Life Is All About Change (And That’s a Good Thing!)
Change can feel like a rollercoaster ride you never asked to be on. One minute, you’re cruising through life, and the next, everything’s flipped upside down—new job, new city, new responsibilities, and suddenly, you’re adulting (whether you feel ready or not). But guess what? Change is a part of God’s plan for you, and it’s through these transitions that we grow—both in our faith and in life.
From childhood to adolescence, adulthood, and beyond, each stage of life brings new challenges, fresh opportunities, and growth moments. The secret sauce to thriving? Embracing the change. When you choose to face transitions with an open heart and mind, you’re not just surviving; you’re thriving.
Why Change Feels Like a Big Deal (But Doesn’t Have to Be)
It’s totally normal to feel overwhelmed by change. After all, leaving your comfort zone can feel like stepping into the unknown (yikes!). In childhood, we learn the basics—how to make friends, how to tie our shoes, and how to love peanut butter (or not). Then, adolescence hits, and suddenly, it’s all about figuring out who we are, what we believe in, and where we fit in this world. Oh, and there’s that whole “peer pressure” thing. Fun times, right?
Fast forward to adulthood, and the stakes get even higher—career choices, relationships, and maybe even starting a family. The decisions we make now can shape our future, which sounds intense, but here’s the deal: God equips us to handle it. Each phase of life is an opportunity to trust Him more and discover who He created us to be.
The Real Perks of Embracing Change
Okay, so we know change can be hard, but why should we lean into it? Here are a few reasons embracing change is worth it:
1. You’ll Discover New Strengths
When you’re thrown into unfamiliar territory, you’ll find out just how capable you are. Think of it like spiritual and personal muscle-building. Each challenge is a chance to grow stronger and more resilient. You may even uncover passions or skills you never knew you had. Pretty cool, right?
2. You’ll Build Emotional Resilience
Dealing with change isn’t just about getting through it—it’s about growing through it. The more we adapt, the more emotionally resilient we become. Life will always throw curveballs, but embracing them with faith gives you the tools to bounce back even stronger.
3. Your Relationships Will Get Stronger
Ever notice how going through tough times can bring people closer? When you embrace change, you often find yourself leaning on family, friends, and God. These moments can deepen your relationships, creating bonds that are strong enough to withstand life’s twists and turns.
Let’s Get Real: Why Change Scares Us
Change can be scary, especially when it feels like you’re walking blindfolded. Fear of the unknown is real, but it doesn’t have to paralyze you. Whether it’s anxiety about a new job, fear of moving to a new city, or even just the small day-to-day adjustments, it’s all about mindset. Instead of seeing change as something to fear, see it as an opportunity for growth. Plus, Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us that we don’t have to be anxious about anything when we bring it all to God in prayer.
Supporting Each Other Through Transitions
Here’s a life hack: you don’t have to go through change alone. Leaning on community—whether it’s friends, family, or your church family—can make all the difference. Sharing your struggles, victories, and everything in between with people you trust helps lighten the load.
Remember that time your friend started a new job and was freaking out? Now think about how you were able to offer support and encouragement. That’s what community is all about. We’re called to bear each other’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to remind each other of God’s faithfulness, even in the middle of uncertainty.
Practical Tips for Embracing Change (Without Losing Your Mind)
So how do we actually do this? Here are some tried-and-true tips for navigating change like a pro:
Stay Present: Praying and even just breathing exercises can help you stay grounded when things feel chaotic. Jesus tells us not to worry about tomorrow (Matthew 6:34), so focus on today and trust God with the rest.
Set Small Goals: Overwhelmed by change? Break it down. Setting small, achievable goals helps you stay focused and gives you those mini-wins that keep you motivated.
Get a Support System: Surround yourself with people who get it. Whether it’s your best friend, mentor, or small group, having people to talk to makes the journey a lot less lonely.
Flip the Script: Instead of seeing change as something to dread, reframe it as an opportunity for growth. Romans 8:28 reminds us that God works all things together for good, even the tough stuff.
