Ambition is a highly attractive quality in a woman, and men are drawn to those who have clear goals, aspirations, and a strong desire to achieve them. When a woman is ambitious, she exudes confidence, motivation, and a sense of purpose, which can be incredibly alluring to men. They want a partner who is driven, focused, and passionate about her pursuits, as it indicates a level of self-awareness, discipline, and resilience.
Men are attracted to women who have a clear vision for their lives, whether it’s related to their career, personal growth, or relationships. They want a partner who is proactive, takes initiative, and is willing to put in the effort required to achieve her objectives. This type of ambition is not only admirable but also inspiring, as it shows that a woman is capable of setting her sights on something and working towards it with determination and perseverance.
Ambition is often associated with a strong sense of independence, which is a highly attractive quality in a partner. When a woman is ambitious, she is more likely to be self-sufficient, motivated, and less dependent on others for her happiness and fulfillment. This independence can be incredibly appealing to men, as it indicates that a woman is capable of taking care of herself and is not overly reliant on others.
Ambition can be a major turn-on for men. When a woman is passionate about her pursuits, she can be incredibly charismatic, energetic, and captivating. This type of enthusiasm is infectious, and men are drawn to women who can inspire and motivate them to pursue their own goals and aspirations.
Ambition can be a key component of a healthy and fulfilling relationship. When both partners are ambitious and supportive of each other’s goals, it can create a sense of teamwork, collaboration, and mutual respect. Men want a partner who can encourage and motivate them to pursue their own aspirations, and ambition is a key factor in creating this type of dynamic.
7. Emotional Support
Men, just like women, need emotional support and encouragement to thrive in life. They want a woman who can be their rock, their confidante, and their safe haven. A woman who can offer emotional support can provide a sense of comfort, security, and stability in a relationship. Men want someone who can listen to them without judgment, offer words of encouragement, and provide a comforting presence in times of need.
When a woman can provide emotional support, she can help her partner feel seen, heard, and understood. She can create a sense of safety and trust, allowing him to open up and share his feelings, fears, and desires. This type of emotional intimacy can deepen the connection between partners, fostering a sense of closeness and bonding.
Top 10 Things a Man Wants in a Woman Part 3
Men want a woman who can be empathetic and understanding, someone who can put themselves in their shoes and see things from their perspective. They want someone who can offer a listening ear, a comforting touch, and a supportive attitude. This type of emotional support can help men feel more confident, more motivated, and more inspired to pursue their goals and dreams.
Emotional support can be a powerful tool in building a strong and healthy relationship. When both partners can provide emotional support to each other, it can create a sense of balance and harmony in the relationship. It can help couples navigate life’s challenges, overcome obstacles, and celebrate each other’s successes.
In addition, emotional support can be a major turn-on for men. When a woman can provide emotional support, it can create a sense of attraction and appreciation, as men feel seen, heard, and understood. This type of emotional connection can be incredibly intimate and romantic, fostering a deeper sense of love and connection in the relationship.
One of the greatest elements of the foundation of our relationship and marriage was prayers. Oh yes, we prayed. There were no mobile phones in those days, but it was made possible because we attended the same college! We prayed like our lives depended on it, and yes, our lives depended on it!
Today, you have phones and other gadgets, so distance should not even be an issue for you in praying together.
Why should you pray? The devil is on the prowl, and you cannot afford to play. A person who does not pray will eventually become a prey.
Here are a few tips that will help you build a strong prayer life in your relationship or marriage:
1. Prioritize it
The first thing in the morning is not checking your phone. The first thing is to worship and pray to your maker. If you are single in a relationship, you and your lover can have a fixed time and wake up one another via calls regardless of your location. If you are already married, it is even much better. I know some couples wake up at different times and pray separately.
That is okay, but ensure you still find other times when you pray together. Carve out some quality time to pray together and create that special connection. It’s about opening up, being real, and bringing God into your relationship.
2. Add Bible Juice.
God’s word is life! Sprinkle some relevant scriptures into your prayer times to add some extra spice. Let your prayers be Bible-based, and make sure you have a word to back up your request like a lawyer would do in court. This will encourage you as partners to dig into God’s word to find relevant scriptures for your prayers.
3. Keep It Real and Vulnerable.
No need to “form” for God! Prayer is all about being raw and open with God and your partner. It’s a safe space to share your deepest dreams, struggles, and flaws. Embrace that authenticity, yo! Being vulnerable in prayer creates an environment for you and your partner to grow together. Realness breeds a solid connection, and prayer is the perfect platform for that.
4. Make it a Habit
Consistency is the key. The devil fears consistency, and that is why he fights it. Do everything possible to maintain consistency in the timing and the place where you pray. Systemize your prayer times, and you will see God bring systems and structures into your life and finances.
One of the ways to avoid rancour in relationships and marriage is to budget. Not just a budget, but a budget that honors God.
As Christians, we are called to be good stewards of our resources, including our finances. Creating a budget that honors God requires us to prioritize our spending, live within our means, and trust in His provision.
In this devotional, we will explore practical steps to create a budget that aligns with biblical principles and honors God.
