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Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage

I call these mistakes foolish errors because we appear to want a better end, but our actions and judgments, whether good or poor, decide our fate.

Every time, universal law applies. Whether we are aware of it or not.

Seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, will continue as long as the earth exists.

Gen 8:22
As long as the earth continues, there will always be a time for planting and a time for harvest. There will always be cold and hot, summer and winter, day and night on earth.”

This rule applies to everyone. This scripture’s seed symbolizes everything and anything. Every action we take is a seed. This is a harsh reality that must be endured. But we must swallow it since it is the truth that will set us free.

If we understand that every action we take is a seed, we will be more careful not to plant the incorrect seeds in our marriage.

Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage

1. Failure to recognize the power of unity

Because the husband is the head of the marriage, he is responsible for the family’s orientation.

A husband and wife walking and working together as one have tremendous power. Protect your unity! 

2. The blunder of not loving your wife.

Every woman requires wings in order to fly. Every husband should let his wife fly by loving her. You create an environment in which your wife can thrive.

All husbands are commanded by the Bible to love their spouses. It is their obligation to love their wives as Christ loves the church.

1 Pet 3:7
In the same way, you husbands should live with your wives in an understanding way, since they are weaker than you. You should show them respect, because God gives them the same blessing he gives you—the grace of true life. Do this so that nothing will stop your prayers from being heard.

Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage

3. Making the dumb mistake of engaging in any type of immorality or adultery.

Immorality and adultery are among the destroyers of the marriage covenant. It has the power to bring every marriage to its knees, no matter how high it has risen.

According to Proverbs, it is a dumb sin. It makes no sense because it is preventable and avoidable.

That is why the bible instructs men to drink from their own cistern. Don’t fall for the strange woman’s charm, and don’t let her eyelashes trap you.

In any adulterous episode, the house has been destroyed, and the children have been exposed. It’s pointless.

4. The blunder of failing to be honest, open, and straightforward with your wife.

There is a local adage that claims the dead body does not hide from the one who will bury it.

Your covenant partner is your wife. I’m sure some wives don’t help situations either. They break confidence, cheat, and commit other heinous crimes. But, all else being equal, the spouse should be aware that he is expected to be completely honest.

Five Mistakes Men Make in Marriage

5. Making the blunder of oppressing your wife.

I am against the oppression of spouses and women.

Your wife was not given to you in order for you to oppress her. She should not be trampled beneath your feet. God created a lady from a rib taken from the husband’s side. God designed her to fulfill your most pressing need. She plays an important role in your life.

She is supposed to be your assistant. Most husbands have no financial, spiritual, emotional, or physical support. When you oppress your wife, she is unable to carry out her duties as a helpmeet. Every husband requires assistance. Your wife can provide the assistance you require.

If you treat her with decency and honor, she will protect you and your destiny will be safeguarded.

She will be the best wife, function in her calling, and fulfill destiny if you love her, adore her, honor her, appreciate her, and you are sensitive to her.

God bless you and your marriage.


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