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1. Express and Articulate Your Love Constantly

This may not really sound as important to menfolk, but I can tell you as a marriage counselor that it is a big deal for ladies.

One woman bitterly complained that the only problem she had with her husband was that he never says “I love you!”

The man went to a recording studio and recorded a seventy-minute audio of his voice repeatedly saying “I love you!”

He took this CD and presented it to his wife.

“Hey dear, my pepperento potatoe, anytime you want to hear me say that, just play this CD!

The wife took it from him, broke it into two, and threw it out of the window.

The man was furious.

The wife said calmly, “I didn’t marry the CD, I married you and I want to hear it from you.”

And that is the way it is.

Dear husbands, your wife needs to hear that every time.

Don’t allow the compliments she gets outside to outweigh your own expressions for her at home.

After childbirth and as they approach midlife, women go through a mix of emotions and they struggle with their appearance, their tummy, and body shape.

That is why mirrors are never far from them.

They need a lot of affirmations from their husbands at this time.

Your affirmations will go a long way in stabilizing their emotions and ultimately make them feel loved.

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2. Attend Church Together

Very importantly, the husband as the head should ensure he raises a godly family.

Part of doing that is not forsaking the assembly of God’s people.

It is important you keep hearing the same thing.

I do not always subscribe that couples attend church services differently.

Attend the same church and build up yourselves spiritually.

Grow together.

Study together. 

Pray together.

It goes a long way to strengthen the marriage.

As the husband, it is your responsibility to give spiritual leadership and direction.

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3. Resist the Urge To Lift Your Hands Against Her

Finally, as a husband, you should do all in your care to never lift your hands against your wife, for any reason, whatsoever.

This is what separates the men from the boys.

“Oh Pastor, you don’t know my wife. She is stubborn, rude, annoying, and disrespectful. Before I say “A,” she is by the “Z.”

Well, physically abusing her will not be the way out.

1Pe 3:7  
Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

Make a covenant that you will never hit her!

As you make up your mind to do this, to honour her, protect her, and take care of her, God will also honour His Word in your life.

I pray that God will honour you indeed, send help to you in your marriage and fulfill all His desires for your life!


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