The Importance of Body Chemistry

The Importance of Body Chemistry

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SINGLES – The Importance of Body Chemistry

The scripture clearly identifies the importance of physical attraction when it comes to marriage.

God in His wisdom knows that if a man does not derive satisfaction from his wife, he would seek it else where, which of course will not only be detrimental to him, but to his whole family.

So, God advises the man:

Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings (Proverbs 5:18-21 KJV) 

In other words, what God wants is that you focus on your wife and not somebody out there. He said all your ways are before Him and He will inquire about everything you do. More or less, the affair that you think is secret is actually open to God. 

As a single, you don’t want to spiritualise everything and say attraction doesn’t matter! It matters a lot! 

Marry somebody you like and you love, a friend you can play with and laugh with. That is why the scripture says, “…rejoice with the wife of thy youth.“ The Importance of Body Chemistry

You also need to know that God will not force anybody on you. This idea that you are marrying somebody not because you love the person but because God said so is defective.

As a lady, when a guy walks up to you and tells you that God has spoken to Him, you also need to hear God as well.

Now, we have established that physical attraction is very important! But there is a balance! Physical attraction alone is not the only thing that determines your choice! See the scripture.

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. (Proverbs 31:30 KJV)

Message Translation says:

Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear–of– God. (Proverbs 31:30 Message)

So we see here, the only thing shouldn’t be outward beauty, but also inner beauty.

It is okay if she has hot legs, but her heart must also be hot for God! A hot leg without a hot heart will get your hands burnt at the end.

So in man or in a woman, I should have attraction for him or her, while he or she must have attraction for God.

This is very important!

In conclusion, no lady should ever think she is not beautiful. There is nothing like that. You are beautiful and you should believe it.

Have you not seen some of the most handsome men (in your opinion) get married to some of the most ugly ladies? (again, in your opinion) And then such men would say their wives are beautiful! You see, beauty is in the beholder’s eyes! 

When your husband sees you, regardless of how you think you look, he will love you and will tell you that you are beautiful.

So, you can help yourself and your esteem by looking at the mirror daily and pointing to who you see there and say, “you are beautiful!” The Importance of Body Chemistry

If some people have told you that you are ugly, it is okay. You are wonderfully and fearfully made, so says the scripture. That means you will be “wonderful” to some and you will be “fearful” to others. Certainly when your spouse sets eyes on you, you will be “wonderful!”

So be patient and wait for the salvation of God in your marriage.

May God help us all.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am a child of God. I am beautiful

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray that God will be your wisdom and strength

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds. Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it (Proverbs 31:10-11 Message)

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Write down what you want in a spouse.

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Psalms 25, 29


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How To Make Your Lover Happy

How To Make Your Lover Happy

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1. Pray for her and with her

Your fiancee will sense your genuine love for her when you pray for her from the depths of your heart.

She will feel well taken care of and her assurance that the future will be great will increase.

Every lady is looking for a man that they know will be there for them spiritually. It is only carnal minded ladies that don’t care a hoot about the man’s spirituality.

You cannot place your spiritual responsibility on your loved one, but at least, you can be inspired by each other’s faith.

It is beautiful when you dedicate time of courtship for the spirituals and not just for carnality and fun all the way.

Thank God for Cinemas and movies, but what about some fasting and prayers as well?

Thank God for the Ice cream and the burgers, but what about some christian books on marriage to read and discuss as well?

2. Take her out

As spiritual as she may be, she wants to be taken out and sweet nonsense whispered into her ears. She finds that very romantic.

As much as she likes to take confessions, she also want to hear you confess your love for her.

As much as she wants you to share scriptures with her, she also wants to share pop-corn and drink with you while at the cinema.

There must be a balance here. One must not be sacrificed for the other and you have to learn to create a balance.

There is a time for fasting and prayers towards your wedding.
There is a time for taking a walk and telling her how much you love her.

There is a time for speaking in tongues together.
There is a time for holding the tongue and listen to her speak.

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
My lover is very happy with me. I do things that please him/her.

PRAYERS FOR THE DAY
Oh Lord, teach me how to make my partner happy.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
2 Corinthians 10:12 For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Tell him/her how much you love them

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
2 Cor 10


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The Kind Of Husband Single Ladies Want To Marry

The Kind Of Husband Single Ladies Want To Marry

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1. The Faithful Husband

Proverbs 20:6 (KJV) Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?

Most men will tell you all kinds of stuffs while toasting you, but where is really that faithful man?

A faithful man will abound with blessings. If you have a faithful husband, treasure him. If you have a man that will not cheat on you, you are blessed!

We are in a generation where ladies would open their legs without asking for it.

