Reading Time: 2 minutes

How To Satisfy Your Wife: Tips for Better Communication, Romance, and Bedroom

Marriage is a beautiful union, but it takes work to keep it strong and healthy. As a husband, one of your primary responsibilities is to make sure your wife is happy and satisfied. In this devotional, we’ll discuss some tips on how to satisfy your wife sexually and emotionally.

How To Satisfy Your Wife

1. Communicate Effectively

Effective communication is key to a happy and healthy marriage. Here are some tips to help you communicate more effectively with your wife or fiancee

a.  Empathic listening 
Listen actively and attentively. Put yourself in her shoes when she is talking. 

b. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements
“You” statements can come across as accusatory, so you might want to avoid that.

c. Avoid interrupting your wife
My wife, for example, doesn’t like me to interrupt her when she is talking. Even saying “okay” too many times is an interruption for her. It took me years to learn this. 

d. Be open and honest
Be transparent. Once your wife sees that you are dishonest, you will break her trust and that can really be counterproductive.

e. Respect each other’s opinions and feelings
Do not dismiss her opinions even if they sounded “stupid” to you! Please take note of this and thank me later!

Drop all relationship /marital questions, issues, and troubles anonymously, or just vent and pour your heart out. We will respond on REVIVE Conversations by 9.00pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays –

How To Satisfy Your Wife

2. Prioritize Romance

The second thing you want to take note of is this. Romance is an important part of any marriage. Here are some ways to keep the romance alive:

a. Surprise your wife with small gestures, like bringing her favorite snacks or leaving her a romantic poem for her

b. Plan date nights. This helps you to be deliberate about your marriage. 

c. Show physical affection, like hugging and kissing. This shouldn’t be difficult. Is that what every man wants?

d. Do things together that you both enjoy. Find mutual activities and dive into it.

Dear singles, don’t even try to take “romance” to the physical level. Be nice, and courteous, and understand that you are the protector of her body, not the violator of it! 

How To Satisfy Your Wife

3. Keep the Sex Life Interesting

Singles, keep sex out completely. It’s not even on the menu! 

For couples, a healthy sex life is crucial to any marriage. Here are some tips to spice things up in the bedroom:

a. Communicate openly about your desires. Deal with inhibitions. 

b. Try new things, like different positions, but don’t break somebody’s daughter’s legs!

c. Take your time and focus on foreplay. She needs an average of twenty minutes foreplay unless you are doing a quickie! 

d. Be attentive to your wife’s needs and desires. That helps her to be responsive in bed.

How To Satisfy Your Wife

4. Show Appreciation

Showing appreciation is an important part of any relationship. Here are some ways to show your wife how much you appreciate her:

a. Compliment her. Do this deliberately, Single or Married. 

b. Say “thank you” Do not take her for granted, no matter how “little,” you think the effort is.

c. Do things for her without being asked. Be creative. 

This is where we will stop today! 

By following these tips, you can improve your relationship with your wife and keep your marriage strong and healthy. Remember to communicate effectively, prioritize romance, keep the sex life interesting, and show appreciation for your wife.


Are you aware you can Partner with our Ministry or give your tithe/offerings? Send a Whatsapp Message to +234 8023507395 and the details will be sent to you OR simply GO HERE. Blessings!

Subscribe by E-Mail

Vent Freely

Vent anonymously, disclose that age-long secret, talk about past abuses and free your mind, open up on marital issues anonymously and seek advice, and so on. All are done anonymously! Questions are answered during REVIVE CONVERSATIONS by 9.00pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays. Vent or Ask Questions Here –

Online Programmes

To get Involved, join as applicable:
Join COUPLES Hub 2

  1. Revive Prayers (6.00am daily) – Pray Now!
  2. Revive Conversations (9.00pm Tuesdays and Thursdays). See Episodes HERE
  3. Revive Healing Time (9.00pm Friday)
  4. Singles’ Hub Discussion (7.00pm Saturdays)
  5. Couples’ Hub Discussion (9.00pm Saturdays)

Follow on these handles to join the program:

Latest on Vents, Secrets, Issues, and Questions

Important Links

Join our Telegram Channel here to get updates

Subscribe to our Youtube Channel Here

CHURCH: Shouts of Grace Nation Ibadan

Latest From REVIVE Conversations – 9.00 pm Daily

Latest From REVIVE Prayers – 6.00 am Daily

Latest From Healing Services – 9.00 pm Fridays

Subscribe to our Youtube Channel

Latest From Shouts of Grace Nation

Extraordinary Services at Shouts of Grace Nation!

Do you live in the city of Ibadan and you don’t have a place of worship yet?

It will be a great honour to have you in our Services.
Location: Joke Plaza, Beside Trans Amusement Park, Bodija – UI Road, Ibadan

Tafabot Trading

Register Here
After Registering, Join Mon-Fri Zoom Training and Live Trading Sessions Dubai Time-5.00pm, Nigerian Time – 2.00pm. As a Tafabot member, you gain access to live trading sessions, hosted by Tafabot CTO and fintech trailblazer, Samuel Benedict.