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Four Types of Men Women Don’t Want. In today’s dynamic world, change and adjustments are crucial. The purpose of this devotional is not to castigate men, but to emphasize the responsibility that God has entrusted to us as the head of our households. It’s an enormous responsibility that requires our utmost attention.

If you belong to any of the categories of men listed below, it’s high time you reevaluated your actions and made the necessary changes.

Let’s explore the three types of men that women don’t want.

Four Types of Men Women Don’t Want

1. The Nocturnal Husband

Gone are the days of being a bachelor. You’re now married, and you need to come to terms with this new reality.

Why do you persist in staying out late? It sends the wrong signal and is generally frowned upon. If your spouse is uncooperative, seeking counseling or a viable solution is a better option than engaging in late-night shenanigans.

It’s inconsiderate to keep your wife up at night, especially if she needs to rest. Avoid environments that can potentially lead to infidelity.

Singles, take note – you don’t automatically change your habits after marriage. Therefore, it’s best to eliminate any negative habits while single.

Four Types of Men Women Don’t Want

2. The Manipulator

This type of man uses money or other material possessions to coerce his partner into submission.

In the end, this behavior breeds resentment, bitterness, hurt, and a wounded spouse. These traits are detrimental to any relationship, particularly a marriage.

Such relationships are abnormal and not in line with God’s plan for healthy, loving relationships that provide a conducive environment for raising children.

As a single person in a relationship, avoid introducing money or gifts as rewards or punishments. It only fosters a money-driven relationship that lacks true love.

Four Types of Men Women Don’t Want

3. The Non-Spiritual Husband

This man is reluctant to provide spiritual guidance for his family. He’s evasive, makes excuses, and doesn’t prioritize God in their lives.

He doesn’t read his Bible or pray. Without a deliberate and conscious relationship with God, a man is handicapped in providing spiritual leadership.

The head is where the eyes are located, and as the head of the household, a man is expected to provide vision and insight to his family. He is their compass and navigation system.

However, a man without a relationship with God cannot see beyond his nose. His vision is impaired, and his capacity for insight is limited.

Singles, be mindful of the person you’re committing to. Ask questions and take the time to get to know them properly.

In conclusion, these are the three types of men that women don’t want. May your marriage be blessed.

Four Types of Men Women Don’t Want

4. The Abuser and Gas-lighter 

These types of husbands are insecure. His insecurities are exhibited in being a control freak. He can’t allow his wife to have friends as everybody is a suspect. He resorts to abusive words and mental torture to put his wife under. He barrages her with words, constantly eroding her self-esteem till she believes she is good for nothing.

In some cases, domestic violence is involved as he would often go to any extent to tame his wife. This type of abuse may continue until he seeks help for his defects which he never sees or agrees with. This is why every marriage must have a mentor.


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