The Man’s Helper

The Man’s Helper

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The Man’s Helper

I will write to couples first and then singles.

God was the one who created Adam in His likeness and image.

Looking at the Godhead, we will know that God created man to be like Him. That is why we have God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit. They are in perfect harmony, yet different in personality and functionality.

Genesis 2:18 CEV   
[18] The Lord God said, “It isn’t good for the man to live alone. I will make a suitable partner for him.” 

Genesis 2:21-22 CEV   
[21] So the Lord God made him fall into a deep sleep, and he took out one of the man’s ribs. Then after closing the man’s side, [22] the Lord made a woman out of the rib. The Lord God brought her to the man, 

God knew perfectly what He had created and knew how best it would function. He knew the man would not be optimally efficient, so He made the woman solely for this purpose. To complement and complete the man.

The woman was custom-made for the man. She is the help needed, fit, suitable, adaptable, meet, right for him, sufficient, complementary, perfect, complement to him, companion he needs, one just right for him, one who balances him, a counterpart who is suitable and complementary to him,  companion suitable for helping him, a suitable companion he needs…

All these qualities are what describe the help God provided for Adam.

Can you trust God in all His Almightiness that the helper He has given you, is the best for you?

Can the helper trust God enough to believe she possesses all these qualities? And that God packaged her, with all her gifts to help the man?

Husbands and wives, can you trust God enough that you are fulfilled and complete with each other? That all you will ever need is packaged in your wife. 

She may not look like it. He may not look worthy of your companionship.

Your wife was never meant to be exactly like you. Rice and stew are complementary but very different. 

Enjoy your wife, she is God’s best for you.

Wives, be satisfied with your husband, that is the one you were sent to.

Let’s begin to trust God afresh.

Dear single guys, every lady around you is to be protected and not violated! An understanding of this will start preparing you to become that man that God wants and can trust!

God bless you




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Overcoming The Sad Moments of Romantic Journey 

Overcoming The Sad Moments of Romantic Journey 

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Overcoming The Sad Moments of Romantic Journey 

There are those moments when the eyes are red, and the tears flow endlessly and you just couldn’t be consoled enough. 

For the singles, it could be those times of rejection, when the one you love walks away or you are the one who needed to walk away. Either way, the walking away is not always a pleasant experience. 

It could be those times you suddenly feel betrayed when you discover that the one you have been loving with all your life is loving another!

It could be those time when you feel neglected and it seems nobody is looking you way. 

For the married, it could be those times when all your expectations have been disappointed and what you see in marriage is far from what you think it should be.

It could be those times when you feel misunderstood and your spouse isn’t lifting a finger to understand your feelings.

It could be those times when you are so deeply hurt that it reaches to the bone and marrows, when the one you love most has broken your trust, caught red handed frolicking with the opposite sex.

Or it could just be any of the days when there are no stars and the moody mushy thing envelopes you and you don’t want to talk to anybody including GOD.

It could be times of going through mid life crisis, when all the cruises are gone and all left are crashes.

In any of those sad unhappy times, what do you do?

Sing. Rejoice. Dance. Jubilate! 

What?

Isa 54:1 (KJV) Sing, O barren, thou that didst not bear; break forth into singing, and cry aloud, thou that didst not travail with child: for more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married wife, saith the LORD.

That is what you do. Do opposite of what your flesh wants. And then, in an incredible turn of events, you will see God’s intervention and justice system in that situation and you will have victory and rejoice at the last.

Do not grumble. Do not get bitter. Do not fight back.

Leave all the fights to God. 

Rom 12:19 (MSG) Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.”

And when you do this, get ready to rejoice, because there is a REJOICING after the rejoicing.

Shalom! Good morning!




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Who Ought To Be Wiser?

Who Ought To Be Wiser?

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This morning, I want to talk to all sisters, ladies, women, and to all guys and men who have ladies in their lives as siblings, wives, or otherwise.

The lady always ends up as the one who is hurt, used, and disadvantaged

She ought to be wiser!

When a relationship breaks or doesn’t work out, who gets hurt the most?

The guy or the lady?

When there is a disappointment concerning the wedding, who cries endlessly for days?

The guy or the lady?

When there is pre-marital sex, who is afraid of getting pregnant?

The guy or the lady?

When pregnancy is anticipated, who starts drowning in pills like a fowl?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes for all kinds of tests in the hospital?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes through the pain of abortion in the event of that?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes through the psychological trauma of murdering a life the most?

The guy or the lady?

Who combines psychological trauma with emotional pain and then with physical discomfort?

The guy or the lady?

If there were complications in the abortion process, whose body was affected?

The guy or the lady?

If a complication arises and life is threatened, who loses her life?

The guy or the lady?

If the womb is affected, who won’t be able to conceive eventually?

The guy or the lady?

If the decision is to have the baby, whose tummy protrudes?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes through the seeming stigma of carrying an unwanted pregnancy?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes through all the morning sickness?

The guy or the lady?

Whose body adjusts to the different trimesters with accompanying inconveniences?

The guy or the lady?

Who goes through labour pain, at that moment when a lady goes through enough pain that would drown any man and make a grown-up man cry like a baby?

The guy or the lady?

Hours or days before childbirth, who goes through the cramping, the tightening, the pounding, the stabbing, the back pain, the waves, the pressure, the pushing, and the exhaustion?

The guy or the lady?

Who becomes a “single mother?”

The guy or the lady?

