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Continued from yesterday. You can read Part 1 HERE

The statement “I am your husband to be, you must obey everything I say whether you like it or not” is a fallacy.

Yes, you should obey because you will eventually have to submit after marriage, but you are to refuse any form of oppression, compromise and violation of God’s word.

I will give you another example.

He desperately is in need of money. He suggests you take money that doesn’t belong to you in your place of work because you head the accounting section. Technically, he is asking you to steal.

If you go ahead to do that in love, it is most likely he would not marry you, because the very seed that would scatter the relationship has been sown.

On another level, you would have offended God in your bid to keep a lover, and come to think of it, it is not your supposed “acts” of love that keeps the relationship, it is God’s favour. The question then is that why would you want to lose God’s favour because you want to keep the guy?

You don’t kick against the lover of your soul to keep the lover of your body!

So, this is clear, it is a wrong man that will insist that you compromise your faith and desecrate the covenant.

Walk away from that man without regrets. Walk away from such a man offering thanksgiving to God that you discovered such traits before walking down the aisle.

It is good for you to leave a wrong man as soon as you can because if the wrong man doesn’t go, the right man will not show up.

Some ladies try to wait for the right man while they hold on to the wrong man in case the right man doesn’t show up. The reality is that the right man is never going to show up like that. God doesn’t want you double dating!

This is why we also say you should know who you are getting married to before you walk down the aisle.

To be continued tomorrow

I will not miss it in marriage.

Lord, help me to trust you.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Pray for insight

John 3


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