Top 10 Things a Man Wants in a Woman

Top 10 Things a Man Wants in a Woman

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Top Ten Things a Man Wants in a Woman.

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Regarding relationships, men and women often have different expectations and desires. While individual preferences may vary, there are certain qualities that many men find attractive and desirable in a partner. Here are the top ten things that often top a man’s wish list for a woman:

1. Confidence

Men are undeniably drawn to confident women who exude self-assurance and aren’t afraid to showcase their worth. This confidence is not only sexy but also incredibly empowering, as it radiates a sense of self-acceptance and inner strength. When a woman is confident, she carries herself with poise and grace, making her even more beautiful and appealing to the opposite sex.

Confidence gives a woman an aura of independence, making her more attractive and desirable. It’s not about being arrogant or entitled but rather about deeply understanding one’s strengths, weaknesses, and values. A confident woman is unapologetically herself, unafraid to take risks, and willing to speak her mind. This infectious self-assurance makes her more charismatic and captivating to be around.

Moreover, confidence can enhance a woman’s physical appearance, making her features more striking and her presence more commanding. When she feels good about herself, she’s more likely to take care of her physical health, dress in a way that makes her feel confident, and carry herself with a sense of pride. This, in turn, can make her more attractive to men, as they’re drawn to her positive energy and self-assured demeanour.

What else are the Things a Man Wants in a Woman?

2. Emotional Intelligence

High emotional intelligence is desirable in a partner, and men are particularly drawn to women who possess this quality. Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to recognise, understand, and manage one’s own emotions, as well as being empathetic and supportive towards the feelings of others. A woman with high emotional intelligence is better equipped to navigate the complexities of relationships, communicate effectively, and provide emotional support to her partner.

Men are attracted to women who can understand and validate their emotions rather than dismissing or minimising them. They want a partner who can create a safe and non-judgmental space for them to express themselves without fear of being criticised or belittled. A woman with high emotional intelligence can do just that, offering a listening ear, a comforting presence, and a supportive attitude that makes her partner feel seen, heard, and understood.

Things a Man Wants in a Woman

Moreover, a woman with high emotional intelligence is better equipped to manage conflicts and disagreements healthily and constructively. She can remain calm and composed, even in the face of adversity, and work towards finding a resolution that benefits both parties. This ability to navigate conflicts effectively is a major turn-on for men, indicating maturity, empathy, and commitment to the relationship.

Furthermore, a woman with high emotional intelligence is more likely to empathise and understand her partner’s needs, desires, and fears. She can put herself in his shoes and see things from his perspective, which fosters a deeper sense of connection and intimacy. This empathy also enables her to be more supportive and encouraging, helping her partner feel more confident and motivated.

A woman with high emotional intelligence is a valuable partner, offering a unique combination of emotional support, empathy, and conflict-resolution skills. Men are naturally drawn to these qualities, creating a sense of safety, trust, and connection essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

What else are the Things a Man Wants in a Woman?

3. Good Communication Skills

Effective communication is the backbone of any successful relationship, and men are particularly drawn to women who can express themselves clearly, openly, and honestly. When a woman can communicate her thoughts, feelings, and desires concisely and respectfully, it creates a sense of trust, understanding, and connection essential for a healthy and fulfilling partnership.

Men want a woman who can articulate her needs, desires, and boundaries without being aggressive, passive-aggressive, or vague. They want to know where they stand, what she’s thinking and feeling, and how they can support her. When a woman can communicate effectively, it eliminates misunderstandings, reduces conflicts, and fosters a sense of mutual respect and understanding.

Effective communication also helps to build intimacy and emotional connection. When a woman can express her emotions, desires, and fears openly, it creates a sense of vulnerability and trust, allowing her partner to feel closer to her. Men are drawn to women who can be open and honest about their feelings, as it will enable them to connect on a deeper level and provide emotional support.

Moreover, effective communication is a two-way street. Men want a woman who can express herself clearly, listen actively, and respond thoughtfully. When a woman can listen without judgment, ask clarifying questions, and respond empathetically, it creates a sense of safety and understanding, allowing her partner to feel heard and validated.

In addition, effective communication helps to prevent conflicts and misunderstandings. When a woman can clearly communicate her needs and desires, it reduces the likelihood of miscommunication and conflict. Men want a woman who can address issues as they arise rather than letting them simmer beneath the surface, causing resentment and tension.

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How To Win Your Husband Over With Your Words

How To Win Your Husband Over With Your Words

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Has your husband ever told you that you are not talking to him well? It is either he says you speak in a disrespectful manner or you are not just logical.

My own husband used to tell me that often. I used to wonder how best to speak to him. My own husband is very, very intelligent, coupled with the fact that he is a strong choleric. You really have to make a lot of sense to get his attention.

To prove a point is a very bad move because it will not just work. So I quit trying to make a point.

I discovered a secret that has helped me and I believe will help every woman out there. I am not talking about remote controlling your husband to do as you say, but to have regards for what you say.

Your husband will respect what you say more when your words are weighty and carry power.  You know in the world, the wives do charms so that their husbands can listen to them. But we believers have the real thing.

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I am not talking about native intelligence or academic prowess. I am talking about possessing the spirit of wisdom and understanding that comes from God.

And they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit by which he spake. – Acts 6:10

See it in the Amplified version

But they were not able to resist the intelligence and the wisdom and [the inspiration of] the Spirit with which and by Whom he spoke. – Acts 6:10

It is possible to possess such intelligence and wisdom that your husband will not be able to refuse you, shut you up, or won’t listen to you.

You don’t have to be manipulative with your words, no auto planning, no rehearsals before speaking.

The fact has been established that you can speak with intelligence. But how can one come to the point where you have such a spirit?

You cannot learn it from school or from your parents or mother. What was the secret of Stephen? He was full of the Holy faith and the Holy Ghost as recorded in Acts 6:6

Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God. So Stephen was a man dedicated to the study of the word of God and prayers.

When you give yourself to the study of the word of God and you become controlled by the Holy Spirit, you will possess an intelligence that will be beyond your age.

You will speak with much grace and power. You will not be forceful or manipulative but your words will be gracious. The Holy Spirit will give you insight and foresight.

You will advise your husband and your advice will turn out the best decision. By the next time, he will seek counsel from you. He will disregard your words and treat your words with levity. He will come to respect you and honor you because of your intelligent words.

This is what my mentor possesses and that is what I am getting. I am giving myself to the study of the word and to prayers.

 I have made up my mind to go for wisdom in words and in deed, so that I will become relevant and impact my generation. You too can take on the journey of being full of faith and the spirit of God.

God bless your marriage

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am full of wisdom and the spirit.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Pray for the spirit of wisdom

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Acts 6:10 [KJV]And they were not able to resist the wisdom and the spirit by which he spake.

ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Take out time to pray in the spirit

BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY
Acts 6




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