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1. Words like arrows

A sign of emotional manipulation is when you are called names, given unpleasant labels, derogatory nicknames, and the use of biting cutting remarks. Words are powerful and you are what you hear every day.

A guy goes to Medical school and listens to medical classes for seven years and then becomes a Medical Doctor. The same thing with a lawyer. Invariably, you are what you are hearing.

You should therefore not allow anybody to constantly pull you down and trample on your esteem all in the name of love. Love will not constantly put you down! Love will not crush your esteem day after day.

If one or more of these signs are prevalent in your relationship, you may need to pause and review it.

Listen to me, marriage does not change abusers. It is better to remain single and wait for the right person than to rush into a marriage with an abuser because of the pressures around you.

When the abuse takes a toll, all the people putting pressure will not be seen around you. The last day you would see most of them is on your wedding day to eat your food!

As my wife would always say, you will live with your choice!

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2. The Use of Personal information

Abusers can often resort to using your personal information and secrets against you and to control you.

This is why you have to beware of people who are always asking for your nude pictures. Why would a person who claims to be a child of God be asking for your nude pictures? There is something perverse about that. Is it to masturbate or what? Or to sell the pictures?

Young ladies, don’t ever send you nude pictures to anyone in the name of love. He would eventually use your pictures to manipulate and control you, and when you call his bluff, you would find your nude pictures all over the internet.

Several young girls have committed suicide when they couldn’t bear the shame of having their nude pictures and videos all over the internet. So, don’t ever make that mistake.

Your soul has escaped like a bird out of the snare of the flower! Fly away from all demonic and manipulative relationships.

Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Pro 6:5 (KJV)

Cut off that relationship where you are being oppressed. Let the wrong person go so that the right person can show up!

I pray that God will grant you more understanding!

The eyes of my understanding are opened to see these signs.

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

Pro 6:5 (KJV) Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of the hunter, and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.

Disconnect from every wrong relationship when you see these signs.

Pro 6


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