Final Thoughts: Embrace the Journey
Here’s the thing: change is inevitable, but growth is optional. Every life stage brings new challenges and opportunities, and while the road might be bumpy at times, it’s all part of God’s plan for your personal and spiritual growth.
So the next time life throws a curveball, remember: you’ve got this. God’s got this. Embrace the change, lean on your community, and watch how you’ll grow in ways you never imagined. And who knows? You might even end up enjoying the ride.
Stay curious, stay faithful, and trust the process—because God’s not done with you yet.
Top 56 Valuable Lessons from the 56-Year Marriage of Joyce and Dave Meyer
Joyce and Dave Meyer have been married for over 56 years. In their Video, Talk It Out, they share candidly about the highs and lows of their journey together. Joyce notes early on in their 5-date courtship, they didn’t truly know each other. Yet through divine intervention, they found themselves bonded for life.
Based on this conversation with celebrated life coach and bestselling author Joyce Meyer and her husband Dave, here are some invaluable insights on how to build a strong, God-honoring marriage.
1. Joyce and Dave Meyer discuss the ups and downs of their early marriage and how their thinking has changed over the years.
2. Dave knew marriage was forever so he never thought about changing Joyce or leaving if things didn’t improve.
3. They had to learn about each other through experiences and God helped Dave deal with difficult situations. Over decades, Joyce and Dave Meyer learned to accept each other fully as God designed.
4. Dave applies relevant scriptures like Ephesians 5:28 to situations rather than dwelling on problems.
5. Joyce explains she came from a difficult childhood which manifested in erratic, emotionally volatile behaviors in their first years of marriage. She recalls giving Dave the silent treatment for weeks at a time when upset.
6. Dave remained steadfast, understanding where Joyce’s hurt originated while navigating ups and downs to learn about her. He displayed remarkable strength and commitment to their vows.
Common Mistakes in Marriage.
7. Trying to change your spouse instead of letting them be who they are. Realizing their unique qualities complement one another affirms God’s plan for oneness in marriage.
8. Joyce acknowledges trying to change Dave was misguided since transformation must come from within.
9. From the start, Dave viewed marriage as permanent, avoiding the “threat” mindset some have of changing or divorcing a spouse.
10. Focusing on what’s wrong with your spouse instead of what’s right is a common mistake.
11. Thinking you have to be happy for your spouse to be happy instead of each being responsible for their own happiness.
Handling Differences of Opinion.
12. It’s normal to have different opinions and likes in a marriage.
13. Compromise by allowing each person to decorate their own space.
14. It’s okay to disagree as long as you don’t think your spouse is wrong for having a different view.
15. Joyce recommends couples make a side-by-side list of each other’s positive and negative traits. For her and Dave, the good vastly outweighed the bad. By shifting mental focus to a spouse’s virtues, small flaws seem insignificant.
Dealing with Financial Disagreements.
16. Joyce and Dave Meyer advised that you talk through finances and goals before marriage to avoid surprises.
17. Needs can change over time so revisit financial agreements.
18. Understand each other’s perspectives and fears around money.
Dave’s Experience with Saving Money as a Youth.
19. Dave shares how he learned the value of saving money from a young age. He explains how at 16 years old, he saved one thousand dollars cutting grass and selling items to buy his first car.
20. Dave emphasizes the importance of prioritizing spending money on important goals.
Accepting Each Other as God Made Us.
21. Joyce and Dave Meyer are different. Dave is more logical while Joyce processes things verbally.
22. One frequent source of disagreement between spouses is having differing communication styles.
23. Joyce mentioned how she likes to verbally process situations by talking through all the angles, while Dave prefers a more direct, logical approach. It’s not that either way is wrong, but recognizing these distinctions is important. They’ve realized God made them this way and focusing on each other’s strengths has helped.
