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Physical Intimacy For Singles and Married Let’s talk to the singles first! Flee Fornication! To flee means “to run away as in terror!” Where God asked you to run, don’t say “Let’s reason together! Run for your dear life! 

It doesn’t matter if you are the head of the Prayer unit, that thing doesn’t respect your anointing! Just run. Before sex happens, you will always know, at least five minutes before. The voice is changing to bedroom voice, the room is becoming romantic, and you are all alone, staring into your eyes as if you have never seen each other before, you are smiling at each other sheepishly when nothing is funny, you are holding hands and goose pimples are appearing, and you are still sitting there saying you are in control? Dear son, dear daughter, you are already out of control. Things are about to fall apart where the center can no longer hold, and the next thing will be the arrow of God! So run! 

Physical Intimacy For Singles and Married 

Why would you visit him to spend the night? What were you thinking? Is his house a place for Night Vigils? or did he say his place is now a hotel?

The Scripture advises that you should not wake these hormones that are sleeping on their own! 

Son 2:7 (KJV)
I charge you, O ye daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, and by the hinds of the field, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, till he please.

Don’t indulge in oral sex either! How do you hold that thing in your mouth on Friday and still come to hold the Microphone on Sunday? Ha, fear God o! Stop poking at Grace!

I have said all of these to tell you, get back to God and consecrate your life all over gain. Get that fire back that you have lost in the place of compromise!

Physical Intimacy For Singles and Married 

Now, to the couples. Can you imagine? We are telling the couples, to do this thing o! We are telling singles, don’t do it! God will help us! 

God desires that you have sexual pleasure as married couples! As in, have the most fun in that area! Some people believe they are more spiritual than God!

Let’s see what the scripture says!

“Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.”  Pro 5:19 (KJV)

Solomon is advising us in God’s word! That is, concentrate on your wife’s breasts rather than another man’s! When another woman’s breasts start winking at you, you’re moving toward adultery!

 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe. Where? On the bed! Be thou ravished with her love! It means you should be in love with her.

Another translation can be found here.

“She is beautiful and graceful, just like a deer; you should be attracted to her and stay deeply in love.”  Pro 5:19 (CEV)

Physical Intimacy For Singles and Married 

Stay deeply in love with each other and keep your attention on each other. Stop letting unnecessary demonic squabbles ruin your sexual life! It is not safe for a man to be sexually starved due to quarrels, nor is it acceptable for a woman to be sexually neglected due to childish tantrums.

Forgive each other quickly and have fun sexually!

It is a decision you should make as a couple!

Do not use sex to punish your husband, dear wife. It’s not going to work.

Do not ignore your wife in order to punish her, dear husband.

Make a decision to enjoy each other!

Have sex first, then settle your differences later. Singles, stop using sex to end quarrels! There will be too many quarrels, deliberately! If you know, you know!

Be blessed!


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