How Can I Get A Prudent Wife? – Part 2

How Can I Get A Prudent Wife? – Part 2

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SINGLES – How Can I Get A Prudent Wife?

Continued from yesterday…

Like Adam, have you been in that place where no help-meet has been found? Have you searched and prayed and fasted and yet nothing is forthcoming?

You see, you have to cease from your own strength! Your intellectual prowess cannot get a prudent wife from the Lord. Your nice manners and Queens English are irrelevant. The parameter of your cognitive abilities is not the issue here.

Adam successfully named every creature on earth, a display of uncommon spiritual and mental energy and prowess, and yet was frustrated at the end because he could not find a spouse!

Are you in that place like you are a graduate, but no helpmeet? You are rich and comfortable, but no helpmeet? You attend functions and join the church workforce and do a lot but no helpmeet? That was where Adam found himself.

What was God’s solution to the imbroglio?

And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept…

Guys and ladies, you’ve got to “sleep” and allow God to lead you! Some of you have simply refused to sleep! The scripture said “and he slept,” so it was a choice. He could have said, “I am not sleeping, and just start jumping or jogging.

After you have done all you know to do, why not just sleep and abandon yourself in God’s arms and plans for your life? You have been too much awake and yet no result!

Just sleep and trust God to do it. When you sleep, you don’t wake up every two minutes to check your security. You just sleep. Go into a deep sleep and stop sampling ladies all over the place every Sunday! You don’t even listen to messages again in church!

By the time Adam woke up, God brought her to Adam! Ladies, don’t bring yourself, allow God to bring you! When God brings you or showcases you, it comes with a revelation or conviction to your husband-to-be. Don’t be suggestive. Don’t sound too available. Don’t take the lead. The man is the aggressor and the lady is the responder!

When you “sleep,” God will show you your spouse. He will bring her to you! You will see her and know! That was why, without God saying a word, Adam went into a frenzy of romantic prophecy and began to speak in tongues!

And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.

Who told him? I wonder! But he had gone through the process of “sleeping” and allowed God to do it, so He woke up with conviction and with no doubt about who his wife was. He didn’t have to go to a mountain in Eden to pray again, He just knew because he had slept!

The next time you want to take things into your hands and step outside His will, remember to step back and got to “sleep!”

I pray for you this morning that this year, God will establish all that concerns your relationship/marriage and dissolve every puzzle in Jesus name!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
By the Spirit of God, I am making wise decisions. I make the most of opportunities in my relationships.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, I ask for an anointing of wisdom. Teach me to do the best and at the right time.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Lam 3:27 KJV It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discern which season you are now and ask God for wisdom to maximize it.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 40-43

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How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

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SINGLES – How Can I Get A Prudent Spouse?

God is interested in your relationship and marriage. God will always lead you even though He allows you to do the choosing. He will not force anyone on you. But if you ask for His direction, He will lead you and often reveal to you His best choice for you.

It is only God that sees you in some thirty years’ time, sees your intended spouse in some years to come, and knows what you will be doing before then, by then and after then, hence he knows the best person fit for you!

House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord. – Pro 19:14 AMP

I love the above scripture. You see, there is a plan of God for you concerning your marital life and it is important you follow that plan!

To understand this, we will go back to the very first story of marriage in the scripture. From there, we can always see the pattern that God has established. God’s methods may change, but His underlying principles remain unchanged!

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof. And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him. And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof; And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man. And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. – Gen 2:18-23 KJV

In verse eighteen, God rightly said the man needed a helper. So he created Eve for Adam. God created an Eve, not a Steve! God’s order is clear from the beginning! Man and another man is not God’s order. Two women in marriage is an aberration, it is not God’s order! That is just by the way.

After God created Adam and established he needed help, God created all animals and brought them to Adam to see what He would call them. Thank God, Adam named them appropriately and didn’t call a baboon a wife in the process. If Adam had looked at a monkey and said this is the bone of my bone….that would have spelt some trouble!

This could actually have happened because verse 20 says,

…but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

You must learn to name people appropriately and not go out with everybody or jump in bed with everyone and anyone! This is my boss. This is my colleague. This is just a friend! This is just an acquaintance. This is an unbeliever.

Like Adam, you must name people rightly! Not everybody is your helper! Some are nice but they are destiny killers! There are handsome destiny destroyers and beautiful dream abortionists. You must name people appropriately and you must not allow desperation to push you out of God’s will!

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
By the Spirit of God, I am making wise decisions concerning my spouse. I make the most of opportunities in my relationships.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, I ask for an anointing of wisdom. Teach me to do the best and at the right time.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Lam 3:27 KJV It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Discern which season you are now and ask God for wisdom to maximize it and choose your spouse.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 38-39

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How To Be An Ideal Man – Part 3

How To Be An Ideal Man – Part 3

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Singles – How To Be An Ideal Man

Continued from yesterday

I want a dad in the real sense of it. I want a dad whose confidence, leadership, courage, and examples inspire me.

I want a dad who will not usher my budding destiny into smoking and drinking and clubbing by transference of spirits. I want a dad who will pay the price just so for me to emerge. I want a dad I can bless and not regret in the years to come. I want a dad I can call my own, not an absentee dad.

I want a dad that will truly love my mum. I want a dad that will not mess up my inclinations and outlook by bringing in so many ‘mums’ into his bed. I want a dad that will not teach me to lie. I want a dad that will not make my malleable emotions and innocent tendencies gravitate into the world of sexual perversion.

