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Strategies for Loving Your Wife Like Never Before

I’ll be writing to the men today as they are the leaders of the house.

Loving your wife doesn’t sometimes come naturally, especially if you have been married for a while. To love your wife, you have to learn it and practice it from time to time.

Here are practical ways to love your wives as recorded in the scriptures.

Eph 5:25-28 MSG – Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church–a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor–since they’re already “one” in marriage.

Strategies for Loving Your Wife Like Never Before

1. Go all out for her: This is the first instruction given in the passage above. Go out of your way. Go all out in your love. Don’t hold back in expressing your love for your wife. Love your wife deeply. Love her with your substance. Love her with your commitments.

Love her genuinely and be interested in her progress, all around. Express that love both in action and in words Do not give your emotional space to any other except for her. Go all out for her even in your emotions!

Be there for her emotionally. This means being there to listen, understand, and comfort her during both the good times and the challenging ones.

Strategies for Loving Your Wife Like Never Before

2Give, don’t just get: As a husband, let your love be marked by giving, not just by getting. Be a giver. That’s the way things are done. Give your time. Give your attention. Give your love. Give them to your family, not to a strange woman out there. Provide for the family. Go the extra mile to make her happy. Let your family be your priority. 

Marriage is sacrifice. Let your wife see your love, commitment, and sacrifice.

Give her your time! Sacrificing time for meaningful, quality moments together is crucial

What else can you give? Thoughtful gestures will go a long way! Surprising her with a treat, leaving romantic notes, or having date nights can make her feel cherished and loved.

Don’t just get intimacy, give her too. Give her a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on, she will need it when she is down


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