How To Please Your Lover Without Displeasing God

How To Please Your Lover Without Displeasing God

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Sally is caught in a cross-fire. She really wanted to submit to her husband, but then some of the things her boo wanted her to do clearly contradicts the scriptures. What should she do? Cooperate with her boo and risk losing God’s favour or hold unto God while her love life collapses and her homes boils?

Even in courtship, the lady is often caught in between pleasing him and pleasing Him!

Let’s take a look at the scriptures.

Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. – Ephesians 5:22 (KJV)

So we see clearly and succinctly here that a wife is supposed to submit to her husband. It never says that a lady should submit to her own fiancé!

So, when he says you must come over and spend weekends, you don’t have to obey and end up jeopardizing your relationship with God in your bid to “submit’

I am saying in essence that in a dating or courtship situation, you are to absolutely follow God and not man!

If whatever your fiancé wants done is as unto the Lord, there wouldn’t be any problem there. You should gladly submit, even if you are not married yet.

But when it clearly violates your conscience, makes you feel guilty, makes you cry and dissipates God’s anointing in your life, you are to leave that guy alone before he wrecks your destiny.

Now, let’s see some examples here.

He asks you to send your nude pictures or else he would end the relationship. Something is not quite right.

There is some level of perversion that is being shown there. There is some traits of a compromised heart coming up there.

In this case, let your “No’ be emphatic and clear. If he walks away because of that, let him walk, he is not your husband.

If you do it and listen to him, this is not submission in any way, it is more of foolishness. If he is asking for nude before marriage, what will he ask for if he ever gets to marry you?

If you go ahead and do it in a bid to keep him, it shows your own depth of devotion to God. it shows that somewhere in your heart, you don’t really trust God.

If you do, you will never do anything that displeases God in other to please your boo. If you do such things, you just sowed a seed into that relationship and opened the door for the devil to afflict.

To be continued tomorrow…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will not miss it in marriage.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me to trust you.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Pray for insight

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
John 3


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Here Are Two Signs Of Abusive Relationships

Here Are Two Signs Of Abusive Relationships

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1. Words like arrows

A sign of emotional manipulation is when you are called names, given unpleasant labels, derogatory nicknames, and the use of biting cutting remarks. Words are powerful and you are what you hear every day.

A guy goes to Medical school and listens to medical classes for seven years and then becomes a Medical Doctor. The same thing with a lawyer. Invariably, you are what you are hearing.

You should therefore not allow anybody to constantly pull you down and trample on your esteem all in the name of love. Love will not constantly put you down! Love will not crush your esteem day after day.

If one or more of these signs are prevalent in your relationship, you may need to pause and review it.

Listen to me, marriage does not change abusers. It is better to remain single and wait for the right person than to rush into a marriage with an abuser because of the pressures around you.

When the abuse takes a toll, all the people putting pressure will not be seen around you. The last day you would see most of them is on your wedding day to eat your food!

As my wife would always say, you will live with your choice!

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2. The Use of Personal information

Abusers can often resort to using your personal information and secrets against you and to control you.

This is why you have to beware of people who are always asking for your nude pictures. Why would a person who claims to be a child of God be asking for your nude pictures? There is something perverse about that. Is it to masturbate or what? Or to sell the pictures?

Young ladies, don’t ever send you nude pictures to anyone in the name of love. He would eventually use your pictures to manipulate and control you, and when you call his bluff, you would find your nude pictures all over the internet.

Several young girls have committed suicide when they couldn’t bear the shame of having their nude pictures and videos all over the internet. So, don’t ever make that mistake.

Your soul has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the flower! Fly away from all demonic and manipulative relationships.

Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Pro 6:5 (KJV)

Cut off that relationship where you are being oppressed. Let the wrong person go so that the right person can show up!

I pray that God will grant you more understanding!

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
The eyes of my understanding are opened to see these signs.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 6:5 (KJV) Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Disconnect from every wrong relationship when you see these signs.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Pro 6


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