Step 1: Identify Your Income
Start by calculating your total monthly income from all sources, including your job, investments, and any side hustles. This will give you a clear picture of how much money you have coming in each month.
Step 2: Categorize Your Expenses
Next, categorize your expenses into needs, wants, and giving. Needs include essential expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, food, and transportation. Wants include discretionary expenses like entertainment, hobbies, and travel. Giving includes your tithe (10% of your income) and any other charitable donations.
Step 3: Prioritize Your Spending
Prioritize your spending based on biblical principles. Here are some guidelines to consider.
Give first: Set aside your tithe and any other charitable donations as soon as you receive your income. “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” – 2 Corinthians 9:7
Meet your needs: Ensure you have enough money for essential expenses like rent/mortgage, utilities, food, and transportation.
Save for the future: Set aside a portion of your income for long-term savings and investments.
Live within your means: Avoid overspending and debt by living within your means.
Step 4: Create a Budget Plan
Using the 50/30/20 rule as a guideline, allocate your income into the following categories.
50% for needs (essential expenses)
30% for wants (discretionary expenses)
20% for giving and savings (tithe, charitable donations, and long-term savings)
Step 5: Monitor and Adjust
Regularly monitor your spending and adjust your budget as needed. Consider using a budgeting app or spreadsheet to track your expenses and stay on top of your finances
Relationship Goals: 4 Characteristics to Strive For
Let’s talk about what makes a relationship truly healthy and strong. Here are the top five characteristics of a healthy relationship, straight from the Bible:
Emotional Intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is the ability to be aware of and manage your own emotions, as well as empathize with and interact with others. It helps you navigate conflicts and challenges healthily and constructively.
Ultimately, it helps you to understand your partner more and relate with kindness instead of cruelty in the event of weaknesses.
According to Journal of Family Psychology, Couples with high emotional intelligence have a 50% lower chance of divorce
Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, for anger resides in the lap of fools” (Ecclesiastes 7:9)
2. Keep Talking.
Communication is everything! Lovers are never muted. They keep talking, they have learned to disagree without being disagreeable and to be sweethearts regardless of opinions.
Couples who communicate effectively have a 70% higher chance of resolving conflicts successfully.
Gloria Copeland said “Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. Without it, the relationship will die.”
“Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” (Colossians 4:6)
3. Compromise and Flexibility.
Rigidity is the hallmark of fools. Listen to your partner. You are not a statue. Don´t be a dried fish, be fresh all the time and be malleable within a scriptural context.
No one gets their way all the time. Learn to compromise and be flexible in your relationship, finding solutions that work for both partners.
Oretha Hagin said, “Compromise is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength and maturity.”
Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment (Romans 12:3)
4. Trust and Honesty
Trust is the glue that binds friends together and the thread that weaves lovers into a beautiful partnership.
Trust and honesty are essential in building a strong and healthy relationship. Be truthful and transparent in your interactions, and work to establish and maintain trust.
Don’t break trust continually, or else you have nothing to show for it after a while!
Kenneth Copeland said “Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without trust, you have nothing.”
Trust will keep your relationship and marriage on track!
Pro 11:3 (MSG) The integrity of the honest keeps them on track; the deviousness of crooks brings them to ruin.
This will help singles know what to look for and help couples know what to pray for concerning their spouses.
Lovebirds! Before you tie the knot, it’s essential to know about marriage. Here are the top ten things to know before saying “I do” – and we’re keeping it real with some scripture to back it up!
Communication is Key
Is your communication top-notch, or does your tongue cleave to the roof of your mouth when you are together? If you cannot bear your mind in their presence, don’t go ahead!
Are you already married, and you have this issue? Work on it, pray about it, and seek therapy! Things like that don’t improve on their own. Thankfully, Kisses and Huggs Club offers therapy!
Col 4:6 (MSG) Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out.
Marriage is a Partnership
Marriage is a 50/50 partnership, not a 100/0 dictatorship. Understand that compromise and teamwork are essential in navigating life’s challenges together.
If you can’t handle some imperfection, if you can’t forgive, if you have uncontrollable anger tantrums, don’t marry! Stay single! Two are meant to get better, not bitter!
Ecc 4:9 (MSG) It’s better to have a partner than go it alone. Share the work, share the wealth.
Independence is Important.
You are one flesh, but you have two personalities and two different minds! Marriage should not swallow your individuality, intellect, and reasoning. Love your wife, respect your husband but develop your career and support yourselves.
Have a life and have some hobbies, but ensure you also have hobbies that bring you together and foster your togetherness.
Dear ladies; run away from feminism; it’s from the pit of hell.
Respect is Non-Negotiable
Mutual respect is vital in a marriage. Treat each other with kindness, compassion, and understanding, even in difficult times. Especially for men, respect is such a major issue.
I usually tell ladies, if you can’t respect that man, don’t bother to marry him!
There you have it, dear singles and couples! By knowing these few things before saying “I do,” you’ll be better equipped to build a happy, healthy, and fulfilling marriage. Remember, marriage is a partnership, and with love, respect, and commitment, you can overcome any obstacle that comes your way.
