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One of the purposes of making love with your spouse is to establish a bonding at the highest level. However, when this is done with someone you are not married to, a bonding also takes place, but it is an unhealthy bonding, because it is spiritually illegal, a direct violation of God’s injunction, a sin unto God and unto one’s body. Rather than soul harmony that happens with married couples, what happens is a soul tie that tends to suck one more into the compromise.

What if I make just one mistake; is a soul tie formed? The answer is yes, because the devil doesn’t need many mistakes, he only needed one to get you into trouble. You give the devil an inch, he takes a mile!

That is why the Bible says:

Eph 4:27 AMP

Leave no [such] room or foothold for the devil [give no opportunity to him].

Just one mistake of David with Bathsheba, an intrigue and tragedy of murder, lies, deception and death of a baby were what ensued.

So what do I need to do to break a soul tie?

1. The first thing you have to do is to genuinely repent of the mistake and decide to stop the act.

When you say you have repented of a particular sin, and the next day, you visit the same person and announce that you only came to say hullo, knowing fully well that one thing will still lead to another, then you have not really repented. When you say you have repented and then he comes visiting the following week, and then you start cooking Rice and Beans for him when it is already late in the night, then you are just playing games with your destiny, because you sure knows what will happen afterwards.

And you know, God cannot be mocked. You can fool your pastor or parents, but don’t even think you can fool God. Don’t even nurse that idea because it is not possible. You need to understand that God does not only listen to the words of your mouth as you cry and say that you will never do it again, He looks into your heart and knows whether you are just acting or your are truly and genuinely repentant. This then determines the release of His mercy that can suspend judgment and overrule damning consequences. His mercy endureth forever.

What does it mean to repent?

It means a change of mind and a turn around. You don’t go back there again!

You want to break soul ties? The first thing is to repent genuinely.

2. The second thing to do is to forgive yourself and forgive the person that has wronged you.

When you are genuinely repentant, God forgives and forgets!

Heb 8:12 KJV

For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.

Take a look at the Message translation:

Heb 8:12 MSG

They’ll get to know me by being kindly forgiven, with the slate of their sins forever wiped clean.

That is God for you! He is a merciful God. He is your father. He will forgive….well that is understandable…but forget? How is that possible?

I am not talking about amnesia here, that is a disease of forgetfulness. I am talking about when you genuinely repent, the blood of Jesus cleanses you and gives you a right standing with God as if you have never committed that sin! It is not as if the sin is still lurking somewhere in some hibernated corners of God’s brain (if there is anything like that) where it can be retrieved later, like restoring a file from recycle bin, it is that the sin is permanently and divinely shredded and does not exist again. There would be no records again and you become like you were before God before you ever committed that sin!

You are the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus!

Your slate is wiped clean, your life becomes anew, and you become new specie!

Well, of course you know that genuine repentance is not when you are habitually hooked to a particular sin…and you keep asking for forgiveness everyday. That is not true repentance, you are just trying to pacify your conscience and it is a dangerous state to be in.

So upon genuine repentance, God forgives and forgets! But do you know where the problem is? You have to forgive as well. Forgive the person that wronged you if that is the case, and then forgive yourself! That is very important. This stage is necessary in order to break soul ties and move on with your life! After asking God for forgiveness, stop gong back to ask again because there is no record again. You have been cleansed, so rise up as the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus that you are!

I pray for you this morning that you will indeed come to to the knowledge of that which Christ has done for you in Jesus name.

I severe myself from every soul tie

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding.

Hebrews 8:12 For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.

Decide to be faithful to your partner

Deut 26


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