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For The Sisters, Ladies and Wives

The Feasting of the Eye 

So she followed him home or to some guest house for a meal.

Let’s just eat out.

May we not dine with the wrong person.

May we not eat up our destinies. 

The guy had more plans than just the meal.

Son 2:4 (MSG) He took me home with him for a festive meal, but his eyes feasted on me!

Ladies, be careful who buys free meals for you, you might be paying for it soonest.

Rather than for the guy to feast on the meal, his eyes were riveted on the damsel.

Essentially, men are moved by sight. Men, watch what you see. Ladies, watch what is seen. 

For The Sisters, Ladies and Wives

The Reciprocity of the Feasting

Son 2:5 (MSG) Oh! Give me something refreshing to eat—and quickly! Apricots, raisins—anything. I’m about to faint with love!

Ladies are enthralled by attention and non-verbal expressions of love.

She was going to faint with love. She felt more important as the guy refused to satisfy his hunger pangs and focused on his lust pangs.

She felt special, but there was a mix-up Their goals are different. The lady wants care, attention, and love. The guy wants a bedroom tango, period!

The contradiction of goals results in confusion of the soul. Two cannot walk together except they be agreed. 

For The Sisters, Ladies and Wives

The Physicality of The Desires

Son 2:6 (MSG) His left hand cradles my head, and his right arm encircles my waist!

In no time, his manifesto begins in aggressive fulfillment of intentions.

The left hand should be busy with the meal but travels to the head and cradles it lovingly or “lustingly?”

The right hand encircles the waist. Desire travels into blood veins.

The heart races and gallops like a horse who just sighted waters! The rush of adrenaline colliding with dopamine!

Hey! Destinies are about to be ruptured. Glorious futures are about to be tainted. Promising ministry hopefuls are about to morph into miseries!

For The Sisters, Ladies and Wives

The Stirring and the Warning

Son 2:7 (MSG) Oh, let me warn you, sisters in Jerusalem, by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer: Don’t excite love, don’t stir it up, until the time is ripe—and you’re ready.

Oh, there comes a warning! Don’t do it. Don’t excite love!

In a moment, his voice and words are so gentle and caressing, the next moment, his biceps pins you to the wall in a wicked hold, because love has been excited. Be warned!

Eh singles, the time is not ripe. You are not ready! Don’t let the “glee” take over the “flee!” It is time to flee!

Oh, let me warn you, sisters in Jerusalem, by the gazelles, yes, by all the wild deer…

The gazelles and the wild deer know how to run from the enemy! Run! Flee!

Married couples, what would you be doing in a guest house with someone you are not married to?

Don’t go to that guest house or hotel again. Don’t go and meet him on campus again. Don’t frolic with him in the office again. Don’t take his money again, because his money controls you.

Take a cue from the gazelles and the wild deer. When they see the lion crouching, they take off. They are not ready to be preyed upon.

Don’t be a prey! Dear sisters, caution! Dear wives, caution! 

God will guide you and the heavens will assist you!

God bless you!


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