If you are unfaithful, if you are careless, if you have no self control, you will fry yourself alive!

See me, I have made up my mind o… there is no going back by the grace of God!

Making up your mind doesn’t mean you are boasting, it means you are consecrating yourself unto God and by His Spirit to stay true to His word.

I am an Ijebu man. We are very shrewd.

Which one weighs more? Your destiny or seven minutes of sweating and jacking up and down? Just asking ni o!

Enjoying yourself in the pleasure of adultery or fornication versus losing God’s favour and even losing heaven when you are unrepentant! Which one?

2. The Responsible Husband

The responsible husband will ensure his family is taken care of.

He would not spend money drinking around town while his kids are sent home for not paying school fees.

He would do all possible in God to ensure the best is provided for His family.

He is not lazy.

Every woman should pray for a responsible husband.

My heart bleeds to hear of many women who are breadwinners of their families, struggling to make ends meet because they are married to a man who is full of promises and talks but will never do anything.

Marrying a lazy man is an affliction in itself.
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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am led by the spirit of God. My feelings do not control me.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, lead me to the rightful person for me

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Romans 8:14 For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the sons of God.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Decide to follow God

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Rom 8


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How To Understand The Lady In Your Life

How To Understand The Lady In Your Life

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Women are generally emotionally complex than men. Their emotions are endlessly and intricately intertwined!

Women are deep. That is why they can hold a baby for nine months without bulging. Have you ever left a baby alone with a man for thirty minutes?

That is why God listens to them because they understand what it means to travail. They know what it means to hold a growing life and then birth that life at the right time.

Understanding a lady is a journey!

A guy who had been in courtship for seven months sat in my office and said he knows everything about his fiancé. I chuckled. He probably doesn’t understand anything about her.

I have been married to my wife for twenty two years, and yet I am not quick to want to say I understand her.

I once heard a man who had been married for fifty years saying he just discovered one new thing about his wife!
Lobatan!

So, how do you begin the journey of understanding a woman? I am just going to give you ideas ni o!

1. Understand her God

One of the most sure ways to understand that special lady in your life is to seek to understand her maker.

Nobody understands a product like the manufacturer of that product.

Nobody, no human being will ever understand her like God would.

So, the beginning of the journey is when the man develops a conscious relationship with God. When you are rooted in God’s love, God will now cause His love to be shed abroad in your hearts.

As you begin to understand the breadth, the length and the depth and height of this love, this will give you a wisdom that surpasses every effort in trying to understand her, and you will know how to do the right things that will unlock her creativity and make her feel loved.

That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God. – Eph 3:17-19 (KJV)

To be continued…

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I choose to understand my partner.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
I receive wisdom to understand my partner.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 3:17 (KJV) That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Love God passionately

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Eph 3


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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

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Three Ways To Show Undying Love To Your Wife

1. Take Care Of Her Needs
A lady has many needs; material, emotional and spiritual

Love to a lady is spelled being there for her at such times of need. As a guy who loves her genuinely, you should show empathy for her needs.

Definitely, you will not be expected to meet all her needs especially since you are not her Jehovah Jireh.

However, the husband is expected to show concern and encourage her in those times of need. Don’t just ignore her needs and pretend as if those needs are not important.

Let her know that her needs are important. Let her feel well taken care of. One of the distractions and deception the devil uses for ladies is to make them feel that some other guy can take care of them better.

As a man, don’t let the devil have the opportunity of deceiving her, take care of her well.

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2. Speak Into Her Life
Words for a woman are very important. More so, words from her head, her priest, and her crown. Speak kind words to her.

Never lash at her with your words. Never hurt or wound her with your words. Such words go deep into her heart, causing deep emotional pains.

A lady can never be all she has the potential to become if all she hears from her husband are downgrading words. Take up the role of a high priest in her life.

Keep speaking God’s word over her life. The lady is like a vine, which initially looks weak and has to coil around a wall or stake but later develops deep roots and branches and becomes very strong.

3. Listen To Her
There is no real love until you pay attention to her when she speaks.

The only way you can truly know a person is to listen when they speak. It’s from their words you understand how they reason, their opinions, and their viewpoints on issues

When your wife talks and you give her undivided attention, you are telling her she is important enough to listen to, that you value what she has to say so much, you want to listen, that she is intelligent enough in her conversation, you want to listen.

What you don’t understand is that when you treat your wife as though she is not intelligent, she notices, it affects her esteem and she begins to believe she is not intelligent and begins to act out what she believes.

May God bless our marriages.

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my fiance/fiancee with God’s love

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, help me and teach me how to love and understand my loved one

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Pro 5:18 (MSG) Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Show love to her

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Matthew 8; Mark 2


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