Here’s Why You Cannot Just Fall In Love Carelessly

fall in love
Reading Time: 2 minutes

1. After emotional involvement, reasoning faculty becomes biased
After you fall in love with a person, the truth is that your reasoning faculty becomes biased in favour of that person, because of the deep feelings and emotional connection that often accompany the process of falling in love. If this is the case, it is wise then to be cautious about the person you fall in love with. For example, you want to be careful about developing a close friendship with an unbeliever, to avoid the possibility of falling in love with such a person. When you fall in love with such a person, you are going to close your eyes to the fact that such a person is not a child of God. You are going to turn a deaf ear to people around you who are warning you because you have fallen in love. So you see, you have to define your relationships.

One of the greatest humiliations one can be subjected to is in the hands of a wrong person you have fallen in love with but who is not in love with you! You will practically become a puppet, as it were, in the hands of a puppet master, wielding enormous power over your emotions, abusing you, and yet unable to disconnect…may you never be in that spot! It even gets worse when you become sexually involved with such a person and there are emotional ties. Have you ever being in a relationship with a person and everybody is warning you?

Your pastor calls you and says you are making a mistake. Your parents call you and warn you sternly about the person. Your closest friends call you and tell you something must be wrong with you. Deep down in your heart, even your conscience tells you that you are making a huge mistake. But you are in love…at such times, you really need to hit the pause button! Go and pray and ask God to help you. One of the ways you can pray is to first disconnect or distance yourself from that person so that your mind can be clear to pray.

I will conclude tomorrow.

I will not fall in love helplessly

Pray that God teaches you how to fall in love

Proverbs 18:22 (NKJV) He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.

Review your relationship

Prov 18

You can Give/Partner with us. You can get Books Via Amazon or Okadabooks. We are on Telegram!. You can Subscribe by E-mail and get notified. You can check life Changing Courses too! We have Video and Audio Resources too. Follow on Instagram too. You can Submit Prayers. Subscribe on YouTube Here. You can Join OIL FOR TODAY, by 5.30 am (FB, IG & Mixlr) and 6.00am (Youtube) Daily. See Sept. To Remember Prayer Points Here and Watch Video Here

Joke Plaza, Beside Trans Amusement Park, Bodija-UI Road, Ibadan.
Sundays: 7.30am & 9.00am, Wednesdays: 6.00pm

 287 total views,  5 views today

By Dunamis Okunowo

Facilitator at Kisses and Huggs Club. Pastor at Shouts of Grace Center, Ibadan. Pastor,  Father, Mentor, Writer, Husband.

2 thoughts on “Here’s Why You Cannot Just Fall In Love Carelessly

Leave a Reply

No widgets found. Go to Widget page and add the widget in Offcanvas Sidebar Widget Area.