have simply created a vacuum for the devil to fill in your home.

You need to understand each other’s temperament and know how to lovingly respect each other’s differences.

Extroverts and introverts are very different and handle issues differently.

Give each other space. Allow your spouse grow without nagging them.

Be patient with your demands. Don’t expect your wife to change over night. Let the fruit of the spirit grow and manifest in your life.

Allow your marriage to grow. Let it blossom.

If you are presently experiencing a not too pleasant moment in your marriage, let grace flow towards you now, releasing peace, strength and courage to you.

I pray for you, may God’s love and a fresh love for your spouse be shed abroad in your heart now in Jesus name.

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