Who does the breast-feeding afterward?

The guy or the lady?

I can go on and on….but wait a moment..

Who ought to be wiser? The guy or the lady?

But really, who seems to be unwise? The guy or the lady?

I leave you to ponder and answer that!




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Overcoming Wicked Spirits That Manipulate and Deceive 

Overcoming Wicked Spirits That Manipulate and Deceive 

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Overcoming Wicked Spirits That Manipulate and Deceive 

Valentine’s is tomorrow! This wicked spirit will be in operation! Beware 

What do I mean?

Yesterday, I established that the spirit realm is filled with good and bad spirits. 

We are not supposed to yield to these bad spirits that are wicked. We are supposed to yield to the Spirit of God! 

There are wicked spirits that operate through manipulation and deception.

How can one identify these spirits? How can one protect themselves from such influences?

Do you remember the story of Samson and Delilah?

Jdg 16:4 (KJV) And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah.

Loving this particular woman was the beginning of Samson’s nemesis.

The lords of the Philistines have tried several means to snuff out the life of Samson but to no avail. They were frustrated each time. They resorted to using Delilah.

Delilah obliged having been promised some large chunk of money!

Three times, Samson deceived Delilah and in those three times, he saw clearly that Delilah was after his life! 

But he still became a victim?

How?

There was the operation of wicked spirits employing manipulation and deception.

Jdg 16:15 (AMPC+) And she said to him, How can you say, I love you, when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me these three times and have not told me in what your great strength lies.

How many times have you heard this statement?

And you say you love me? That was what Delilah used and Samson fell for it. This same statement will fly around a lot on Valentine’s Day! Please don’t fall for it! Don’t lose your virginity if you still have one! And even if you are not one, don’t sleep around on that day!

The goal of this manipulative and deceiving spirit is constant harassment till you yield. 

Jdg 16:16 (AMPC+) And when she pressed him day after day with her words and urged him, he was vexed to death.

Samson fell asleep on her lap!

A lot of destinies have fallen asleep, and hibernated under the influence of these wicked spirits! 

You will not be caught sleeping when you should be awake in Jesus’ name! 

Jdg 16:21 (MSG) The Philistines grabbed him, gouged out his eyes, and took him down to Gaza. They shackled him in irons and put him to the work of grinding in the prison.

They eventually caught him and the first thing was to take out his eyes! That is the goal of this wicked spirit, to make you stop reading and studying God’s word!

Your eyes will not be taken out! 

We judge every wicked spirit operating through manipulation and deception in Jesus’ name! 

Good morning! 




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Three serious problems that every problem has

Three serious problems that every problem has

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Three serious problems that every problem has

Do you have a problem you are bothered about? Do you have an issue that has constantly unsettled you? Are you troubled?

Here is what Jesus Christ said about troubles.
 
These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
(John 16:33 KJV)

 
How I love this scripture! There will be tribulation, but be of good cheer because I have already overcome on your behalf. Then He said you can have peace during any trouble when you learn to heed what He has spoken unto you!

Here are three things concerning anything you are going through.
 
1. Your problem cannot last forever
That is the number one problem of any problem. They don’t have a forever status. Listen to me, the problem you see today, the issues you see as grave today, that make you cry and weep, will not be there tomorrow. Egyptians were a generational problem to the Israelites, but one day, God said to the Israelites, the Egyptians you see today, you shall see no more! I feel you should start taking a last look at your problems because very soon, you shall see them no more! That is the word of the Lord unto you!
 
Problems are fickle, they are temporary, and they cannot last forever! The fruitful man has not always been fruitful, he was once barren, but today, he hardly remembers, because when God visits you, He will cause you to forget the shame of your youth!
 
This year, God will visit you! This year, God will turn His countenance upon you and cause it to shine endlessly upon you!
 
Covenants can often last a long time, but you see you were not covenanted into troubles and problems, you were covenanted into peace, and shalom, nothing missing, nothing broken, and that will be your experience in Jesus’ name! I speak peace into every storm now in Jesus’ name!
 
2. Your problem has an expiry date!
One of my favorite scriptural phrases is “And it came to pass!” It is a remembrance and a pointer to the Almightiness of God, that what you are going through will soon become a thing of the past!

You cannot be single for life unless you so choose. But if you didn’t choose to be a nun, that singleness status will soon pass. Believe it, embrace it because that is the truth. The devil cannot overrule God’s timetable for your life. In God, your wedding will never be late; it can only be the latest in town!
 
3. Your problem has a name!
The last problem that your problem has is that it has a name! Your problem made the mistake of having a name! If it is a sickness, it has a name. If it is a status, it has a name. If it is an emotional issue, it has a name! No form of affliction or oppression doesn’t have a nomenclature! And that is a mistake! Because the scripture says:
Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth (Philippians 2:9-10 KJV)

There is a name ABOVE every other name! The source of the problem can choose to be from anywhere, in the sky where the prince of this world lives, in the earth where fellow men live, or beneath the earth where demonic powers often operate, all those are non-issues because, at the name of Jesus, every knee shall bow! Every trouble bows!
 
I challenge you today, to ignore that which you call a problem, and rejoice in the Lord your God who will soon fill your mouth with laughter!
 
You will soon share your testimony! It is our year of Boundless Opportunities on KHC, you will not miss them in Jesus’ name! I am so persuaded, I am so sure, that you will soon rejoice because this is a word of the Lord unto you this day!




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