I want a dad that prays for me, a dad that I am proud of, a dad I am close to and a dad I can discuss everything with! I want a dad that will not touch me (girl child) inappropriately. I want a dad who will not sexualize me. I want a dad who will teach me how to love my spouse when the time comes in a pragmatic way.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a good man. God will help me!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
oh Lord, flood the eyes of my mind with revelational light in Jesus name.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
1Ti 2:8 KJV I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the man in you and sincerely take an inventory to see whether you are pleasing God or not.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Job 29-31

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How To Be An Ideal Man –Part 2

How To Be An Ideal Man –Part 2

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SINGLES – How To Be An Ideal Man                

Dear single men, pay attention to today’s devotional. Yesterday we examined God’s perspective of an ideal man; today I want to show you what every virtuous woman looks out for in a man.

The lady speaks;

I want a man, a real man, man enough to be my husband, strong enough to stand in his place as the head of the house and the breadwinner. I want a man who is a king and a servant at the same time.

I want a man whose royalty is rooted in God, I want a man I can be proud enough to call ‘my crown!’ I want a man who despite being a king is humble enough to have the heart of a servant.

I want a man I can call my own! A man I am proud of! I want a man of integrity. I want a man whose words I can go to bed on. I want a man who will protect me. I want a man that will not want me to compromise my virtue in order to satisfy his lust during courtship.

I want a man who will be my head and not my headache! I want a man who will love me properly, accept me as I am, nurture me, and commit to my spiritual development.

I want a man that will stand by me in the labour room. The hands of Zerubabbel started it. It ought to complete it!

I want a man I can vouch for. I want a man that will love me only and no other. I want a man that is thinking of me all the time. I want a man, not a boy.

I want a man that will not bring another to our matrimonial bed. I want a man who fears God so much and will not desecrate the marital covenant because of lust. I want a man that will rather die than become adulterous! I want a man that will respect the covenant and will not throw our home into untold chaos and havoc with his actions. I want a man that can zip up!

I want a man in the house that will usher me into peace when I am not around. I want a man in the house that the house-help is safe with. I want a man who has self-control.

I want a man that can lay hands on me and bless me. I want a man that I can rely on emotionally. I want a man whose shoulders I can lean on. I want a man that will lead our family to God.

I want a leader in the house! I want a man who will make my heart bless him and not make my heart bleed at his appearance. I want a man that will make my heart filled with thanks and not tears. I want a man that will make me be at rest and not under duress! I want a man that will make me his queen and not his doormat! I want a friend, confidant, and companion, not a competitor!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a good man / I will find a good man. God will help me!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you flood the eyes of my mind with revelation light. As I study your word give me understanding. Let my relationship be transformed as my mind gets renewed daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY              
I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. -1Timothy 2:8 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the man in you and sincerely take an inventory to see whether you are pleasing God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 7-9

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How To Be An Ideal Man

How To Be An Ideal Man

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SINGLES – How To Be An Ideal Man                

Throughout every generation, God seeks a man that can bear his flag. Look through the scripture and you will see that God is always in search of a man that can stand for him and his people.

See what the bible says here;   

And I sought for a man among them… -Ezekiel 22:30 (KJV)

What kind of man is God in search of?

God wants a man that will lift up holy hands in his presence. A man compelled and propelled by a sense of destiny. He wants a man he can bless and prosper who will not withhold from my kingdom, a man that can be his mouthpiece at home and at work; that the anointing can be placed upon!

God wants a man that will not falsify documents, a man that will be faithful to his wife. He wants a man that can be made a channel of blessing to others, someone who will not bow to the systems of the world. God wants a man king enough to bear his message, and lamb enough to refuel in his presence.

A humble man is who God is searching for!

Are you a man he can bless to bless others? Are you a channel?

God doesn’t want a dam! He wants a man he can exalt who will exalt others, not an intimidated and insecure man who is yielded to the flesh all the time.

Are you a man that can raise sons, and not add sores into other destinies?

God wants a man who knows that his kingdom is perpetuated in lifting others and not putting them down.

God is seeking for a man, even in this generation, who will repair destinies and not wreck them; a man that will remember where God picked him from and not mutilate other destinies.

God wants a man that is conscious of the day of reckoning between him and his maker, the very day he will stand before God to give an account of all he has done.

Are you God’s man? Are you one who forgives easily, not someone who will churn out weapons in his arsenal to destroy others?

God seeks a man he can use to lift burdens off others and not add more.

God seeks a man who will not use his name to manipulate ladies into sexual relationships!

God seeks a man who will not use the grace he is given to bring disgrace into the kingdom!

God wants a man who will not try to build ‘his kingdom’ at the expense of the kingdom of his dear son. Can God trust you with His power and riches?

Are you that man who will not use the wisdom and the platform you have been given to manipulate destinies and leave them warped at the end?

God wants a man whose heart is after him!

My question for you this morning is; are you the man God is looking for?

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a good man / I will find a good man. God will help me!

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Father in the name of Jesus, I ask that you flood the eyes of my mind with revelation light. As I study your word give me understanding. Let my relationship be transformed as my mind gets renewed daily.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY              
I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting. -1Timothy 2:8 (KJV)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Check the man in you and sincerely take an inventory to see whether you are pleasing God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 4-6

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