24. When Joyce was unhappy, Dave modeled finding joy regardless through stable faith.
25. As Christians, we are not to let others dictate our moods but lead by example. Joyce was inspired to mirror Dave’s contentment.
26. Misunderstandings often arise when partners don’t understand each other’s methods of thinking and reasoning through problems.
27. Surrender fully to God’s design for oneness. Appreciate differences as completing each other.
28. Apply biblical solutions in tough times, not human reasoning. Prioritize your spouse’s well-being through humility, patience, and consistent prayer.
We will continue with Part 2 of Top 56 Valuable Lessons from the 56-Year Marriage of Joyce and Dave Meyer tomorrow.
‘Virtuous’ from the Hebrew word ‘Chayil’ means excellence, strength, ability, efficiency and force.
The Bible talks about a Virtuous woman see how the scripture puts it;
Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. –Proverbs 31:10 (KJV)
She is the woman considered ‘balanced.’ She has her acts together. She has wisdom and strength and the force of an army. She is the epitome of Christian virtue in feminine form. She is the one who has discovered the secret of drawing strength from her maker and Lord.
She is gracious and elegant in every way, strong within and she stands for what she believes. She is a woman who knows her individuality and uniqueness and yet submits her will, desires, and opinions to her husband.
She is not trapped, hindered, or subservient. She is just submissive. She is not limited or restricted, she is simply fantastic.
All these may not sound like what you see in your fiancée or what you are now as a lady, but there is a hidden desire in every lady to become the Proverbs 31 woman.
God does not focus on our past, or concentrate on how fragile we are in the present. God looks out with pleasure and sees what we are capable of becoming in the future.
We are all ‘projects in progress’ God is still very much at work within us, healing the wounds from our past and strengthening our weak hands. Don’t allow anybody to abuse or despise you. Don’t condemn yourself. Only one person can condemn you, and that is God! But he has refused to do that!
Believe in yourself! You are the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31; the writer just wanted you to have the honour of putting your name there by yourself. Remember, the one who formed you said ‘you are very good!’
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY I discover and develop my God-given gifts and talents.
PRAYER FOR THE DAY Father in Jesus’ name, I ask for a spirit of wisdom and revelation in discovering my purpose and the grace to maximize it.
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY If people can’t see what God is doing, they stumble all over themselves; But when they attend to what he reveals, they are most blessed. –Proverbs 29:18 (MSG)
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY Remove the mental block and limitations that exist only in your mind.
Today is Oil For Today – Day 88. Let’s lift up our voice one more time as we pray to God!. Watch Video on Youtube HERE. Check other days HERE
Scriptures For Prayers Today
Oil For Today – Day 88
[2] I will go before thee, and make the crooked places straight: I will break in pieces the gates of brass, and cut in sunder the bars of iron: [3] And I will give thee the treasures of darkness, and hidden riches of secret places, that thou mayest know that I, the LORD, which call thee by thy name, am the God of Israel.
Isa 45:2-3 (KJV)
Prayer Points For Today
Oil For Today – Day 88
1. Begin to thank the LORD for today.
2. Begin to ask the LORD to go ahead of you today, and straighten every crooked place.
3. Begin to break every gate that has been set to limit your progress today.
4. Begin to release your family from the prison the enemy has put them in.
5. Pray for your local assembly; come against the spirits of lust, lies, gossip, etc.
6. Pray that the power to make wealth is made manifest in you today.
7. Begin to command the treasures and hidden riches of the earth to flow in your direction today.
8. Pray that the LORD shows Himself strong in your life today.
9. Go ahead and make your personal requests for the day known to the Lord
10. Begin to thank the Lord for answered prayers.
Confession For Today
Oil For Today – Day 88
This day, I have direction. I am led by the Holy Spirit. God is going ahead of me. I follow his plans for my life. Every crooked place is made straight. Every impossibility is made possible. Every obstacle is removed. Today, I have the treasures of darkness. My eyes are open to the hidden riches set aside for me. I enter into financial abundance in Jesus mighty name, amen.
